Two views of housework

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I. It’s such a waste of time to cook.
I’m just a walking cookery book.
I make and bake the morning through,
The favorite pies and pudding, too.
Then in half an hour or less,
My toil has gone to nothingness.
It’s a waste of time to dust the stairs,
To clean the brass and polish chairs,
To sweep and pick up bits of fluff,
For nothing ever is clean enough.
Five minutes after I have done,
Someone is sure to romp and run,
Kick out the stair rods, flick the mats,
Slam the doors and scare the cats.
Some sticky hand is sure to press
The brasses from their sprightliness.
I tidy up and do the dusting,
But all the while my wings are rusting.
Then washing day it seems to me
Is just a waste of energy.
What use to stand before a tub
And soak and rinse and blue and rub?
Next week the selfsame garment’s stain
Will come into my hands again.
It’s such a waste of time to mend.
One has no sooner reached the end
Of last week’s pile then, need you ask it,
This week’s filled up the mending basket.
The stockings, which were hale and hearty,
Return from each picnicking party,
Weak and worn and wanly show
Great gaping holes in heel and toe,
While buttons have a cantankerous way
Of disappearing every day.
Sponging off the spots and ironing creases,
Between it all I’m worn to pieces.
Woman, from cradle to grave,
Is nothing but a galley slave.

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II. I’ve done an angel’s work today.
Yes, such an honor came my way.
Real angel’s work. Lest you doubt it,
I’m going to tell you all about it.
Well, first I cooked. It was so nice
To plan the pies, stewed fruit and rice.
God sent His angel once to make cakes
For a poor wayfarer’s sake.
Just today He honored me
And sent the task my way, you see.
Then while I tidied up the place,
Gave every knob a radiant face,
Back of my mind this thought would lurk-
That I was still at angel’s work.
Putting away coats and dresses
And moving small, unsightly messes,
For oh, ’tis such a lovesome thing,
Just straightening out and freshening.
And after that, I washed a few
Small woolly garments, old, not new,
Things I had rubbed and rinsed before,
Quite forty times or even more.
As I hung them on the line,
I thought what Godlike work was mine-
To cleanse, ah me, to wash out stains
Till not a single speck remains.
So later in the day, ’twas sweet
To sit and rest my tired feet,
Mending the clothes and plan out, too,
How to make old things into new.
For surely it is an angel’s way
To put things right from day to day,
To find thin places and repair
The glad rags and the sturdy wear.
Since wear and tear must surely be
On this side of eternity,
I’m feeling very proud to say
I’ve done an angel’s work today.

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~ Author unknown

I’m afraid my attitude is too often the former…but I am working on it!

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Monday odds and ends

Most of my odds and ends posts seem to come on Mondays, I think!

  • Busy day today, so this is just a drive-through posting. Our ladies’ meeting is tonight and we’re assembling care packages for our college students. That takes a little more preparatory work than some meetings, so that’s what I am busy with today. I’m stopping for a lunch break at the moment.
  • I have a few posts percolating on the back burner that I hope to get to. Sometimes when that happens and I try to actually write them, I wonder what I was thinking — it just doesn’t come together. We’ll see!
  • I don’t like Daylight Savings Time. I haven’t heard of anyone who does. I was so concerned about remembering to set my clock ahead Sat. night that I did that but forgot to set my alarm. I woke up at what would have been my regular time, but was now an hour late. Somehow the Lord helped me get my shower and then breakfast on at not too much later than usual. The rest of the family got to church on time but I didn’t get there til after the preaching started. Then it was hard to go to bed last night because it just didn’t feel as late as it was, so I was dragging this morning and finally took a little nap.
  • This is the “odd” part of my odds and ends: I was skimming through the weekly 5 Minutes Around the Blogosphere posting at 5 Minutes For Mom when I thought I saw a line that said “5 ‘green’ combustible diaper starter kits.” A closer look revealed it was “5 ‘green’ compostable diaper starter kits.” Somehow green in the same sentence with the word diapers conjures up unpleasant memories…
  • If you haven’t seen this, Amy’s Humble Musings has an excellent post with Thoughts on contraception and the quiverfull movement. I appreciate her balanced, reasonable, and gracious line of thinking on this issue.
  • One of my favorite craft bloggers is published!
  • I finally watched Miss Potter. Loved it! I couldn’t get any of the rest of the family interested in it at the time, so I watched it over several mornings in my room while getting dressed/fixing hair/making beds, etc. I do think they’d like it if they gave it a chance. When I first saw the commercials I didn’t really like the idea of animating her characters — that just made it seem too Disneyish. But it’s not done much and is mainly used to show her imagination and playfulness and what she is thinking in some places. I even watched most of the special features.
  • in-love-and-war_.jpgWhen I went to rent it, I came across another DVD that looked interesting enough to try: a Hallmark Hall of Fame production of In Love and War. (evidently there are other films by that title, but I don’t think this is related to them.) I normally am wary of picking up a film I am unfamiliar with off the rental place’s shelves, but I think the Hallmark ones are usually pretty safe. This is about an English soldier in WWII, captured in Italy, released, then pursued by the Germans as they invade Italy, then injured, so his buddies have to leave him behind, and he is helped by many Italian people along the way, including the girl he falls in love with. I didn’t realize it was a true story until the end where it says they recently celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary. I looked in the production notes and saw it was based on the book Love and War in the Apennines by Eric Newby, the main character in the film. I want to read that book now. My oldest son, not a fan of love stories, pronounced this “not as bad as I thought it would be.” 🙂 I enjoyed it!

