Works For Me Wednesday: Devotional Tips

I’ve been pondering what to write for this week’s “Works For Me Wednesday” since last week (is that a sign of addiction? 🙂 ), and this topic keeps coming to mind. I hope it’s not inappropriate for WFMW: I know many of the participants are Christians, and for me, if there is something out of kilter in this part of my life, it affects all the rest.

For those who might be unfamiliar with the term, “devotions” or “having devotions” is the time spent in the Bible and prayer. Others call it their quiet time or their “God and I” time or other terms.

Hopefully if you are considering devotions, you already feel it is important to read the Bible, but if you need to be encouraged along those lines, some reason to read the Bible are here.

When I first became a Christian as a teen-ager, the church I was in then had a strong emphasis on reading the Bible through in a year. I am so glad, because I think that, more than anything else, got me grounded spiritually. There are many advantages to reading the Bible through in a year: it kept me focused; I knew where to read next instead of wandering around aimlessly; I discovered choice nuggets in places like II Chronicles and Zephaniah that I probably would never have discovered otherwise; it kept me balanced; it helped me understand passages in their context; and each time through I would understand the passage more. There are, however, a few disadvantages: I felt like I couldn’t stop and ponder anything because I had to keep going in order to finish the day’s reading in the time frame I had, and if I fell behind it would get awfully discouraging trying to catch up. So after some time I continued to read the Bible through, but not necessarily in a year. I feel free to stop and meditate on a particular truth I found or to study it out further. I usually read a couple of chapters a day, but I sometimes stop after a few verses or sometimes go on and read more. Then sometimes between books, I take a break and work through a Bible study book or do a word study or topical study.

Most “reading the Bible through” plans encourage reading from both the Old Testament and the New, or reading a passage from Psalms or Proverbs along with the day’s scheduled reading. I think that is probably to help you through some of those “drier” books like Leviticus. 🙂

I think this is one of those areas where anything is better than nothing, though, so if someone says, “I’m sorry, I just can’t get into Leviticus,” I would say that’s fine. Maybe some day you’ll get back to that, but reading somewhere in the Bible is better than reading nothing.

Probably for most people the first big battle is getting regular about it. It does help to make a regular time and place for it. I like to have devotions in the mornings because my mind isn’t as cluttered as it is later on. I get up a little earlier than everyone else so it is quiet, and I have my shower first so I am awake. There were some years during the getting-kids-off-to-school morning rush when the best time was after everyone left for the day. The best time for some people is in the evenings.

There are some seasons of life, like when there is a new baby in the house, or vacation times, or when company is there, when it’s hard to maintain that regular time. It’s easier to let that time slip then, but if we go back to the “anything is better than nothing” principle, we can grab a few quiet moments here and there.

Once some semblance of regularity is maintained, the next big battleground is keeping our minds on what we’re doing. There is a quote from John Donne which expresses it well: “I throw myself down in my chamber, and I call in and invite God and His Angels thither; and when they are there, I neglect God and His Angels for the noise of a fly, for the rattling of a coach, for the whining of a door.”

I think the biggest help in avoiding distractions is to be actively looking for something rather than passively reading (more on that later). Another help is to keep a notepad nearby so that when something else comes to mind, as it so often does, like an item I need to get at the store or someone I need to call today, I can jot it down so I don’t forget it later and so my mind can acknowledge that it will be taken care of and not keeping going back to that thought.

It helps to “get in gear” as we begin. I often pray, “Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law” (Psalm 119:18), or asking the Lord to make my heart “good ground” that the seed of His Word can fall upon. It can help, also, to ask Him for something from His Word to carry with you through the day. Some people like to begin listening to, singing, or reading through a hymn. I like to start off with the reading from Daily Light for the Daily Path for the day.

Ps. 66:18 says, “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.” We need to ask Him to search us, show us anything wrong, and enable us to get it right so we don’t block the channels of communication.

