Poetry Friday

Poetry Friday is hosted at ayuddha.net today.

I have two springtime poems today. One by Robert Frost is one of my favorites — I think I have posted it every April.

Spring

The sun was warm but the wind was chill.
You know how it is with an April day
When the sun is out and the wind is still,
You’re one month on in the middle of May.
But if you so much as dare to speak,
A cloud comes over the sunlit arch,
A wind comes off a frozen peak,
And you’re two months back in the middle of March.

– Robert Frost

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This second one is fairly new to me though it is an old hymn by John Wesley drawing parallels between springtime in the land and our need for spring-like renewal in our hearts.

Waiting For Spring

Though cloudy skies, and northern blasts,
Retard the gentle spring awhile;
The sun will conqu’ror prove at last,
And nature wear a vernal smile.

The promise, which from age to age,
Has brought the changing seasons round;
Again shall calm the winter’s rage,
Perfume the air, and paint the ground.

The virtue of that first command,
I know still does, and will prevail;
That while the earth itself shall stand,
The spring and summer shall not fail.

Such changes are for us decreed;
Believers have their winters too;
But spring shall certainly succeed,
And all their former life renew.

Winter and spring have each their use,
And each, in turn, his people know;
One kills the weeds their hearts produce,
The other makes their graces grow.

Though like dead trees awhile they seem,
Yet having life within their root,
The welcome spring’s reviving beam
Draws forth their blossoms, leaves, and fruit.

But if the tree indeed be dead,
It feels no change, though spring return,
Its leafless naked, barren head,
Proclaims it only fit to burn.

Dear LORD, afford our souls a spring,
Thou know’st our winter has been long;
Shine forth, and warm our hearts to sing,
And thy rich grace shall be our song.

-John Newton, 1779, from Olney Hymns, vol. 2, hymn 31

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Today is an extremely busy day, so it might be awhile before I catch up with some of my blog friends today, but I’ll be by eventually.

Happy Friday!

(The top graphic is from Microsoft Clipart, the bottom one from Graphic Garden.)

Booking Through Thursday: Library Week

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The weekly Booking Through Thursday question for today is:

Suggested by Barbara:

I saw that National Library week is coming up in April [12-18], and that led to some questions. How often do you use your public library and how do you use it? Has the coffeehouse/bookstore replaced the library? Did you go to the library as a child? Do you have any particular memories of the library? Do you like sleek, modern, active libraries or the older, darker, quiet, cozy libraries?

Thanks for using my question!

I remember the thrill of getting my very own library card in elementary school. I don’t remember going to the library other than through school. When my children were small I wanted them to have that “thrill,” too. We went to the library from the days they were toddlers, took out heaps of books that they then wanted me to read to them the rest of the day. I loved it. They got library cards when they were old enough to clearly print their names. We went to some of the special programs (meeting Mr. McFeely at one. Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood was their main childhood program, so that was fun). We participated in every summer reading program.

They loved to be read to when they were younger, and my oldest loved to read for himself, but the younger two left off reading for pleasure. That makes me so sad — I think they’d enjoy it if they tried it again, but they both say they’re not a “reading kind of guy.” 😦 But, consequently, somewhere along the way we gradually stopped going to the library.

I worked in the university library while in college. I enjoyed studying there, particularly since I had access to a couple of quiet spots away from the crowd, but it was too busy then to wander around looking at books for pleasure. I do remember when I was being trained for the reference room that I was pretty scared of the responsibility of helping students find resources they needed (in the day before the Internet), but I also discovered the library had a wealth of resources that were probably unknown to most people. In my senior year they began building the new library, so it’s not recognizable to me any more.

I don’t go to the library much these days unless I am looking for a classic or trying out a new author. I read mostly Christian fiction, and most libraries aren’t current in that genre except for the best sellers, like the Left Behind and Mitford series.

