New Year’s links

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Rob at ivman has a great list of “New Year’s resolutions you can keep,” such as, “Procrastinate more. Starting tomorrow” and “Don’t jump off a cliff just because everyone else did.” If you need some attainable goals…or just want a good chuckle…check them out.

Gretchen at Lifenut posted 100 irresolutions that she listed last year along with her end-of-the-year progress report. It was quite funny — I might try that. It might be easier to come up with things I won’t do!!

A couple of years ago I posted New Year’s Resolutions for your dog (My favorite: “I will no longer be beholden to the sound of the can opener.”) and a list of New Year’s wishes that someone had e-mailed me (May your hair, your teeth, your face-lift, your abs and your stocks not fall; and may your blood pressure, your triglycerides, your cholesterol, your white blood count and your mortgage interest not rise,” etc.)

Here are some New Year’s quotes, a hymn by John Newton titled “The Year We Have Now Passed Through,” and another hymn by Frances Ridley Havergal titled “Another Year Is Dawning.”

Last year, for some reason, I was facing the New Year with anxiety and wrote about God’s help for that in “The year to come.”

At the end of last year I began a study based on different statements in the Bible beginning with “I will…,” which I though a sort of resolution: “I will trust in thee,” “ I will declare thy name,” “ I will be glad and rejoice in thy mercy,” “I will confess my transgressions,” and others. That led to a post called “Biblical Resolutions.” I see there I only got through Genesis to the Psalms at the time: I’ll have to look up my notes and see if I ever finished looking through the rest of the Bible for those “I will” statements. That study was a blessing to me, with much food for thought.

My friend Susan at By Grace posted several days ago about making goals instead of resolutions and examining every area of our lives to see what we need to work on. I am hoping to do that in time for Laurel Wreath’s New Year’s Meditation Carnival, where she invites us to post our hopes, dreams, desires, and goals for the New Year (and she’s even rewarding one participant and $25 gift certificate from Amazon.com.) That would be a great way to start the year!

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(Graphic courtesy of Antique Clipart.)

Repost: Planning to read the Bible more this year?

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 Many people begin with new year with a goal to read the Bible through, or at least to read it more. And that is a worthy goal. There are many good reasons to read the Bible.

I’d like to suggest, though, that if you don’t have some kind of plan of action, this goal, like many others, will likely fizzle out and you’ll get discouraged: likely either making the time will fall to the wayside, or you’ll hit or miss in favorite passages and not venture out into others.

So I would like to suggest that you make some kind of plan. Let me say up front, though, that not every day will go according to plan, and that’s ok. Don’t let it discourage you that you can’t do the exact same thing every day, when someone is sick, when on vacation, when something unexpected comes up. On “those days” just do what you can and then get back into routine as soon as you are able.

That’s one reason I like the Daily Light devotional book. I like to use it to begin my devotions and get my mind in gear, but there are some days that that may be all I can do, and on those days I know I’ve had a good “bite” into God’s Word — kind of like those days that you don’t have time for a proper breakfast but you grab a multi-grain nutrition bar rather than a donut.

I’ll confess that on Sundays I only read Daily Light (and sometimes other devotional books I am going through). Our routine is different on Sunday and everyone is home, making it a little harder to find a quiet time to concentrate, plus we’re at church 3+ hours with Sunday School and the morning and evening services. I look at it like going to Grandma’s house for a big Sunday dinner rather than eating at home: I am going to church for the “family meal” my pastor and teachers have prepared that day.

There are a number of plans online for reading the Bible through. One here is based, I believe, on the One Year Bible plan. BibleGateway.com has a few different ones: a comprehensive one for reading the Bible through in a year, a 121-day biographical one covering some of the major people in the Bible, a 61-day survey schedule, and a 61-day chronological reading plan.

There is a plan developed by Robert Murray McCheyne (or M’cheyne) here that will take you though the Old Testament once and the New Testament and Psalm twice in a year’s time.

The 52-Week Bible Reading Plan has you reading from different parts of the Bible (Epistles, Law, History, Psalms, Poetry, Prophecy, Gospels) each day. 

There’s a free online version of Alexander Scourby’s audio reading of the KJV for those who learn better by listening than by reading (or who sometimes like to listen while reading).

There is a list of thirteen other Bible reading plans here.