On to some general tips:

  • I was advised early on to look for a command to follow, a warning to heed, a promise to rely on, and even to underline (this was before highlighters were invented :)) those things with different colors (red for warnings, blue for promises, black for commandments, yellow for verses about salvation. etc.) or marking beside the verse with different symbols for each category. The point isn’t “coding” your Bible, but to use that as a method to think through what the passage is saying and how to apply it.
  • Ask the old journalism questions: who, what, why, when, and how. What is being said to whom by whom? Is the promise there to all people or only to a specific person or group?
  • Notice recurring words or phrases, like the phrase “let us” which occurs three times in Hebrews 10:22-24, or the recurrence of the words “know” or “knowledge” in II Peter 1:2-8.
  • Underline verbs in passages like I Cor. 13 (the love chapter) or Proverbs 2:1-5 (about the search for wisdom).
  • In some of those long sentences of Paul’s, going back to basic English can help us understand them better: find the subject and verb to learn what the sentence is actually about, and then see how the phrases fit around it.
  • When reading the epistles, it can be helpful to write them out as they were originally written: as a letter without the chapter and verse markings.
  • Use a basic dictionary. One exercise in Changed Into His Image by Dr. Jim Berg instructed the reader to go through I Corinthians 13: 4-8 and write the definitions of the major words on a separate piece of paper, then write the verses out using those definitions. That was one of the most rewarding studies I have ever done. Even though that passage isn’t hard to understand, going through that exercise opened it up in a fuller way.
  • Some passages lend themselves to charts and diagrams, like the letters to the seven churches in Revelation 2-3 or the different sacrifices in Leviticus. That kind of thing really appeals to some people, and it’s easy to compare the similarities and differences that way.
  • Sometimes it is edifying to have some type of Bible project to study out. For instance, you might look up all the references to “the fear of the Lord” to see exactly what it is and how it manifests itself, or the references to “the fool” in Proverbs so you know what kind of behavior to avoid. Matthew 4 tells us Jesus countered Satan’s temptations with the Word of God, and it’s strengthening to look up verses on the specific temptations we face. Once when I had a fleeting thought doubting God’s goodness in a certain situation, instead of just telling myself, “Don’t be silly; you know God is good,” I began to search out verses that spoke of God’s goodness. Not only did that result in knowing my God better, but it fortified my soul against that doubt. Using a concordance or computer Bible program or even Bible Gateway helps with those kinds of studies, and we can supplement those studies later as we come across verses in other reading. Once I heard someone say that Jesus never claimed to be God, and I knew that Jesus did in fact proclaim His deity. So as I read through the Gospels, I put a “C” (for “claims”) beside each verse where Jesus said something about Himself that indicated His Deity. He may have never climbed on a mountaintop and said the phrase, “I am God,” but His deity is all throughout the gospels. When I do a study like that, I usually write all the verses out in one place (I used to do it on index cards, but now I keep it on the computer) so I can refer back to it or add to it later on.
  • Sometimes we divide our devotional time into separate prayer and Bible reading times, but we can combine the two. When we read a verse that convicts about a particular sin, we can confess it immediately. When we read something that tells us about God, we can thank and praise Him immediately. When we read a character trait that we need to incorporate in our lives, we can acknowledge that need and ask for help and grace.
  • On very familiar passages, try to imagine you are reading it for the very first time, that you are there watching the events occur, or that you are reading and trying to convey it’s truth to someone who has never heard it before.
  • Something that Jim Berg advocates in his book it to look for the Person, the Lord, in our reading, not just the principles.
  • Remember that “all scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness” (II Timothy 3:16) – even the genealogies and Leviticus. We can ask the Lord for help in some of those drier passages to see His purpose for them. For instance, from the genealogies we learn that: God keeps records; God keeps detailed records; God knew all of those people whose names we can’t pronounce and cared about them; He knows and cares for us the same way.
  • Much has been written in recent years about journaling. I stopped doing so some time ago because, for me, it was too easy to spend most of the time and thought during devotions on “what I thought” rather than what God had to say to me. But journaling can be a good way to process what you’ve read and help make it more permanent in your own mind.