There is something cozy about the older, darker libraries. If I were going to the library to sit down and read, I would prefer the old-fashioned kind. The sleek modern ones were a little intimidating to me at first — they just seemed so busy and bright and scattered. But I have gotten more used to them now and I love the efficiency of them. They still don’t seem very inviting to me, though. They seemed designed more to get your business done and get out.

My oldest likes to go to the coffeehouse bookstores. To him that’s a pleasant evening out. I haven’t really gone to them to sit down and read — I guess I am still not used to being able to take coffee over to a chair and pick out a book to read there. I’d be expecting someone to tell me food and drink aren’t allowed where they could be spilled on the merchandise (do they have a “you spill, you buy” policy, I wonder?), and I keep expecting someone to tap me on the shoulder and tell me if I am going to read the book, I need to go ahead and buy it. Usually when I go I know what I want, and I get it and leave. But if I wanted to check a book or author I was unsure of, I’d welcome the opportunity to sit down and read a little more extensively before deciding to buy the book. In that case I probably would check the library first.

I’ve just realized that I’ve lost that pleasurable strolling through aisles of books and discovering treasures. I remember finding books I really enjoyed just by looking around within a certain category. I should probably try that again — after I get my to-be-read stack whittled down.

There is another special memory the library holds for me: that’s where I met my husband.

O Baby!

(My ABC Challenge post is here.)

I saw at Linda’s 2nd Cup of Coffee that Rachel at In His Hands is having a picture carnival called O Baby, asking people to post pictures of themselves as babies and little ones.

This is one of the earliest I have. I was maybe 6 months old there, with my mom and dad. In all of my “posed” baby pictures my hair is combed like that — must have been the style for babies then?

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They both had all that curl and my hair is straight as a board.

Actually, here is an even earlier one with my grandparents. I wonder why I didn’t inherit their skinny genes?

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In this one I am about three. I’m told they couldn’t get me to smile for the picture til they gave me some pennies.

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I’m with my little brother here one Easter. I must’ve been about 5 or 6 or so, and he would have been 1 or 2.

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This is one of my favorites from 4th or 5th grade.

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That was all before color was invented. 🙂 This one from 6th grade is, I think, the first colored photo I have of myself. I had to sleep in rollers and Dippetty Doo to get even that little bit of wave!

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You can join in the fun or see others’ photos from childhood at In His Hands.

Melli’s ABC Challenge: U and V

It’s time again for Melli’s ABC photo challenge. We’re supposed to look for letters in common everyday things or in nature without actually manipulating anything to make the letter and without photographing the letter itself in a word or sign. We’re doing two letters a week, and this week it is U and V.

I think U has been the hardest letter for me so far. At first the only thing I could find that remotely looked like a U was this sideways one on my husband’s bicycle:

ABC Photo Challenge: U

And I saw a lot or arches all over town, which I considered as an upside-down U, but I wanted to find a “real” right-side up one. Finally yesterday I noticed this planter at my mother-in-law’s place was in a U shape.

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It will probably look a lot nicer in a few weeks — things are just starting to bloom and green up here.

Then I also noticed the pocket on this little sewing caddy also looked like a U:

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My mom gave that to me many years ago.

I noticed a lot of windows with these types of Vs in an arch:

ABC Photo Challenge: V

ABC Photo Challenge: V

This heart-shaped metal door decoration also is in a V shape, at least along the two outer sides:

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And I think the hearts on these shelves look like stylized Vs:

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…but that may be stretching it a bit. I could have used that for S, too!

You can visit Melli’s for links to the other players to see what they came up with, or to join in.

Works-For-Me-Wednesday: Towel Fuzz

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Works for Me Wednesday is a “backwards edition” this week, wherein we can ask a question for all the experienced experts out there.

My question is this: some of the new towels I buy sprout fuzz balls over over themselves and everything else in the washer the first several times they’re washed. Sometimes after repeated washing and drying it finally stops doing so, but some of them just keep on. I don’t know if it has to do with the quality of the towel: I’ve gotten them at three different places, and it hasn’t seemed to have made a difference. Any ideas?

