My favorite posts of the year

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Around this time of year, I like to skim back through the year’s old posts to find the ones I especially want to remember. I love the book reviews, weekly recounting of blessings in the Friday Fave Fives, the occasional meme or “stray thoughts” post, but I especially like to look over the posts where I thought through an issue by writing.

Before I did that, though, I received an e-mail from WordPress with some of my “year in review” stats. According to those stats, my most often read post is once again Coping When Husband Is Away from 2011. I had no idea when I wrote that it would hit such a nerve, and while I can’t say I liked the circumstances discussed there, I am glad God is using it to help other women in the same boat.

An odd thing, though, is that none of the top ten viewed posts according to my stats were posts from this year. In fact, the top two written this year, my review of Out of a Far Country by Christopher and Angela Yuan and Elisabeth Elliot In Heaven were way, way down the list of top viewed posts for the year. I don’t know what to make of that. 🙂

Anyway – on to this year’s posts:

January:

Are We Responsible For God’s Reputation?

February:

The Quiet Person in the Small Group.

Finding Time to Read.

How Not to Become An Old Biddy.

March:

“Special” Music in the Church.

Why Listen to Audiobooks?

Is It Nice to Call Someone a False Prophet or a False Teacher?

April:

Praying for the Lost Scripturally.

A very special birthday.

Camouflaging Dirt.

When the Message Isn’t For Me.

May:

Finding Time to Read the Bible.

Spots and Wrinkles.

Dealing With Caregiver Resentment and A Few More Thoughts on Caregiver Resentment.

June:

Is it more important to be nice or to be right?

Elisabeth Elliot In Heaven.

Not a long life, but a full one.

July:

Upcoming surgery is not a favorite because of the surgery or the post, but because of your sweet comments after I bared my heart over several concerns.

Exceeding Abundantly, But Unseen.

It’s ok to say it hurts.

Fallow Hearts.

August: None. Must not have done any deep thinking that month. 🙂 Actually, I was recovering from a procedure at the beginning of the month, then my son was in town for a week later in the month, so I was otherwise occupied.

September:

Middle Child and Other Syndromes.

October was mostly 31 Days With Elisabeth Elliot.

November:

Help For Changing Thought Patterns.

From Depletion to Abundance.

Am I Doing Any Good?

December: Another busy month.

So that’s it for this year! It’s so hard to believe 2015 is about to come to an end. Thank you for reading and for making the blogging experience so enjoyable!

 

Favorite Books of 2015

When I make up my list of books read for the year, I aim to choose about ten favorites, but I give myself permission to go higher or lower, depending on the books. 🙂 Here are my favorite books of the 68 read this year (but not published this year); each title links back to my review of it. They are favorites for different reasons. I may not have agreed with every point in every book, but each book greatly informed, helped, encouraged, touched, or convicted me in a big way.

Running Scared

Running Scared: Fear, Worry, and the God of Rest by Edward T. Welch. This would be my #1, top favorite, most helpful book read this year.

Far Country

Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son’s Journey to God. A Broken Mother’s Search for Hope by Christopher and Angela Yuan. This would probably be #2. So astounding the way God brought both mother and son to Himself.

The rest of the books are in no particular order.

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Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl by Lysa TerKeurst was not necessarily about getting more out of your Bible reading, though that’s discussed: it’s more about “to move Bible study from our to-do list and just acquiring knowledge, to living out what God is teaching us, to enjoy a deeper connection with God.”

Being Mortal

Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters In the End by Atul Gawand. As I said in my review, if you plan on getting old or dying or helping parents as they age, you need to read this book. The author and I look at life from different worldviews, so I didn’t agree with every single point, but I so appreciated his honest look at aging and death and the multitudes of facets of it to think about.

Atomic City

The Girls of Atomic City: The Untold Story of the Women Who Helped Win World War II by Denise Kiernan was a fascinating look at the then-secret complex involved in processing uranium for the first atomic bomb – only most of the employees had no idea what that’s what they were doing until after the bomb was dropped.