Have a great day!

Sing praise to God Who reigns above

Sing praise to God Who reigns above, the God of all creation,
The God of power, the God of love, the God of our salvation.
With healing balm my soul is filled and every faithless murmur stilled:
To God all praise and glory.

What God’s almighty power hath made His gracious mercy keepeth,
By morning glow or evening shade His watchful eye ne’er sleepeth;
Within the kingdom of His might, Lo! all is just and all is right:
To God all praise and glory.

The Lord is never far away, but through all grief distressing,
An ever present help and stay, our peace and joy and blessing.
As with a mother’s tender hand, God gently leads the chosen band:
To God all praise and glory.

Thus, all my toilsome way along, I sing aloud Thy praises,
That earth may hear the grateful song my voice unwearied raises.
Be joyful in the Lord, my heart, both soul and body bear your part:
To God all praise and glory.

Let all who name Christ’s holy Name give God all praise and glory;
Let all who own His power proclaim aloud the wondrous story!
Cast each false idol from its throne, for Christ is Lord, and Christ alone:
To God all praise and glory.

~ Jo­hann J. Schütz

(It’s also often sung “All praise to God…”)

Alarming indeed

Through a series of links from other places, I discovered some alarming truths about Obama.

This is from an op-ed piece by Rick Santorum titled “The Elephant in the Room: Obama: A harsh ideologue hidden by a feel-good image.”

Granted, the first-term Illinois senator’s lofty rhetoric of bipartisanship, unity, hope and change makes everyone feel good. But it’s becoming increasingly clear that his grand campaign rhetoric does not match his partisan, ideological record. The nonpartisan National Journal, for example, recently rated Obama the Senate’s most liberal member. That’s besting some tough competition from orthodox liberals such as Ted Kennedy and Barbara Boxer.

John McCain’s campaign and conservative pundits have listed the numerous times in Obama’s short Senate career where he sided with the extremes in his party against broadly supported compromises on issues such as immigration, ethics reform, terrorist surveillance and war funding. Fighting on the fringe with a handful of liberals is one thing, but consider his position on an issue that passed both houses of Congress unanimously in 2002.

That bill was the Born Alive Infants Protection Act. During the partial-birth abortion debate, Congress heard testimony about babies that had survived attempted late-term abortions. Nurses testified that these preterm living, breathing babies were being thrown into medical waste bins to die or being “terminated” outside the womb. With the baby now completely separated from the mother, it was impossible to argue that the health or life of the mother was in jeopardy by giving her baby appropriate medical treatment.

The act simply prohibited the killing of a baby born alive. To address the concerns of pro-choice lawmakers, the bill included language that said nothing “shall be construed to affirm, deny, expand or contract any legal status or legal right” of the baby. In other words, the bill wasn’t intruding on Roe v. Wade.