Works For Me Wednesday is now hosted at We Are That Family.

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I was surprised recently to see this sign in front of a place of business:

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I guess that’s not so unusual in itself, except the place of business was this:

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I wonder what kinds of food a gas station caters? Hot dogs? Pre-made sandwiches in little plastic boxes?

Somehow I don’t think I’ll be calling them for the ladies’ luncheon. 🙂

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That’s the sound of me hitting my chair after a very busy weekend. I don’t know that I have ever gone 48 hours without posting since I started this blog.

About a week ago we were asked if we would host a fellowship for the teen guys Sunday night if their sponsors provided the food for it. It happened to be right in between other tasks and seemed like a good time, so we agreed. I had been wanting to host one of the teen fellowships (sometimes they are all together, sometimes it’s just guys or girls or just jr. or sr. high), but kept thinking I wanted to get the curtains done for the family room plus this, that, and the other. But there will always be house projects lined up. And guys probably won’t notice those things.

But having people over — even teen guys — led to a day of cleaning yesterday. We “divided and conquered.” I always feel a little guilty when Jim helps to clean because he leaves for work early and gets home late and just about doesn’t have time for anything else during the week. I hate for him to spend his weekends cleaning. But he saw my master list of things I wanted to get accomplished this weekend and just pitched in. He even told the boys to take on one more “job” than what I has assigned to them. One thing on my list was to take the little grate at the bottom of the refrigerator off and clean it and then to clean the top of the refrigerator. Jim got started on that, and in the “one thing led to another” department, went above and beyond and ended up taking everything out of all the shelves and racks and cleaning out the whole thing. I have to say it did make me smile today to open the refrigerator and see everything gleaming.

It’s especially nice to have everything all caught up in the cleaning department because the next few weeks are going to be really busy: ladies newsletter/booklet this week, then gearing up for the ladies’ luncheon at the end of April. Our school is hosting a yard sale this weekend that I hope to get some things sorted out for: it’s a good place to sell outgrown school uniforms, if nothing else. Then Jason is in a special program at his school in April, plus Easter is coming up, plus a bridal shower next week.

One funny thing in the midst of all the cleaning yesterday: Jason had vacuumed the living room floors, and just a short time later there were several dark specks on it that looked like someone’s sock fuzz. He said something like, “It is so aggravating to see stuff on the floor when I just vacuumed it.” I thought, “Welcome to my world, dear.” 🙂

Then, I had been wanting to use some Christmas money from my step-father and my husband’s mother to get an end table for the living room, and just got to that yesterday. I had seen one in a store months ago and went back to look at it. I wanted it in white, and they only had one. The drawer seemed to have a little warped place in it and what looked like a crack, but it seemed stable — we likely won’t be putting anything heavy in there. Now, if my husband had been with me, he would have asked right off the bat if they’d take some off the price for the defect. It used to embarrass me to death when he did, but quite often he would get things marked down. I’m the type of person who gets embarrassed just trying to make a return to a store to to tell a waiter my food isn’t right. But this time I just plunged in and asked if they’d take anything off the price. Well, they said, it’s already a good price, and, the good thing was if you closed the drawer you wouldn’t be able to see it…and I just kept standing there. And finally they gave me $20 off. I thought, “Jim would be so proud of me!”

Back to the fellowship (yes, I’m rambling…) it was very nice. The guys played the Wii and ate meatball subs and cupcakes. When they sang and then were asked to share a verse or a testimony, I was very pleased that there were no awkward silences or staring at the floor — they seemed to jump right in. And it was neat to see Jesse in that setting. Of course, he’s had friends over many times, one or two at a time, but I wondered how he did in the group as a whole, and he seemed to do ok.

One other exciting thing this weekend — I think I’ve found my “mother of the groom dress.”