The Bible Broadcasting Network has free Bible studies. They used to have a Bible reading plan in pamphlet form, but I can’t find a link to order it. They do, however, have several useful Bible study tools and they have websites in several different languages, even Chinese and Russian.

Surely with all of those plans there is one to strike everyone’s fancy. )

I’ve mentioned many times that I love reading the Bible through, and when I first started a plan kept me at it and on track. Over the past several years I have continued to read the Bible through, but not in a year. I usually read a chapter or two a day. I’ll sometimes read more at a sitting in some of the narrative passages or some of the shorter epistles. There are some places in the Bible that I don’t comprehend well if I try to read a lot at a time. That’s the goal — understanding and meditating on what we read, not just getting through a list. Plus I want to be free to study out something that strikes me in my reading or look up cross references, etc., without feeling like I don’t have time to because I need to keep with the plan.

Sometimes I take a break in my regular reading to do a particular study or to go through a Christian book, like Changed Into His Image.

Joe’s Goals is a free tracker for the goals you set for yourself.

In closing, here are some quotes from other well-known voices of the past about reading the Word of God:

“Above all theologies, and creeds, and catechisms, and books, and hymns, must the Word be meditated on, that we may grow in the knowledge of all its parts and in assimilation to its models. Our souls must be steeped in it; not in certain favorite parts of it, but the whole. We must know it, not from the report of others but from our own experience and vision,…Another cannot breathe the air for us, nor eat for us, nor drink for us.”
–Horatius Bonar from They Walked With God

“It will greatly help you to understand scripture if you note – not only what is spoken and written, but of whom and to whom, with what words, at what time, where, to what intent, with what circumstances, considering what goes before and what follows. “
–Miles Coverdale

“Some people like to read so many [Bible] chapters every day. I would not dissuade them from the practice, but I would rather lay my soul asoak in half a dozen verses all day than rinse my hand in several chapters. Oh, to be bathed in a text of Scripture, and to let it be sucked up in your very soul, till it saturates your heart! “
–Charles Haddon Spurgeon

“The Word of God well understood and religiously obeyed is the shortest route to spiritual perfection. And we must not select a few favorite passages to the exclusion of others. Nothing less than a whole Bible can make a whole Christian.” –AW. Tozer

“When you are reading a book in a dark room, and come to a difficult part, you take it to a window to get more light. So take your Bibles to Christ.” –Robert Murray M’Cheyne

“If there is anything in my thoughts or style to commend, the credit is due to my parents for instilling in me an early love of the Scriptures. If we abide by the principles taught in the Bible, our country will go on prospering and to prosper; but if we and our posterity neglect its instructions and authority, no man can tell how sudden a catastrophe may overwhelm us and bury all our glory in profound obscurity.” — Daniel Webster

Other posts on this topic:

Devotional tips
Having devotions when you’re not feeling very devoted

God’s Word

When there is no hunger for God’s Word
What do you say about this book?
Praying When You Don’t Feel Like It.
God’s Unchanging Word, a poem by Martin Luther.
Encouragement for mothers of young children about trying to have devotions with little ones afoot.

The Christian’s Bell

I KNOW WHO I AM
I am God's  child (John 1:12)
I am Christ's friend (John 15:15 )
I am united with the  Lord (1 Cor. 6:17)
I am bought with a price (1 Cor 6:19-20)
I am a saint  (set apart for God). (Eph. 1:1)
I am a personal witness of Christ.  (Acts  1:8)
I am the salt & light of the earth (Matt 5:13-14)
I am a member  of the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:27)
I am free forever from condemnation (  Rom. 8: 1-2)
I am a citizen of Heaven. I am significant (Phil 3:20)
I am  free from any charge against me (Rom. 8:31 -34)
I am a minister of  reconciliation for God (2 Cor 5:17-21)
I have access to God through the Holy  Spirit (Eph. 2:18)
I am seated with Christ in the heavenly realms (Eph.  2:6)
I cannot be separated from the love of God (Rom 8:35-39)
I am  established, anointed, sealed by God  (2 Cor 1:21-22 )
I am assured all  things work together for good  (Rom. 8:28  )
I have been chosen and appointed  to bear fruit (John 15:16 )
I may approach God with freedom and confidence  (Eph. 3: 12 )
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil.  4:13)
I am the branch of the true vine, a channel of His life (John 15:  1-5)
I am God's temple (1 Cor. 3: 16).   I am complete in Christ (Col. 2: 10)
I  am hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3).. I have been justified (Romans  5:1)
I am God's co-worker (1 Cor. 3:9; 2 Cor 6:1). I am God's workmanship  (Eph. 2:10)
I am confident that the good works God has begun in me will be  perfected. (Phil. 1: 5)
I have been redeemed and forgiven  (Col 1:14). I have been adopted as God's child (Eph 1:5)
I belong to  God
Do you know
Who you are?
Seen at Strength for Today

Christmas 2008

We had Christmas in stages this year.

