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Book Review: Dreams in the Medina

Dreams in the MedinaI first encountered Dreams in the Medina by Kati Woronka when Lisa reviewed it. We discussed how fiction can sometimes make things more real to us or cause us to care more than we otherwise would. Later Lisa said the author had given her a voucher to share the book with one other person, and since she knew I liked fiction, she graciously offered it to me. Thank you, both Lisa and Kati!

The Medina is a student housing complex of the University of Damascus, and Dreams tells the story of four women students. Most of the story focuses on Leila, a practicing Muslim whose world is expanding by what she is learning in her English literature courses and exposure to other cultures. Huda is excessively studious, but the others don’t realize the extent her family is depending on her to do well, and the pressure almost has tragic ends. Huda is a Muslim by culture but is largely untaught about it and doesn’t mind questioning its teachings. Maha is a Christian but doesn’t seem to know a whole lot about her faith (for example, she can’t answer why offerings are taken at her church when another girl thinks she has to “pay” to come), but she seems the most stable of the group. Roxy is a free spirit, and unbeknownst to her family is a second wife to a Muslim man.

There are recognizable college activities common to most any culture: trying to cram studies in, visiting each other’s rooms, socializing, girl-talk, thrills and sorrows with the opposite sex, and questions and struggles on the road to becoming an adult.

But of course there are differences as well. They make tabouli in their rooms rather than ordering pizza. Conflicts come from things like washing one’s feet for ablutions before prayer in the same sink where food is prepared. Family expectations carry more weight than one’s personal desires. And the various degrees of their faith and practice affect them in a myriad of ways.

I was surprised at first by the different practices of Muslims from different villages, but then realized that they might be surprised by the variation in professing Christians here as well.

Since the book is written primarily from Leila’s point of view as a Muslim, there are statements I wouldn’t agree with as a Christian, like the assumption that the Bible and the Quran agree (in a few minor things, maybe, but not overall), but I can understand such statements coming from her, and her perspective as she gets to know Maha better and even attends her church once are interesting. One statement stood out that the prominent display of a cross in the church “was completely unapologetic in its declaration that Christians are all about the cross.”

Overall this was a nicely-written window into a world I knew very little about. I ashamed to say that before this book I wasn’t even aware that there was a civil war in Syria. Though the setting of the book is before the war (I think — I don’t remember a mention of it), the pictures of these women and the country have made the people more real to me now and raised my awareness, and I think those would have been some of Kati’s goals.

Dreams in the Medina is available for Kindle or for various e-readers. Though not an expensive book, it is on sale half-price for a few days at Smashwords. You can follow Kati’s blog and read more about the background of the book here.

(This will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

Laudable Linkage and Videos

Here are a few interesting reads from the last couple of weeks:

When Your Faith Community Fails You.

When You’re Spiritually Numb.

The Word-less “Church”.

7 Ways to Do a Bad Word Study.

How It Felt Watching Season 3 of “Downton Abbey” as told by “Downton Abbey”. If you watch the show and have seen all of the third season, this is hilarious. I have mixed emotions about DA — have thought about doing a post on it some time.

Canyon Jump Not Exactly a Lover’s Leap. This guy may never get another date. Deservedly.

And a few about writing:

Encouragement For Writers. “I am not called to write. I am called to intimacy with Him. It is about letting your dreams die and being willing to live out His dreams for you.”

My Secrets: How I Became a Prolific Writer and Learned to Get Beyond School Essays.

Some writing opportunities, HT to Kindred Heart Writers.

This is a cute short video of a father dancing in front of his babies, and the babies mimic him and stop when he does. If that link doesn’t work, the same video is here, but someone added music on top of it that takes away from it, in my opinion. It’s funnier when it’s just the dad singing.

This is touching. And I love the tiara on her helmet. 🙂

Craig Courtney is one of my favorite modern composers and arrangers. This is a video of snippets taken from a longer concert, and I enjoyed hearing him discuss aspects of some of his works.

Friday’s Fave Five

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Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week,  wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

It’s been a spring one day, winter the next kind of week. Here are some high points from it:

1. Jim progressing well after surgery. He went from walking around our cul-de-sac and worked up to walking a mile and a half, drove for the first time Wednesday, attended prayer meeting, and went back to work for partial days yesterday and today. He still has a “punched in the stomach” feeling and has trouble getting comfortable in order to sleep at night, but overall he’s doing nicely. Thank you again for praying.

2. A break from cooking. I mentioned last week that my son and daughter-in-law made up a few meals for us while Jim was in the hospital, and Saturday our pastor’s wife made dinner for us. Between that and the leftovers and a few fast-food forays, I didn’t cook from Wednesday through Sunday, except for tossing things in the oven or microwave and making a salad. I enjoyed the time off from the kitchen.