There are many good books on this subject. One is Tim LaHaye’s How To Study the Bible For Yourself. One I just read recently was Jason Janz’s Alone With God: A Practical Plan for Dynamic Devotions. His plan might seem a little regimented to some, but he invites the reader to adapt it. The basic idea is that if you don’t have some type of plan for your devotional time, you’ll drift and not benefit from it: having a basic format helps keep you on track just like writing things down on a prayer list helps keep you focused and helps you remember what to pray for. He has a lot of good tips and practical advice as well. Another good book is What Do I Know About My God? by Mardi Collier. I’m in the middle of the book, but I have heard her speak on this topic of how she wanted to get to know God better, and, at her husband’s suggestion, read through the Psalms, making notes of everything that was said about God. That led to a study of several years throughout the Bible. She tells about that study and how it has impacted her life in her book.

There is much more that could be said (and if I don’t stop soon, I’ll almost have a book, myself! J ). There are days and seasons of life when we might only have one verse to carry us through the day – and it is better to read one verse and truly get something from it than to read 10 chapters inattentively. But there will be some times we’ll be able to read and study a little more intensively than others. However we “do devotions,” we can ask God to show us Himself, that we may know Him, love Him, and serve Him better.

And that works for me. 🙂

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Wordless Wednesday: Father and son

This is one of my favorite father and son pictures from several years ago.

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Thursday Thirteen: Signs of Summer in the South

I’ve seen a few blogs begin to show some signs of autumn. I’m looking forward to the cooler weather and fall colors, but here in SC it will still feel like summer for a few weeks yet. Since this is the last day of August and autumn doesn’t officially arrive until Sept. 23, I give you something I’ve received in various forms several times:

Thirteen signs of summer in the South:

1. You step outside at 7:30 a.m. and break out into a sweat.

2. The birds have to use pot holders to pull worms out of the ground.

3. Farmers are feeding their chickens crushed ice to keep them from laying hard-boiled eggs.

4. The cows are giving evaporated milk.

5. You can make instant sun tea.

6. You learn that a seat belt makes a pretty good branding iron.

7. You decide the best parking place is determined by amount of shade instead of distance.

8. Hot water now comes out of both taps.

9. A parent laments, “I wish it would rain – not so much for me, cuz I’ve seen it – but for my 7-year-old.”

10. You actually burn your hand opening the car door.

11. Your biggest bicycle wreck fear is, “What if I get knocked out and end up lying on the pavement and cook to death?”

12. You realize that asphalt has a liquid state.

13. The trees are whistling for the dogs.

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: Reminders

The start of school begins the influx of papers to sign and items to remember to take to school. If we leave it til the morning to try to take care of these things, we generally forget, or, if we remember, it just adds a layer of frustration to an already busy morning.

For school papers (permission slips, parental notices, etc.), I try to go ahead and sign it and give it back to my child immediately for them to put back in the bookbag. If it’s too rushed to handle right then, or if there is some reason I need to wait before signing it, I’ll put in on a spot on the counter where I keep the current mail, my keys, etc., so I’ll see it and remember to deal with it. I don’t put it in my desk. The desk has a fold-up panel which wonderfully hides the stacks of papers there — but it also makes me forget that there is something there that needs attention soon.

Getting piano books, P.E. clothes, or whatever else needs to be taken on certain days together is usually best done the night before. As my children have gotten older, I’ve tried to transfer this responsibility to them. But I write a little note to myself to remind them and leave it on the counter the night before (I keep a small notepad on my counter both for taking phone messages and for my little reminder notes).

If there is anything out of the ordinary (a plate of cookies for a class party, etc.), I either leave it out on the counter next to my keys, or on a table near where I keep my purse. If it’s something that needs to be refrigerated, I leave myself a note on the counter by my keys or by my purse. I had a friend who would put her car keys in the refrigerator next to something she needed to remember to take (that was before keyless remotes — I don’t know if that would be a good idea for them). For a long time I would leave a post-it note on the door to remind me of things I needed to take with me.