I Dared to Call Him Father

I Dared to Call Him Father: The Miraculous Story of a Muslim Woman’s Encounter with God by Bilquis Sheikh. Bilquis was a Pakistani Muslim woman who began studying both the Bible and the Quran, searching for truth. Understanding that the Bible portrayed God as a loving Father was pivotal in turning her to faith in Jesus Christ.

Knowing God

Knowing God by J. I. Packer. I don’t know how I missed it all these years, but it definitely deserves its place as a Christian classic.

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I Deserve a Donut (And Other Lies That Make You Eat) and Taste For Truth: A 30 Day Weight Loss Bible Study by Barb Raveling. I appreciate Barb’s straightforward style and the truths she brought out of her studies of the Bible. I need to reread them again already.

Walking With God

Walking With God in the Season of Motherhood by Melissa B. Kruger. I first read this because of a link I saw to a post on Melissa’s blog in order to see if I could recommend it to you moms and became convicted and instructed myself.

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The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry started out really odd to me, but as the themes began to emerge and the layers unfolded, I loved it.

Yearling

 

The Yearling by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings is about a young boy who adopts a pet fawn, but on another level it’s about his own growing up. Loved this on many levels.

Butterfy and the Violin

The Butterfly and the Violin by Kristy Cambron is about the search for the story behind a painting of a young woman with piercing eyes, a shaved head, and a number tattooed on her wrist holding a violin. A gripping, fascinating, heart-breaking, yet beautiful story.

Swan House

The Swan House by Elizabeth Musser has several threads, but it’s mainly about a teen-age girl from a wealthy family in Atlanta in the 1960s facing family tragedy, becoming aware that her mother may have a more serious problem than an artistic temperament, becoming aware of the black community, and developing her faith. I love the two Musser books I have read and need to read the others.

Taken

Taken by Dee Henderson tells about a long-missing kidnap victim who escapes and then helps an investigator find and capture the people involved, who are part of a large network of abductors. Dee’s books are always fascinating to me, both in the story and in the characters journey of faith.

Screwtape

The Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis. This is another classic I just got to this year. Lewis’s cleverness as a writer and thinker shines here, and his way of expressing truth from the Enemy’s point of view really makes one think.

Most of the books I read this year affected me for the better in some way, but these stood out above the rest.

What were your favorite books read this year?

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 Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books

Books Read in 2015

At the end of the year I like to list the books I’ve read, for my own records and to remind myself of them. This is something I would be doing anyway, but Sherry at Semicolon invites us this Saturday to share any kinds of books lists – all we’ve read, or just favorites, or reading plans for the coming year, or whatever – in the usual Saturday Review of Books space.

I’ve divided these into a few genres and alphabetized them the old-school way I was taught, disregarding articles at the beginning. Each title links back to my review – or should, if I haven’t messed them up. 🙂 I haven’t differentiated between audiobooks and paper ones, but many of the classics and a few of the other fiction titles were audiobooks. Even with audiobooks, though, I looked at many passages of the book in print either from a Kindle version, library copy, or a Project Gutenberg online edition of the book.

Shortly I’ll have a post up with my favorites from these lists.

Non-fiction:

365 Meditations for Grandmothers by Grandmothers from six different authors
Becoming More Than a Good Bible Study Girl by Lysa TerKeurst
Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters In the End by Atul Gawande
Better To Be Broken by Rick Huntress
A Captain’s Duty: Somali Pirates, Navy Seals, and Dangerous Days at Sea by Richard Phillips
Caregiver Devotions To Go by Gigi Murfitt
Daily Light on the Daily Path, not reviewed
Everyday Grace: Infusing All Your Relationships With the Love of Jesus by Jessica Thompson
Feeding Your Appetites: Taking Control of What’s Controlling You by Stephen Arterburn
Gentle Savage Still Seeking the End of the Spear: The Autobiography of a Killer and the Oral History of the Waorani by Menkaye Aenkaedi with Kemo and Dyowe
The Girls of Atomic City: The Untold Story of the Women Who Helped Win World War II by Denise Kiernan
He Is There and He Is Not Silent by Francis Schaeffer
I Dared to Call Him Father: The Miraculous Story of a Muslim Woman’s Encounter with God by Bilquis Sheikh
Growing Up Amish: A Memoir by Ira Wagler
I Deserve a Donut (And Other Lies That Make You Eat) by Barb Raveling
Knowing God by J. I. Packer
A Million Little Ways: Uncover the Art You Were Made to Live by Emily Freeman
The Monday Morning Club: You’re Not Alone — Encouragement For Women in Ministry by Claudia Barba
My Emily by Matt Patterson
The Narnian: The Life and Imagination of C. S. Lewis by Alan Jacobs
Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son’s Journey to God. A Broken Mother’s Search for Hope by Christopher and Angela Yuan
The Problem of Pain by C. S. Lewis
The Pound a Day Diet by Rocco DiSpirito
The Pursuit of God by A. W. Tozer
Running Scared: Fear, Worry, and the God of Rest by Edward T. Welch
She Is Mine: A War Orphan’s Incredible Journey of Survival by Stephanie Fast
Songs of the Morning: Stories and Poems for Easter compiled by Pat Alexander
Taste For Truth: A 30 Day Weight Loss Bible Study by Barb Raveling
Walking With God in the Season of Motherhood by Melissa B. Kruger

Classics:

All Creatures Great and Small by James Herriot
By the Shores of Silver Lake
by Laura Ingalls Wilder
The Case-Book of Sherlock Holmes
by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
The Dead Secret
by Wilkie Collins
Emily Climbs by L. M. Montgomery
Grimm’s Fairy Tales
(only about 14 of them)
His Last Bow: Some Later Reminiscences of Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Little Dorrit by Charles Dickens
The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
The Long Winter by Laura Ingalls Wilder
The Masqueraders by Georgette Heyer
Pygmalion by George Bernard Shaw
Quo Vadis: A Narrative of the Time of Nero by Henryk Sienkiewicz
The Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis
The Valley of Fear by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
The Yearling by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy

Christian fiction:

The Butterfly and the Violin by Kristy Cambron
The Captive Maiden by Melanie Dickerson
Child of Mine by David and Beverly Lewis
Christmas Lessons by Patty Smith Hall
Christy by Catherine Marshall
Come Rain or Come Shine by Jan Karon
Emma, Mr. Knightly, and Chili Slaw Dogs by Mary Hathaway
The Fairest Beauty by Melanie Dickerson
Forever Christmas by Robert Tate Miller
Lizzy and Jane by Katherine Reay
A Promise Kept by Robin Lee Hatcher
The River by Beverly Lewis
Strait of Hormuz by Davis Bunn
The Swan House by Elizabeth Musser
Taken by Dee Henderson
Things We Once Held Dear by Ann Tatlock
Through Waters Deep by Sarah Sundin
To See the Moon Again by Jamie Langston Turner
To Whisper Her Name by Tamera Alexander
Where Treetops Glisten: Three Stories of Heartwarming Courage and Christmas Romance During World War II by Cara Putnam, Sarah Sundin, and Tricia Goyer

Other Fiction:

The Incorrigible Children of Ashton Place, Book 5: The Unmapped Sea by Maryrose Wood
The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie
by Alan Bradley

By my count, that’s 68, 14 of them audiobooks. I’m amazed that 28 of them are non-fiction. I don’t usually gravitate to non-fiction, but reading challenges help me incorporate them.

It’s been a good reading year, and I am already looking forward to next year!

What’s On Your Nightstand: December 2015

What's On Your NightstandThe folks at 5 Minutes For Books host What’s On Your Nightstand? the last Tuesday of each month in which we can share about the books we have been reading and/or plan to read.

This is one month I am especially glad the Nightstand posts were moved to the last Tuesday of the month – I don’t think I would have gotten one in last week! It’s been a fun and busy month, but I am thankful for quiet moments of reading here and there.

Since last time I have completed:

The Yearling by Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings, audiobook, reviewed here. Loved this – it is now one of my favorite classics.

The Butterfly and the Violin by Kristy Cambron, reviewed here. Excellent!

Caregiver Devotions To Go by Gigi Murfitt, reviewed here. Very good.