We met up Tuesday night with two of my sisters who live about 40 minutes away at a Mexican restaurant between our locations.

Christmas with family

Jason left Christmas Eve afternoon to spend a few days with his fiancee and her family, so we opened his presents to and from us as well as our stockings earlier that day.

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Christmas morning we brought Grandma over. While I finished up a few things, Jesse played his piano recital piece, “It Came Upon a Midnight Clear.”

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(All of these picture, by the way, were taken by Jeremy except the one later on of him.)

Then Jim read the Christmas story.

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Then we opened presents. See that big box right in front? It’s mine. 🙂

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I had thought these were really neat and been wanting one, but thought they were way too expensive. But my husband found a great deal on one.

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Grandma had a great time.

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Living alone and then with a daughter who did not want to celebrate Christmas at all, I think it was a nice change for her to experience a family Christmas again.

We did have a little bit of frustration, though…We used to open one gift at a time while everyone watched and then we talked about it, but that took all morning, so now we kind of go by rounds. Jesse passes out a present to everyone, and we each open that one gift at the same time before we move on, and that gives us a chance to explain or tell the story behind the gift. Grandma, at this stage, can’t seem to wait for anything (I’m wondering if this is true for others elderly parents with some degree of dementia?), so she would be wanting help with her present while Jim was trying to talk to one of the boys about theirs — no waiting patiently in between. But overall that was a relatively minor blip in the day though it was frustrating at the time.

Jim here is opening a globe from Jeremy with constellations on it (astronomy is one of Jim’s interests, plus he likes interesting things on his desk).

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Jesse playing one of his new DS games:

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For the past several years I have made these for Christmas breakfast:

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Sister Shubert’s (or Schubert?) sausage wraps and cinnamon rolls. In the frozen section of the grocery store, only 15 minutes or so in the oven. In the past the boys didn’t want to have breakfast first, but I have low blood sugar and couldn’t wait til mid-morning, so these were a nice compromise. I could heat them up before we got started, and then people could wander in and out of the kitchen as desired. I also opened a can of sliced apples and added sugar and cinnamon and warmed them up.

Jeremy waiting for Christmas dinner…

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Which usually consists of a spiral-sliced brown sugar glazed ham that our local grocery store always has on sale for Christmas, plus Cheesy Potatoes, Vegetable Medley, and brown and serve rolls. Later on we had pumpkin pie and apple pie.

We took Grandma home after the pies, then crashed for the rest of the day. I heated up a plate of leftovers for dinner while Jim and Jeremy made ham sandwiches and Jesse ate leftover Mexican food.

Then Friday we all pitched in for a cleaning marathon. One of Jim’s nephews with his wife and five children, who used to live near Grandma in ID but moved to TN, were coming up for a surprise visit to Grandma. They arrived late in the afternoon while Jim was out picking up Grandma.

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They just stayed over one night, but we had an enjoyable visit. It was good to catch up with them. Their kids range in age from 4 to 12, and I don’t think I had seen them since the oldest was about 4. It had been a long time since we had young kids in the house, and I was expecting a lot of noise and commotion. but they were very quiet and exceptionally well-behaved.

After they left on Saturday we again crashed except for laundry and had pizza for dinner. It was nice to have the house all clean! Usually it takes a few days after Christmas to get things in order.

Yesterday was a fairly normal Sunday. Jason gets back this afternoon, and I have an inkling he’ll bring a couple more presents with him. We’ll probably take the tree down later this week, then it will be “back to normal.” Though in many ways getting back into routine is nice, I often miss the Christmas festivities, lights, gatherings, etc.

Updated to add: I saw after I posted this that 5 Minutes For Moms was hosting a Christmas Photo Carnival, so I linked this post to that.

Retrospectives

I like end-of-the year retrospectives. The Today Show on NBC had a prime-time hour-long look back at 2008 a few nights ago. Time Magazine has a list of the Top 10 of Everything. I am sure there will be more of that type of thing in the next few days.