Who would oppose a bill that said you couldn’t kill a baby who was born? Not Kennedy, Boxer or Hillary Rodham Clinton. Not even the hard-core National Abortion Rights Action League (NARAL). Obama, however, is another story. The year after the Born Alive Infants Protection Act became federal law in 2002, identical language was considered in a committee of the Illinois Senate. It was defeated with the committee’s chairman, Obama, leading the opposition.

Let’s be clear about what Obama did, once in 2003 and twice before that. He effectively voted for infanticide. He voted to allow doctors to deny medically appropriate treatment or, worse yet, actively kill a completely delivered living baby. Infanticide – I wonder if he’ll add this to the list of changes in his next victory speech and if the crowd will roar: “Yes, we can.”

How could someone possibly justify such a vote? In March 2001, Obama was the sole speaker in opposition to the bill on the floor of the Illinois Senate. He said: “We’re saying they are persons entitled to the kinds of protections provided to a child, a 9-month child delivered to term. I mean, it would essentially bar abortions, because the equal-protection clause does not allow somebody to kill a child.” So according to Obama, “they,” babies who survive abortions or any other preterm newborns, should be permitted to be killed because giving legal protection to preterm newborns would have the effect of banning all abortions.

Justifying the killing of newborn babies is deeply troubling, but just as striking is his rigid adherence to doctrinaire liberalism. Apparently, the “audacity of hope” is limited only to those babies born at full term and beyond. Worse, given his support for late-term partial-birth abortions that supporters argued were necessary to end the life of genetically imperfect children, it may be more accurate to say the audacity of hope applies only to those babies born healthy at full term.

According to this source, these are Obama’s own words in arguing against the bill:

Number one, whenever we define a previable fetus as a person that is protected by the equal protection clause or the other elements in the Constitution, what we’re really saying is, in fact, that they are persons that are entitled to the kinds of protections that would be provided to a — a child, a nine-month-old — child that was delivered to term. That determination then, essentially, if it was accepted by a court, would forbid abortions to take place. I mean, it — it would essentially bar abortions, because the equal protection clause does not allow somebody to kill a child, and if this is a child. Then this would be an antiabortion statute. For that purpose, I think it would probably be found unconstitutional.

The second reason that it would probably be found unconstitutional is that this essentially says that a doctor is required to provide treatment to a previable child, or fetus, however way you want to describe it. Viability is the line that has been drawn by the Supreme Court to determine whether or not an abortion can or cannot take place. And if we’re placing a burden on the doctor that says you have to keep alive even a previable child as long as possible and give them as much medical attention as — as is necessary to try to keep that child alive, then we’re probably crossing the line in terms of unconstitutionality.

It is sad — beyond sad — that he is more concerned with how this bill would have affected the ruling on abortions than the effect and ramifications of it on human life. His reasoning is right that this ruling would recognize an aborted baby as a child, a person with rights: his conclusions are wrong that such a recognition means that such a child should be left to die.

I hope and pray this man is not elected as our next president.

Know and Tell Friday

(My Friday Show and Tell post is just below this one and my Ultimate Blog Party post is here.)

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To Know Him hosts Know and Tell Friday and asks this week:

Question 1
I have been blogging for a year this month, so my question is what made you start your blog?

I don’t remember how I started reading blogs — I think from links to peoples’ blogs on a couple of forums I was on. Reading one person’s blog leads to reading their links and blogroll. I enjoyed the ones I read and began thinking about doing my own. I wanted it first of all to be a blessing and an encouragement to other ladies but I also wanted it to be fun.

Question 2
Do you speak another language? If so, why or how did you learn it?

No. I had two years of Spanish in high school but only remember a few words.

Question 3
Morning person, or night owl (or somewhere in between)?

Naturally, if there are no time constraints, I tend to be a night owl. But with a family and school, etc., I have to get up pretty early. I still tend to stay up too late.

Question 4
Do you exercise on a regular basis?

No. I should.

Bonus Questions
Question 5
If money were not an object what is one thing you would like to do for another person?

I know a couple of students in Christian colleges struggling financially whom I would love to help with their school bills.

Question 6
What is one of your favorite attributes of our Lord God?

It would be hard to single out one. I love that He is perfectly righteous and can always be depended on to do the right thing. I love that He is truth and love. But if I had to choose, I am grateful for His longsuffering and lovingkindess.

Question 7
Have you ever thought about adoption or foster care?

