Family news and ramblings

One of our first times watching TV here in Tennessee, something came on about a “Volunteer Newscast.” Jeremy and I couldn’t believe that they would let people volunteer to do newscasts, but thought it would be fun. Then we learned that the University of Tennessee is big here, and their team is The Volunteers. Tennessee is, in fact, “The Volunteer State,” so there are multiple signs and businesses with Volunteer This and Volunteer That. So — I felt a little foolish. But I still think an actual volunteer newscast would be fun. πŸ˜€

Last weekend we went back to SC to celebrate my birthday with the kids and then Jim and Jeremy loaded up all Jeremy’s worldly goods onto a U-Haul, and they spent Sunday afternoon through Monday morning driving to RI. They thought they were going around NYC, but found out they were going right into Manhattan when it was too late to do anything about it but keep going. Driving a U-Haul truck which is pulling a trailer with a car on it through Manhattan is harrowing. Actually, I think the word they used was “nightmare.” I was glad that when I was praying for safety that I was praying in ignorance…

One of Jeremy’s neighbors helped them unload everything into a second floor apartment. I imagine that was fun. πŸ™‚ They had to partially take the box springs apart to get it in and then put it back together.

There were several little blessings along the way. Safety was the main one. The fact that the couch he bought from a friend just before leaving SC matched his living room carpet perfectly. The fact that the next door neighbor seems to be a Christian and had just returned from a camp we were familiar with. The fact that the neighbor was there when they were wrestling with the box springs and told them he had had the same problem and how he took his apart to get it in.

I was glad Jim was able to go with him and help him get settled in, rather than just sending him off on his own. He said they had some good talks along the way.

Though Jeremy is excited about his new job and first apartment and starting to live on his own, the reality is setting in about being away from family. I was feeling almost panicky when Jim left him Wednesday morning to come home, feeling like I was leaving my son all alone in a strange city. But he’s not totally alone. He has met his neighbor, he knows the guy he will be working with, and most importantly, the Lord is with him.

One special blessing for me was that as I was driving around Wednesday, I heard part of a message on the radio from a speaker I was familiar with talking about experiences when her first son went away to college and how the Lord brought different people across his path who ministered to him. Isn’t the Lord good to have that message on right when I was in the car on the day my son was being left on his own in a new city? It just reinforced something that has been on my mind concerning my children: “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6).

But we’re all missing each other sorely — Jason and Mittu, too, left behind in SC.

And now that every single member of my immediate family has moved in the last three weeks — hopefully we can all settle into new routines. And we’re planning to get together at Thanksgiving. I am already looking forward to it!

Jesse’s been doing well in school — still a little nervous, but doing okay.

A couple of people asked whether I’d have a craft/sewing room in this house. Yes, the third bedroom will be “my”room. My dear husband is kind enough to let me have that while his office things are in the garage in what will one day be an additional room (the garage has some extra space in front of where the cars will be parked which we want to turn into a room some time in the next year or so). I’m working on it last and getting the living areas taken care of first, so it is just stacked with boxes right now. We want to get a futon to put in it for when we have overnight guests. I probably need to go ahead and get my sewing machine set up, though, as I have a couple of little mending jobs that need attention.

I’ve been rotating between setting up housekeeping, unpacking boxes (after you get the major stuff out, then you can only do so much at one time before your brain feels fried. All those little things that I didn’t know what to do with and tucked into drawers or shelves over the years are now showing up in the boxes requiring decisions about where to put them!), running errands, seeing Grandma, and writing people about our change of address.

Better get back to business now!

10 thoughts on “Family news and ramblings

  1. God is SO good! I LOVE hearing stories about how He has worked! I JUST love it! I’m sure Jeremy is going to be fine – that is WONDERFUL that his neighbor is a Christian! WOW! Yep… I LOVE it!

    Sounds like things are plugging along for you. I, too, need to get off the computer and get busy today! I have a lot to get done THIS DAY.

  2. Get use to the color orange as well :). I think that type of newscast would be fun as well. You know I think as a child mom’s never ever get use to the fact of their kids not being at home. I can’t imagine driving through the middle of NYC in a car let alone with a U-Haul. Bravo. Nice neighbor anyhow lucky he was there to help. Sounds like all is going well Glad to hear that. Just take one day at a time. You have frequent flier miles? LOL

  3. You know, I think I see God’s hand in the scattering of your family. You have all been given something new to focus on and build, to help distract you from missing one another. If you were all together you might be more insistent on clinging to known routines and miss the new stuff in store for you.

  4. The volunteer story was cute. LOL. Something I so totally would have thought too had I not realized.

    So nice to hear how God has taken care of you all in this major family move. Wow, it really hit me the undertaking when you said that every member of your immediate family had moved. What an undertaking.

  5. Wow. This is really a season of change for your family!

    It sounds like your sense of God’s blessing is keen in it all. That’s truly wonderful.

  6. Empty nest, well almost. I’m sure it is much different with just the three of you there…I liked what you said about the Volunteers…Obviously, you’re not a fan of college football. You’ve moved right into the heart of it…
    I know how you’re feeling. It is a bit overwhelming, isn’t it..but it will sort its self out. I’m happy for you that you’ll be spending Thanksgiving together.
    Its been almost a year since I’ve seen my son and his family. He is getting ready to be deployed again and will be over in Georgia at Fort Gordon for 6 weeks. I am trying to plan how I might get to visit him there.
    Have a good weekend.
    Mama Bear

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  8. That is so wonderful, Barbara, that the Lord knew just what you needed. He IS so mindful of us! What a faithful Saviour we have!
    So glad to hear that all is working out for Jeremy, especially since he is so far from “home”, which will always be wherever you and Jim are. πŸ™‚
    And in the midst of all the moving, I pray you are able to enjoy the process….sorting and finding a home for everything, organizing and so on. Just do a little at a time and one day, it will all be done!! πŸ™‚

  9. You have been doing so much for the move and I think you’re a wonderful role model in everything. I’m glad your son is settling well into his new job and apartment. In my case, I’m doing fabulously well as well. So I’m sure your son is doing great and God is with him all the way! The same way He is with you and the rest of your family.

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