My family experienced many firsts this year: My husband’s first trips to China and Brazil; Jeremy’s first trip out of the country accompanying his dad to Brazil; Jesse’s first time to make the JV basketball team; Jason’s engagement, the first of our children to take that important step. My mother-in-law moved to SC from ID, the first time we’ve ever had one of our parents living so near us.

At the end of the past two years I’ve taken a look back at my blog, reposting the first sentence of the first post of each month. So let’s see what ushered in each new month of Stray Thoughts:

January:

Biblical Resolutions: “I don’t usually make New Year’s resolutions any more — not the kind you forget about by March.”

February:

A Winner!: “I used the Random.Org Integer Generator to determine the winner of my Bloggy Carnival Giveaway of the book The Greatest Love Stories Ever Told.”

March:

Whom God Has Joined: “Next to reading the Bible, reading missionary books has had the greatest impact on my Christian life. Isobel Kuhn’s books have been among the greatest of those to me.”

April:

Thanks!: “Thanks so much for your kind words and prayers concerning my earlier post. I saw the doctor today. She said I did still have cellulitis, but did not prescribe another round of antibiotics.”

May:

You can’t say ‘No’ until you pray about it“: “I am “rerunning” this post because…I need it!”

June:

Prayer Request: “Heather’s daughter, Emma Grace. whom many of you know, appears to be in heart failure or rejection of her transplanted heart.”

July:

Caring for elderly parents: “I mentioned a while back that my mother-in-law is moving here to SC from Idaho.”

August:

Show and Tell: Paula Vaughan Collection: “Kelli at There’s No Place Like Home hosts ‘Show and Tell Friday.'”

September:

A Laborious Meme: “Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer is hosting a meme for Labor Day about labor — the kind that results in delivering a child.”

October:

Peace Child: “I first encountered Peace Child by Don Richardson several years ago in the Reader’s Digest Book Section.”

November:

A winner!: “The winner of the Christian Victorian Christmas novels via Random.Org is Katelyn.”

December:

Blue Monday & etc.: “We had a bit of drama this morning when Jim’s mom called about 7:30 a.m. saying her hearing aid was broken.”

Contests, memes, book reviews, thoughts from Scripture, prayer requests, family happenings, and assorted other stray thoughts — yep, that just about sums up my blog. 🙂

Updated to add: Kelli at There’s No Place Like Home is hostessing a Mr. Linky where those who do this exercise can link and enjoy looking back through the year together here.

The “Aw, you’re gonna make me cry” present

After seeing my post on our anniversary with the song “The Voyage,” my husband put together this montage of pictures to the song and made a DVD of it for me.

I probably won’t be around much today — we just found out earlier this week that one of Jim’s nephews and his wife and 5 (!) kids are coming for the weekend as a surprise to Grandma, so we’re busy cleaning the Christmas clutter — and other clutter. 🙂 We haven’t had young kids around for a long time — thankfully we saved some of Jesse’s toys for just such an occasion.

Hope you all had a good Christmas and have a good weekend!

Merry Christmas!

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I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas with those you love remembering the birth of our Savior and Lord, who came from everything familiar, comfortable, right, and glorious to live among sinful people who would misunderstand and reject Him, in order to provide salvation for us.

Mystery of Christmas

The Mystery of Christmas

By John R. Van Gelderen, sung by Mary Lynne Van Gelderen

Mystery of Christmas night,
Prophecies of old come true —
Infant lies in candle light,
Prince of peace in wondrous view.

Mystery of Christmas night
Shining forth salvation’s light.

Gift of God and hope of man,
King of glory born on earth.
God’s eternal master plan
Offers man a second birth.

Mystery of Christmas night
Shining forth salvation’s light.

Mystery of Christmas glow,
Shining still with saving light
Christ the Savior man may know
Miracle of Christmas night.

Mystery of Christmas night
Shining forth salvation’s light.

(Sound clip and download available here.)

What’s On Your Nighstand?

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The folks at 5 Minutes For Books host What’s On Your Nightstand? the last Tuesday of each month in which we can share about the books we have been reading and plan to read. You can learn more about it by clicking the link or the button. This month’s participants are here.