No, not really. I don’t think I have it in me. I have my hands full with my own three.

Show and Tell Friday: Spring Windowsill

When I took down my “everyday” decorations last fall to decorate for autumn, I finally took apart an old arrangement on my windowsill that had dried flowers and a bird and nest and had just gotten dusty and unkempt. After putting autumn and Christmas decorations away and getting back to everyday, I pondered what to put in that empty spot. I hadn’t seen or come up with anything until the spring issue of Kelli’s beautiful Seasonal Delights magazine came out and I saw the Hidden Nest Centerpiece. A smaller version of that would be just perfect!

So I assembled the materials this week, with a 5″ pot instead of the 8″. I originally wanted to paint the flower pot a cream color and the eggs blue, but the windowsill this would be on is white, so I thought a bit of color would be better with a blue flower pot. These kinds of decisions can stall a project for me for days, but I decided since all of these materials were reusable I could disassemble it and change it if I wanted, so I went ahead with painting the flower pot blue and using cream and brown eggs I found at Michael’s.

I had a bit of a problem, though, with the garland: mine was so bushy that it lost its “arch” shape almost completely (probably because the pot was smaller, so the arch was smaller — I am sure it would have done fine with the bigger pot size Kelli’s centerpiece had called for), and then I had trouble getting the wire to stick to the flower pot with hot glue. I remembered some variegated green picks I had and got a few of them and stuck them directly in the moss, then tucked the nest under the leaves. This is finally what I came up with:

Hidden nest arrangement

Hidden nest

I love it. When I am working at the sink I can see the little nest and eggs peeking out through the leaves. We often have little birds build nests in our hanging plants outside that I can see from my kitchen window, so this reminds me of that and fits right in with the scene.

I do still want to try Kelli’s idea with the garland shaped as an arch some time!

On the other side of my windowsill is this:

Spring flowers

It’s just a couple of spring floral picks I got years ago at a Home Interiors party, stuffed into a small creamer pitcher, but it has been a long-time favorite window sill brightener. It’s getting old, too, but I keep dusting it off.

This is the whole windowsill, cheery even on a gloomy day outside:

Spring windowsill

I also wanted to share a couple of things I was delighted to find while out shopping this week.

It’s very hard to find kitchen towels and such with pink — apparently that’s not “in” as a decorator color just now. But I was delighted to find these at Kohl’s — I was shopping in the men’s department for my husband’s birthday and investigated the housewares and decorating section while I was there. I was glad I did!

Pink dish towels

They’re almost too pretty to use — almost. But I will use them!

I was also thrilled to find these chair pads on clearance. I had been needing new ones and wanted to find the kind with the non-skid surface on the bottom rather than ties (which always seem to pull out after much use at my house). I had seen some blue ones at another store that I thought were too expensive. But these were not only less, they had little pink and cream flecks in them that matched mt kitchen/dining area:

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And I love the non-skid underside!! It works much better than the ties at the back.

Isn’t it funny how little things can brighten an area?

Show and Tell Kelli at There’s No Place Like Home hosts “Show and Tell Friday” asking Do you have a something special to share with us? It could be a trinket from grade school, a piece of jewelry, an antique find. Your show and tell can be old or new. Use your imagination and dig through those old boxes in your closet if you have to! Feel free to share pictures and if there’s a story behind your special something, that’s even better! If you would like to join in, all you have to do is post your “Show and Tell” on your blog, copy the post link, come over here and add it to Mr. Linky. Guidelines are here

Blog Party 2008!

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The ladies of 5 Minutes For Mom are hosting a blog party. Think of it as a meet-and-greet of your blog neighbors! Details can be found here. There are even prizes!! The growing list of participants is here.

Last time there were hundreds of participating blogs, and I am sure there will be as many again this time, so I won’t keep you long or ask you to jump through any hoops. I am glad you came by to say hello.

So come on in — have a Peanut Butter Kiss cookie..

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This was made with a shortcut recipe — I am all about quick and easy in the kitchen.