A couple of times in Family Fun magazine I’ve seen a neat little doorknob reminder of what things to take what day. I’ve never made it — but I thought it was really cool. 🙂 They have tons of neat ideas there!

I always get a kitchen calendar that has enough space to write notes for each day, and I try to transfer dates for upcoming events from the school newsletter onto out kitchen calendar as soon as possible. That’s also where we keep track of appointments, recitals, sports practices and games, birthdays, trips, etc., etc.

I’d love to hear what organizational tips you have, too!

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Wordless Wednesday: My Guys

I just got a new digital camera of my very own for my birthday, and this is the first picture I took with it.

I’ve also learned how to download the pictures to the computer and post them! I used to have to rely on my sons for all of that. But they’ll be leaving the nest some day( 😦 ) so I need to try not to be so technologically dependent on them.

I’ve been so excited that an old middle-aged dog lady can learn new tricks stuff!

Works For Me Wednesday: “Bag-teria”

I had something else planned for this week’s WFMW when this came to mind. Some time ago I was either watching a Don Aslett (the cleaning guru) video or skimming through something he wrote when something struck home with me. He referred to ladies putting their purses on top of tables, after their purses have been in public bathroom floors and who knows where else. My first thought was, “Ewww!” As I thought about it, I realized he was right. I try not to put my purse on bathroom floors, but sometimes there is no other place. And even without that, we often have them on the floors in our house or car — where shoes have been — shoes that have been on bathroom floors and in dirt and other places…and then we plop them on the table to dig out a tissue or a tip at a restaurant or a piece of paper to jot something down on. Ewwww!

I looked this up at http://www.snopes.com (my favorite place to check out possible urban legends), and she confirms it is true that our purses may be carrying all sorts of unwanted stuff on them. (“Bag-teria” is the title of her article, and I borrowed it for this post. :))

I don’t carry little wipes around with me to clean my purse off, but I do clean it off if it’s been on a particularly nasty floor. Mainly I don’t put it on tabletops any more where food is or will be.

Check our Rocks in My Dryer’s place for other good tips that might work for you. 🙂

Wordless Wednesday: Jesse in the park

My oldest son took this picture of my youngest at a local park.

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Works For Me Wednesday: Chicken Tenderloins

I love using boneless, skinless chicken tenderloin. They can go straight from the freezer to the oven and bake for only 20-30 minutes. I make baked chicken that way, or a chicken and stuffing casserole. On Sunday mornings sometimes I’ll put the frozen chicken tenderloin in a single layer in a baking pan and pour Italian dressing over it, let it marinate until we get home from church, then pop it in the oven while I make a side dish.

I sometimes will put a plate of them in the microwave for 9-10 minutes, rearranging them about halfway through (bringing the ones on the outside of the plate toward the center and vice verse). If you sprinkle them with salt, pepper, garlic powder, and minced onion, then cut them up into small pieces when done, you have chicken ready for a casserole or soup. If you do the same with the addition of chili powder, you have chicken ready for chicken tacos or enchiladas.

The only trouble is they are more expensive than other forms of chicken, so this is a time- and labor-saving tip rather than a frugal tip. You’re paying for the convenience of a shorter cooking time and being able to cook them immediately without deboning or skinning them. In our area they are sold in 2 1/2 lb. bags for $8.98, but they do go on sale fairly often, and sometimes stores will have a buy-one-get-one-free sale. Tyson makes them, but many stores have their own brand.