I just posted about the books I finished reading for the Fall Into Reading Challenge a few days ago, so I won’t list all those again here. I do have several books waiting to curl up with me on some of those long winter nights ahead:

I am currently reading @ Home for the Holidays with the same characters from SAHM I Am by Meredith Efken about a group of stay-at-home moms who stay in touch via an e-mail loop as well as the complete unabridged Les Miserables by Victor Hugo. I’m on page 366 of this 1,463 page book.

Also in the queue, not necessarily in this order:

Every Now and Then by Karen Kingsbury

Thread of Deceit by Catherine Palmer

To the Golden Shore by Courtney Anderson about Americas’ first missionary, Adoniram Judson. I have read it before but wanted to revisit it.

American Haven by Elisabeth Yates. I gad mentioned somewhere a book I had read as a child about a girl named Merry from England, but I couldn’t remember the title or author, and Sally mentioned this might be it.

Dr. Frau: A Woman Doctor Among the Amish by Grace H. Kaiser.

What Women Wish You Knew About Dating: A Single Guy’s Guide to Romantic Relationships by Stephen W. Simpson. Having sons in or coming up to the age of dating, this caught my eye. When I saw it reviewed at Deena‘s, one of the incidents mentioned sounded a lot like one son, so I thought I’d check it out before recommending it.

Plain Perfect by Beth Wiseman.

Falling For You Again and Winter Turns to Spring, the last two in the Four Seasons series dealing with marriage by Catherine Palmer and Gary Chapman.

The Heirloom by Colleen L. Reece and Julie Reece-DeMarco, just given to me by my friend, Carol.

No Place Like Home by Brad Williams.

The Centurion’s Wife by Davis Bunn and Janette Oke.

Hannah’s Hope: A Journey of Faith by Hope Houchins about Hannah Sobeski, a young woman with cancer who had lived in our state.

House Blend: Warm Stories From Your Favorite Authors.

Housewives Desperate For God by Jennie Chauncey and Stacy McDonald. This has been on my shelf for a long time.

Will I finish all these? Probably not. But they’ll wait for me. And looking at the stack of them is making want to lay everything aside and start reading! Can’t do it now, but soon….

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Monday odds and ends

  • We very much enjoyed our anniversary! Thanks for all your lovely thoughts and wishes. We usually just go out to dinner and exchange cards since it is such a busy time, but I look forward to that dinner out with just the two of us each year amid everything else going on. I’d recommend it even if it is not your anniversary.
  • Everyone is off this week, and I so enjoyed sleeping in!! I definitely needed it.
  • I think I am pretty well set for Christmas. I need to sit down and take stock and make a list, but overall things are going well with minimum stress, despite the late start. I know I have to go to the grocery store: we don’t have freezer space for something big like a ham or turkey, so I have to wait until a few days beforehand to get those. I also need to get my mother-in-law a stocking since she will be with us Christmas Day, and I am kicking myself for not thinking about it all the times I’ve walked through Christmas decorations the past few weeks and hoping there is something decent left. I need to get some stocking stuffers and round out a few things…but overall I’m feeling pretty well prepared. There is one thing I wanted to make for a after-Christmas birthday, but there are few places that sell fabric in town any more and none has what I want, so if there is time I may try to go to the next town to buy fabric.
  • The last of the Christmas events has been attended except for meeting my sisters and their families for dinner this week (we live less than an hour from each other but rarely see each other, our schedules just don’t mesh) and our church’s Christmas Eve service. Oh, and two sons have a Christmas party to attend.
  • I wanted to tell you about two new blogs. My middle son, Jason, just started a blog here —  mostly Bible study thoughts right now, but I think he’s planning to expand it as he goes along. And then I have so many quotes and poems in my files I decided to start a blog called Words Fitly Spoken. It’s mostly Christmas quotes right now, but I’ll add others after Christmas.
  • We’re all missing my son’s fiancee. 😦 It’s beginning to slowly dawn that, unless they live nearby, we won’t have that frequent contact like we’ve had the past year or two.
  • Many of you know Lizzie at A Dusty Frame, but if you don’t, her family is going through a trial right now, and she is trying to earn money and still stay home with her son. She has a post here about ways to help, but I wanted to especially mention her shop, called The Dusty Attic, and her Etsy Shop.
  • I do have one or two more things I want to share before Christmas, so I’ll be back before then. I know it is a busy time before then, so if I don’t see you again before Christmas, I hope you have a blessed, meaningful one.