As for just a little bit about me: I am “middle-aged,” have been married to my husband Jim for 28 years, and have three boys ages 23, 20, and 14. I am thoroughly enjoying this time of life when the boys are older and a little more independent but no one has flown the coop yet. That day is coming all too soon! I have been privileged to be a stay at home mom ever since my first pregnancy and keep active with my home, family, and church. I enjoy reading, writing, decorating, and some crafting. I love Christian biographies and Christian fiction, sacred and some classical music, hearts, pink roses, Boyd’s Bear figurines, and chocolate. Oh, and blogging. 🙂 I have been blogging a little over a year and a half after reading and enjoying several other blogs. Rather than having one particular aspect, my blog is multi-faceted, just like my life. Though I am not an expert or a counselor, I hope to pass along things the Lord has taught me and glorify Him in the fun and fellowship as well as the weightier considerations from His Word.

I became a Christian at the age of 17, and I am so thankful for the Lord’s grace in leading me to Himself and extending His mercy to me every day.

You can find out more about me in my 100 things post. Feel free to have a look around, stay as long as you’d like, and come again soon: the door is always open!

Updated to add: I didn’t realize at first we were supposed to list the prizes we were interested in here — lat year we just listed them in the comments on the prizes page. So here is what I am interested in:

59 — $25 Cash provided by: Lori Lori from A Cowboy’s Wife; 55 — $23 Cash provided by: Kristin of An Ordinary Life; 60 — $25 Gift Certificate provided by: Judy of “Welcome to My World of Dreams”; 117 — $25 Gift Certificate to Target provided by: Angela of Mommy Bytes ; 49 — $10 Gift Certificate to Christian Book Distributors provided by: Christelle; 56 — $10/$20 Gift Certificate provided by:Making Scrapbooks; 7 — Bead Dangle Photo Tile Necklace provided by: Elemental Memories.

Happy Birthday, Hubby!

Today is my husband, Jim’s, 50th birthday!

He was very nice to me on mine, so I will return the favor and not tease him — at least not much. 🙂

Hope you have a great one, hon, and a great 50 more!!

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Booking Through Thursday: Hero

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The Booking Through Thursday question for this week is:

Who is your favorite Male lead character? And why?

If I think about this very much, I’ll have way too long a list. But the first ones that come to mind are:

David Copperfield in the book of the same name by Charles Dickens. I like how he overcomes his disadvantages to become a decent man — even if it does take him too long to recognize the love of his life. 🙂

Sidney Carton in A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens. He comes from the wrong side of the reader’s sympathies at first, brilliant but drunken and languid, to give himself sacrificially for one he loves with no hope of being loved by her in return.

Jean Valjean in Les Miserables by Victor Hugo. He comes from poverty, prison, and bitterness, changes in response to love and compassion, and becomes one of the strongest and most gracious leading men in literature.

Clark Davis in the Janette Oke Love Comes Softly series. A strong but gentle man, a leader without being a tyrant, with a high and strong moral core.

Colonel Brandon in Sense and Sensibility. Strong, decent, kind, a “tortured soul” who lost the woman he loved twice — once because she was intended for another, and then permanently in her tragic death — who gives himself in his love for Marianne even when there is no encouragement at first.

I am seeing that though none of them is perfect, they have in common moral strength (eventually if not at first), perseverance, the overcoming of obstacles, grace, kindness, and sacrificial giving.

Classical Music Meme turned into a Thursday Thirteen

Semicolon answered the question recently, “What are seven classical music works you love?” I started out answering the same question…but I couldn’t keep it to seven. So I decided to make a Thursday Thirteen entry of it.

These aren’t necessarily in order of preference — except the first one. 🙂

1. Pachelbel’s “Canon in D Major

2. Samuel Barber’s “Adagio for Strings

3. Tchaikovsky’s “Romeo and Juliet Overture”

4. Bach’s “Air on a G String

5. Haydn’s Symphony No. 94 in G Major, the “Surprise Symphony”

6. Bach’s Suite for solo cello No. 1 in G major prelude

7. Smetana’s “The Moldau

8. Debussy’s “Claire de Lune

9. Bach’s “Wachet Auf

10. The second movement of Dvořák’s “New World Symphony”

11. Chopin’s Polonaise No.6 in A flat, Op.53 -“Heroic,”

12. Puccini’s “Nessun dorma

13. “Con Te Partiro” (Time to say Good Bye) (don’t know the composer for that one)

The links on some go to videos of performances of the piece on You Tube. The ones without links are a bit too long for that venue.

What are your favorites of the classics?