Don’t forget the grace

A year or two ago some stores began forbidding their employees to say “Merry Christmas” lest it offend non-Christians. That led to a backlash by Christians toward those who would take Christ out of Christmas and transform it into a generic winter holiday.

While I do agree that that forbidding employees to say “Merry Christmas” is going ridiculously too far (that was one thing I hated about working in retail sales: everything from how you answered the phone to how you dealt with customers had to follow a prescribed script, though general conversation was also encouraged) and I do believe there is a general secularization of American society away from it Biblical roots, and I grieve that, on the other hand not every person who says “Happy Holidays” is a rabid politically correct anti-Christian.

Some might not mean anything amiss by it. I’ve said or written “Happy Holidays” for years. It started when I first began signing Christmas cards “Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year,” got weary halfway through, and changed to “Happy Holidays” or “Season’s Greetings.”

Some just might want to include the other holidays, like Hanukkah, celebrated this time of year in their well-wishing.

And even if a “Happy Holiday” wisher is a rabid politically correct anti-Christian….what good does a snarky chip-on-the-shoulder response do? Unfortunately I have heard and read such responses this season. We need to remember to “Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time. Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man” (Colossians 4:5). Salt — truth — yes, but with grace.

5 thoughts on “Don’t forget the grace

  1. Society seems to go ridiculously too far very year
    The latest I heard is that Santa cant say his joyful greeting anymore as it is too close to what some people call a prostitute
    In our house we remember the real reason for the season but also acknowledge that Santa is part of our celebrations
    My Little Man of course cant say Santa he is only 2 he can say the greeting (I described above) I am ready to advocate if I have to

    PS I am not using certain words here only so you my friend dont get any fools messing with your blog

  2. Oh, how I agree with you, Barbara!!!! I’ve always liked the phrase “Season’s Greetings” on Christmas cards, and never hesitated to use cards with that on them – till now. Now I’m afraid I’ll offend a Christian who might think I don’t take Christ seriously at Christmas! LOL And I have always called the time of year between Thanksgiving and New Year’s “the holidays” so Happy Holidays, to me, just means I’m wishing you a happy season – not taking Christ out of Christmas. How I wish everything didn’t have to be so political!

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