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What do you think? It’s funny how it’s almost exactly like what I had pictured in my mind. It’s more than I would normally spend…but how often does a son get married? To find something I like, in my size…I’m thinking I’ll go ahead and order it in the morning. I tend to overthink catalog purchases until the item is no longer available — probably a good thing, most of the time, but I’d hate for that to happen with this.

So…those are my “stray thoughts” from this weekend. I think I am going to go wind down with a book.

Friday’s Fave Fives

friday-fave-five-springSusanne at Living to Tell the Story hosts a “Friday Fave Five” in which we share our five favorite things from the past week. Click on the button to read more of the details.

So here are some of my favorite things from the past week.

1. These cute Easter sticky notes from my “secret sister” from our ladies’ group at church:

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2. There is a new thrift store between our house and my mother-in-law’s place that I’ve been wanting to visit, and I finally got to yesterday. Found some neat stuff!

This accent table:

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I’m thinking about painting it white.

This cute spring decoration:

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And this heart-shaped box:

Thrift store finds

3. Getting the caterer and menu set for our upcoming ladies’ luncheon. The menu is probably the hardest part, trying to decide between all the great-sounding choices. But that’s one more big thing to check off the list for this event.

4. Wed. night at church, a lady was asking me about Jason’s plans. She thought he was getting married in May after graduation, and she was wondering how his job search was going. I told her their wedding date was in August so that he could work and save up some money over the summer, and we discussed some of the options he was exploring for after graduation. She responded something to the effect that knowing that his wedding was later in the summer would change the way she prayed for him. It was such a blessing to know not only that someone was praying, but praying specifically and intelligently for him.

Then a little later on a similar thing happened: I stopped to ask a question of the lady who has being doing the “leg work” for the program part of the ladies’ luncheon (and boy, has that been a blessing! I’ve never had anyone to do that before. I should give her her own listing here!!) She asked me about the decorations and favors: I told her I had some ideas “incubating” and hoped to have them set in the next few days. She mentioned that she had been praying for me about that, and I thought, “Wow!” That just blessed me to no end. General “How’s it going?” questions are great, general prayer is great, but when someone unexpectedly is praying specifically for you and your family — well, it was just a major blessing! And a rebuke, for too often I fail in that area.

5. Wednesday’s night’s message by a guest speaker was another blessing — one of those sermons that just stays with you for days, and your mind turns it over and over and continues to learn from it. The speaker was a missionary and the brother of one of our ladies. Some years back he and his family were ministering in Siberia when they suddenly found they had to leave. I don’t remember now the details, but I think it had to do with their visas being due to expire, and their renewal was refused. So he had friends, family, and supporting pastors calling and asking what he was going to do now, and all he could say was, “I don’t know.” He brought out what God taught him at that time, that the destination isn’t so much the goal as the direction. He pointed out that Paul tried to go to Asia to preach the gospel, but the Holy Spirit wouldn’t let him; Abraham was called to leave his relatives and home and head out, but he didn’t know ultimately where he was going, and several others in Scripture who were faithfully doing what God called them to and heading in the direction He sent them without knowing, at least at the time, where they were headed or why they seemed to be stuck in a holding pattern for a while. We’ve been in that situation so many times, both in little things and in major questions of jobs and locations. The Bible says much about our “walk” as Christians, and a walk is made up of individual steps. We may not know where we will ultimately end up (at least on this globe: as Christians we know the final destination), but we just need to faithfully follow the steps just ahead and trust Him for the rest.

Of course, he said it a lot better. 🙂

Well, as I was jotting down things I could include as favorites for this week, I had a couple more. One was fresh strawberries being in season (I used to say one of the first signs of spring was strawberry shortcake. I still haven’t made that yet, but we have enjoyed a couple of rounds of fresh strawberries with breakfast). And the other had to do with my annual doctor’s visit — IT’S not one of my favorites, but the fact that it’s over for another year is!