A few of Grimm’s Fairy Tales for Carrie‘s Reading to Know Classics Book Club for November, reviewed here. I knew I wouldn’t be able to get the whole book in, but I enjoyed several more stories than I had thought I would.

Forever Christmas by Robert Tate Miller, reviewed here. Very nice.

Christmas Lessons by Patty Smith Hall, short review here. It was ok.

365 Meditations for Grandmothers by Grandmothers from six different authors, short review here. Not recommended.

All Creatures Great and Small by James Herriot, audiobook, reviewed here. Enjoyed it.

I’m currently reading:

Gilead by Marilynne Robinson. It is still slow going, but I am getting more from it now.

Why Christ Came: 31 Meditations on the Incarnation by Joel R. Beeke

A Prairie Christmas Collection: 9 Historical Christmas Romances from America’s Great Plains by authors including Tracie Peterson and Deborah Raney.

Next Up:

I am not entirely sure yet. I’ve been thinking over reading plans and challenges for the next year but haven’t worked out my plans yet. But I know at some point I’ll be taking in these Christmas presents along with the chocolates beside them. 🙂

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I’ll be working on year-end book lists and favorite books of the year in the next couple of days.

Christmas afterglow and a few short reviews

We had a wonderful Christmas week and even some extended time with my oldest son – not only was he scheduled to be here a couple of days more than normal, but his flight out got canceled, so he was here for another night. I was thankful it was his first leg of the flight that was cancelled and not the second, so he could spend the time at home and not in an airport halfway there.

As you can imagine, little Timothy was the delight of this Christmas. At the last couple of family birthdays, he was really into this presents thing and was right in the middle of whosever presents they were, so I thought he’d suffer significant sensory overload with everybody getting presents. He happened to open a little kid-sized chair we had gotten for him first, and that worked out well, because he was delighted to sit in it the rest of the time. He loved opening his gifts but didn’t feel the need to help everyone else open theirs. His reactions were so cute. I wish I could upload a video without having to go through YouTube or Vimeo – his unwrapping of a stuffed dog was particularly sweet. Over the weekend we enjoyed tons of food, family time together, rewatching the first three Star Wars DVDs (and deciding we liked Star Trek better generally), playing Settlers of Catan, bowling, and visiting. And though it was all lovely, I think everyone is glad to be getting back to the routine today. I am personally reveling that there is no place I have to go today and nothing that has to get done besides laundry, dinner, and dishes, though I do hope to accomplish more than that.

Here is our yearly photo, in front of the house this time instead of in front of the tree:

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We couldn’t get Timothy to smile, so we just said he was being very thoughtful. 🙂

In this transition week from the old year to the new, I’m going to have some posts later in the week about favorite books read this year and some of my favorite posts from the year. Before that, though, I have a few reviews I need to wrap up. I was actually hoping to have a couple more, but couldn’t quite get them finished yet.

Christmas LessonsChristmas Lessons by Patty Smith Hall is about a teacher named Claire who uses a cane as a result of contracting polio. She had broken off her engagement with Billy Warner some years earlier without giving him a reason: she had the absurd notion that her disability would hold him back in his coaching career. We’re not told until later in the book why she thought this. Suddenly Billy is back in town as the new coach at the school where she teaches, and the principal teams them together to work on a Christmas project. Of course, you can guess where the plot goes from there. It was just a touch predictable, and there were a few odd grammar issues (like “The old coach would have saw her” instead of “seen her), but overall it was a good, clean, Christian-based story.

365I picked up 365 Meditations for Grandmothers by Grandmothers from a clearance table long before I ever became a grandmother. I rediscovered it at the end of last year and, having a new first grandbaby, thought it would be a perfect time to read it.

It is authored by six different women, each penning two months’ worth of devotional thoughts about grandparenting. Each day’s selection includes a Bible verse, a couple of paragraphs, and a closing prayer.