Here’s one of my family’s favorite recipes using them (you could also use leftover baked or stewed chicken):

Chicken Enchilada Bake

2 cans cream of chicken soup
2-4 chicken breasts, cooked and cut into pieces, or around 9 chicken tenderloin pieces, cooked and cut into small pieces
1 cup sour cream (or plain Greek yogurt)
3/4 lb. Monterrey Jack Cheese, shredded
6 flour tortillas or 8 corn tortillas
1 small can green chilies, diced (optional)

Mix soup, sour cream, chicken, chilies, and half the cheese, Tear tortillas into bite-size pieces and stir into chicken mixture. Pour into casserole dish and top with remaining cheese. Bake at 350 degrees for about 20 minutes. Or, leave off the remaining cheese, microwave for about 3 minutes, stir, top with remaining cheese, and microwave for another 3 minutes.

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Thursday Thirteen

I have noticed a few blogs that participate in the “Thursday Thirteen” — a list of thirteen of anything, designed to helps folks get to know each other and spark conversation. This is my first time to participate. I’m borrowing from Cindy Swanson’s idea from a couple of weeks ago and posting 13 favorite quotes:

1. It doesn’t really matter how great the pressure is. What matters is where the pressure lies, whether it comes between me and God or whether it presses me nearer His heart. — Hudson Taylor

2. No amount of activity in the Father’s service will make up for neglect of the Father Himself. — Robert Murray McCheyne

3. Let him who would enjoy a good future waste none of his present. — Dale Carnegie

4. Sarcasm comes from a Greek word which means “flesh.” It means “to tear flesh.” — Jim Berg, Quieting a Noisy Soul

5. We have a base man-pleasing disposition, which will make us let men perish lest we lose their love, and let them go quietly to hell, lest we should make them angry with us for seeking their salvation: and we are ready to venture on the displeasure of God, and risk the everlasting misery of our people, rather than draw on ourselves their ill-will.
—Richard Baxter as quoted in the Nov./Dec. 2005 Frontline Magazine

6. Emily, wife of America’s first foreign missionary, Adoniram Judson, wrote home from Moulmein, Burma, in January 1847: “This taking care of teething babies, and teaching natives to darn stockings and talking English back end foremost . . . in order to get an eatable dinner, is really a very odd sort of business for Fanny Forester [her pen name–she was a well-known New England writer before marrying Judson]…. But I begin to get reconciled to my minute cares.” She was ambitious for “higher and better things,” but was enabled to learn that “the person who would do great things well must practice daily on little ones; and she who would have the assistance of the Almighty in important acts, must be daily and hourly accustomed to consult His will in the minor affairs of life.”

— From Keep a Quiet Heart by Elisabeth Elliot

7. The chariots of God are twenty thousand, even thousands of angels: the Lord is among them, as in Sinai, in the holy place. — Psalm 68:17

I have not a shadow of a doubt that if all our eyes could be opened today, we should see our homes, and our places of business, and the streets we traverse, filled with “the chariots of God.” There is no need, for any one of us to walk for lack of chariots. That cross inmate of your household, who has hitherto made life a burden to you, and who has been the Juggernaut car to crush your soul into the dust, may henceforth be a glorious chariot to carry you to the heights of heavenly patience and long-suffering. That misunderstanding, that mortification, that unkindness, that disappointment, that loss, that defeat — all these are chariots waiting to carry you to the very heights of victory you have so longed to reach. Mount into them, then, with thankful hearts, and lose sight of all second causes in the shining of His love who will carry you in His arms safely and triumphantly over it all.

—Hannah Whitall Smith

8. True prayer is not asking God for what we want, but for what He wants.
—J. Oswald Chambers

9. Is prayer your steering wheel or your spare tire? — Corrie Ten Boom

10. Do not have your concert first. and then tune your instrument afterwards. Begin the day with the Word of God and prayer, and get first of all into harmony with Him.– Hudson Taylor

11. Courage does not always roar. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the day, saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” — Unknown

12. When I came to see that Jesus Christ had died for me, it didn’t seem hard to give up all for Him. It seemed just common, ordinary honesty.
—C. T. Studd (1860-1931)

13. God does not waste suffering, nor does He discipline out of caprice. If He plough, it is because He purposes a crop. — J. Oswald Sanders

Wordless Wednesday

Poor baby!

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