You can visit Susanne‘s for more favorites from the week, or to add your own!

Booking Through Thursday: Best Bad Book?

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The weekly Booking Through Thursday question for today is:

Suggested by Janet:

The opposite of last week’s question: “What’s the best ‘worst’ book you’ve ever read — the one you like despite some negative reviews or features?”

I’ve been pondering this question for the last hour or so while going about my morning routine. I can’t think of anything recent, though there might be something not coming to mind. I don’t really choose books based on what the general public or professional reviews say, but I do like to read reviews and recommendations of people I know to some degree.

In that vein, I’ve been surprised to see through various book challenges and memes that a lot of people don’t like Dickens. I love Dickens. His were some of the first classics I read as an adult. I recently saw David Copperfield describes as somewhat vapidly standing still while all the action happened around him. I was shocked. To me David Copperfield is all about character development. Here is a child starting out with several strikes against him — his father dies before he is born, his mother marries the cold, hard, authoritarian Mr. Murdstone who eventually sends David away, he faces cruelty at boarding school and a brief stint in factory work, his mother dies — he could have turned into a criminal, a “victim,” or a hard and bitter man, yet he becomes a man of character and decency. In fact, he is one of the few normal people in the book amidst the almost caricatural Micawber, Uriah Heep, and Aunt Betsey Trotwood.

I’ve also been surprised to discover that a lot of Christian women don’t like Janette Oke, and the term “prairie romances,” which I think must be aimed at her work since her first series (Love Comes Softly) and many of her other books took place on the prairie, used derogatorily. (I don’t know why we can say a certain genre just doesn’t appeal to us without having to be negative about it). Though I had read Not My Will by Francena Arnold and a couple of Eugenia Price books beforehand, my love of Christian fiction began with Mrs. Oke. Her books weren’t just simple stories to me, or even “romances” — there were illustrations of spiritual truth fleshed out in both the crises and the everyday lives of her characters. To me that’s what the best of Christian fiction does.

Some time I’d love to revisit both Dickens and some of Janette Oke’s earlier works to see if they still speak to me as they did years ago. I think they would: I think that’s what defines a classic.

If you like, you can visit the Booking Through Thursday site to see what others thought about this question.

(Updated to add: since I mentioned Janette Oke, I thought some might be interested in reading about author Kim Vogel Sawyer meeting Janette at the Christian Book Expo here.)

ABC Photo Challenge: S and T

It’s Wednesday, time again for Melli’s ABC photo challenge. We’re supposed to look for letters in common everyday things or in nature without actually manipulating anything to make the letter and without photographing the letter itself in a word or sign. We’re doing two letters a week, and this week it is S and T.

I found many more S’s than I thought I would. This first one is on a bench outside our church doors:

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This is scroll work on a picture frame:

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This is on my bread box:

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Looking at it now, it actually does have more swirls than a regular S, doesn’t it? But my main impression was an S.

There are three in sight here on my baker’s rack, one in the brass-ish color and two in white on their sides on top:

ABC Photo Challenge: S

I debated about whether to use this one, because the S is backwards. I thought about flipping it, but it would be obvious because the sign would then be backwards. But I thought doing the mulch this way was unusual.

ABC Photo Challenge: S

Then I didn’t find as many T’s as I thought I would. The first one is at the end of the brick edging next to the driveway.

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Would you call the pillar with the decorative work a T shape?

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That was a cross stitch piece one of my sisters did for me.

There is a T in the back of the rocking chair:

One of the set of Paula Vaughn prints

This is a little plaque in my hallway:

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You can visit Melli’s to see a list of links to the other participants. It’s been fun each week to see what everyone comes up with!

An update from yesterday’s post: everyone is much better. Jesse is a lot perkier, though his appetite isn’t back 100 % and he had a headache when he went to bed. But overall both “patients” are much improved.

Happy Wednesday!