Though there were a few good nuggets here and there, unfortunately, this is not a book I can recommend. My notes in the margins contain a number of question marks, “X” marks (meaning I thought something was wrong or off about a passage), and the phrase “wrong application.” The last is the biggest problem with this book. Sometimes what the devotional had to say was fine: even though it was a misapplication of what the quoted verse was saying, it was sometimes something that the Bible did say somewhere else. But sometimes it was totally wrong. Sometimes there were questions raised that didn’t need to be raised, like whether Paul was the author of 2 Timothy. Sometimes the gospel was clear; sometimes it was obscured or even contradicted; for example, one page says it is important to “help our grandchildren become like Jesus so that they will have a personal relationship with God” (p. 238) rather than showing them how to have a relationship with Jesus so that He can make them like Himself. Sometimes it’s just odd, like one devotional on Isaiah 55:10, about God’s Word being like the snow and rain that comes down from heaven and accomplishes God’s purpose, where the author goes on to say, “Can you imagine looking up into the sky and seeing God’s Word coming down from the sky? We can run into the fields like the birds and catch His Word as it falls from the sky” (p. 254). That paragraph earned a question mark beside it.

I was disappointed in the book early on but kept with it because, with six authors, I felt some parts of it would have to be better than others. I probably should not have: after the first few weeks I probably should have looked at representative excerpts from each of the others and then decided whether or not to keep it. If you know of a good devotional for grandmothers, let me know: sadly, this is not one of them.

All CreaturesFinally for today, I just finished listening to All Creatures Great and Small by James Herriot. I had enjoyed a few episodes of the old BBC series based on the books years ago but then had forgotten about them until Melanie mentioned them.

Herriot is a pen name for James Alfred Wight, and I was surprised to learn that the books are only semi-autobiographical. Maybe that was to protect the anonymity of the people he wrote about. But they are largely based on his experiences as vet in the Yorkshire area for 30 years, beginning in the 1930s.

In the books he starts out as an assistant for Sigfried Farnon, whom he describes as brilliant yet mercurial and extremely forgetful. Mostly he is very kind, though many frustrating yet comedic moments arise due to his forgetfulness. Soon Sigfried’s brother, Tristan, comes to live with them: he is an idle vet school dropout whom Sigfried keeps forgetting that he has kicked out. James’s vet skills are put to the test right away with farmers who often trust old folk remedies rather than veterinary science. In one of my favorite parts of the book, one farmer tells of putting onions in his horse’s rectum for some kind of cure, but his horse became “uneasy in the legs.” Sigfried told him he’d be uneasy in the legs, too, if someone had put onions in his rectum.

Another favorite passage is when James is invited to an elite social gathering hosted by a wealthy lady whose beloved and spoiled dog, Tricky Woo, had been treated by James. After the unfamiliar yet pleasant experiences of the evening, James is awakened in the middle of the night to come to one of the poorest farms in the district. As he contemplates the differences between the highs and lows of the night, he acknowledges that being a vet even in the most humble circumstances is where he is at home.

Sometimes his job has him nearly pulling his hair out in frustration and wondering why anyone would choose that profession, but most of the time he loves it and feels he has the best job in the world.

I enjoyed his descriptions of the Yorkshire area and people – warm, hospitable, honest, hardworking, almost a little stoic, and thrifty.

Along the way he meets a Helen Alderson, and although he hasn’t had time to think about dating much, something clicks with Helen despite two disastrous, yet humorously told, first dates.

The only flaws in the book are a fair amount of swearing and alcohol consumption, but overall it’s a funny, poignant, and heartwarming set 0f tales.

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

Merry Christmas!

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Like Mary let us ponder in our mind
God’s wondrous love in saving lost mankind!
Trace we the Babe, who hath retrieved our loss,
From His poor manger to His bitter cross,
Tread in His steps, assisted by His grace,
Till man’s first heav’nly state again takes place.

Then may we hope, th’angelic hosts among,
To sing, redeemed, a glad triumphal song.
He that was born upon this joyful day
Around us all His glory shall display.
Saved by His love, incessantly we sing
Eternal praise to Heav’n’s almighty King.

~ From “Christians, Awake, Salute the Happy Morn” by John Byrom

I hope you have a very special, Christ-centered celebration
as you rejoice in the birth of our Savior!

Merry Christmas!

Simple Joys of the Season….

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…Packages arriving from online purchases.

…Wrapping presents and baking with Christmas carols playing in the background.

…Checking things off to-do lists.

…Receiving Christmas cards, letters, and photos.

Harvest Loaf Cake. I waited until this week to make it so I wouldn’t be tempted by it all month. 🙂

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…Coming home to a peaceful house after being out in the craziness.

…Finding a just-right gift and anticipating the recipient opening it.

…Driving around looking at Christmas lights.

…Family with time off. For two of them, that won’t happen til Christmas Eve, but I’ve enjoyed having my husband and oldest son home this week and am looking forward everyone being off for a few days.

…Christmas devotionals. The “old, old story” of our Saviour’s birth never gets old.

I don’t anticipate being able to post much until next week. I hope your Christmas preparations are going well and you have a wonderful Christmas Day!

 

Our 36th Anniversary!

Happy 36th anniversary to my dear, kind, thoughtful, industrious, and loving husband.

 

On our 30th anniversary I posted 30 things I love about my husband. All of those are still true. 🙂

A few years ago he made this video for our anniversary and I think I have posted it every year since. The song is “Voyage” by John McDermott of the Irish Tenors.

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Laudable Linkage

It’s a busy time of year, but I’ve found a bit of good reading online that I can recommend to you:

The Need to Be Prepared Robs You of the Delight of Doing. Nothing wrong with preparation, but sometimes we miss out by not being spontaneous.

Ten Ideas For Helping Children Fight Greed at Christmastime.

You Don’t Need a Date Night. Nearly everything you read about marriage says you do, but what you actually need is focused time together, no matter what you do. Date night work best for some couples, but other activities work better for many.

Good King Wenceslas. I love this carol and found this background to it very interesting.

Plan Your 2016 Devotions With a Bible Reading Calendar.

Should I Curtail Grandparent Gift-Giving?

Writing For an Audience of None.

Finally, someone posted this on Facebook, and I thought it was pretty funny. 🙂

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This too…

Happy Last Weekend Before Christmas. 🙂

Friday’s Fave Five

It’s Friday, time to look back over the blessings of the week with Susanne at Living to Tell the Story and other friends.

It seems like no matter how much you get done ahead of time, these weeks before Christmas are still busy! But everything is coming together though there is still a bit to do. May we remember amidst all the bustle the purpose and message of the season and the grace of God in the everyday. That’s one reason I am glad for this weekly time to stop and recount some of those blessings. Here are a few:

1. My oldest son is home. He’s normally here for a week at Christmastime, but he had some extra vacation days to use up so is with us for a longer time than I think he has been since he left home.

2. The Toy Story That Time Forgot might, I think, be my new favorite Christmas TV program, or at least one of them. So cute yet so poignant in parts!

3. Forgotten gift cards. I was at Hobby Lobby this week and planned to finish off what was left on a gift card, but at the checkout discovered I had another one that had not been used at all. Sweet!

4. Pumpkin spice cookies from a Betty Crocker mix topped with cream cheese frosting mixed with cinnamon. Some day I will try these from scratch, but the mix made for a quick treat. After the first pan of them I got the idea to add in some chocolate chips – even better!

5. LED candles. I like the look of candles, but they give me a headache, esocially scented ones. I recently discovered some decorative LED pillar candles and ordered them. I haven’t gotten them out of the box yet, but I know just where I want to put them and anticipate enjoying them. They even come with a remote to turn them on and off!

Besides these, there are joys of communicating with loved ones this time of year – I still love to send and receive Christmas cards and letters even though it is an investment of time, time with family, preparing gifts of love, and listening to the blessings in Christmas music while accomplishing some of those other things, and rejoicing in the gift of our Savior come to redeem and help and fellowship with us.

Since next Friday is Christmas Day, I am not sure what Susanne has planned for the FFF. I can’t imagine that I would post or have time to visit that day, unless I post something the day before and visit after Christmas, but most likely I’ll not have another FFF until after Christmas. I hope you have a blessed and merry Christmas celebration!