3. Celebrating Mittu’s birthday. It was a little late, as her birthday was the same day as the surgery, but it was fun celebrating on Saturday. She requested mini cheesecakes instead of a cake, and it was fun to experiment with those.

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4. Daffodils are sprouting around the neighborhood, a sure and cheery sign that spring is on the way!

5. Visiting Jim’s mom together. Since Jim couldn’t drive for several days, I drove him over to see his mom at the skilled nursing facility. Usually either he goes after work or I go during the day, so it was nice to go together. Plus we ran into our assistant pastor there one day and had a nice visit.

Hope you have a great weekend!

Laura Ingalls Wilder Reading Challenge Wrap-Up

Laura Ingalls Wilder Reading Challenge
With the end of February, we come to the end of the Laura Ingalls Wilder reading Challenge for this year. If you’ve read anything by, about, or related to Laura this month, please share it with us in the comments. You can share a link back to your book reviews, or if you’ve written a wrap-up post, you can link back to that (the latter might be preferable if you’ve written more than one review — the WordPress spam filter tends to send comments with more than one link to the spam folder. But I’ll try to keep a watch out for them.) We’d also love to hear if you’ve done any “Little House” related activities.
And, if you’ve participated this month, you’re eligible for the drawing for a copy of The Little House Cookbook, compiled by Barbara M. Walker and illustrated by Garth Williams (the same illustrator for my set of Little House books). I’ll choose a name through random.org. a week from today to give everyone time to get their last books and posts finished. You’re eligible even if you don’t have a blog: just share with us in the comments what you read and a few of your thoughts about it. If you already have this book, I can substitute a similarly-priced Laura book of your choice. I’ve spent some time looking through it: it’s more than just recipes: it shares a lot of interesting information as well as excerpts about food and cooking from the books.
For myself, I had planned to make some items from it and have something of a birthday party for Laura on her birthday, the 7th, but that was when my mother-in-law was ill, and between that, moving her to a new place, and my husband’s surgery, I didn’t do any “Laura” activities, but I did manage to get a few books read. These link back to my reviews:
West From Home by Laura Ingalls Wilder, a compilation of letters Laura wrote to Almanzo while visiting their daughter, Rose, and Rose’s husband, and the World’s Fair.
Let the Hurricane Roar by Rose Wilder Lane. Laura’s daughter wrote a fictionalized account of some of her grandparent’s experiences.
On the Banks of Plum Creek by Laura Ingalls Wilder, covers the same events as Let the Hurricane Roar plus a few more: a grasshopper plague, blizzards, attending school for the first time, meeting Nellie Oleson.
I had originally planned to read Farmer Boy, about Almanzo’s childhood, but when I discovered the Plum Creek book covered some of the same events as Rose’s book, I wanted to go ahead and read it while the other was fresh in my mind. Farmer Boy was the second book written of the Little House books, but it can really be read at any point. I do want to read it before Almanzo shows up in Laura’s story, though!
Thank you all for participating! That’s what makes this challenge so fun. I’ve already come across a book or two I hadn’t known of before that I want to read next time through some of your reviews. I’m looking forward to your thoughts on what you’ve read!

What’s On Your Nightstand: February 2013

What's On Your NightstandThe folks at 5 Minutes For Books host What’s On Your Nightstand? the fourth Tuesday of each month in which we can share about the books we have been reading and/or plan to read.

February has seemed like a much longer month than 28 days this year. But I’ve managed to get some reading and audiobook-listening in.

Since last time I have finished:

Emily of New Moon for Carrie’s Lucy Maud Montgomery Reading Challenge, reviewed here.

The Tenth Plague by Adam Blumer, reviewed here. Suspenseful Christian fiction about a warped man who uses the Biblical ten plagues of Egypt as a playbook to exact revenge, and the couple who is trying to find and stop him.

The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne, reviewed here, for Carrie’s Reading to Know Book Club.

Let the Hurricane Roar by Rose Wilder Lane, reviewed here. Laura’s daughter wrote a fictionalized account of some of her grandparent’s experiences. This one and the next two were for the Laura Ingalls Wilder Reading Challenge which wraps up Thursday.

West From Home by Laura Ingalls Wilder, reviewed here, a compilation of letters Laura wrote to Almanzo while visiting their daughter, Rose, and Rose’s husband, and the World’s Fair.

On the Banks of Plum Creek by Laura Ingalls Wilder, reviewed here. It covers the same events as Let the Hurricane Roar plus a few more: a grasshopper plague, blizzards, attending school for the first time, meeting Nellie Oleson.

These High Green Hills (audiobook) by Jan Karon, Book 3 of the Mitford series, not reviewed. There is a lot in this book: dealing with a case of child abuse, an unidentified burn victim, and the death of a long-time Mitford resident, as well as the continuing adventures of Father Tim and the rest of Mitford.

I also wrote about books I remember reading as a child and my reading history here.

I’m currently reading:

Dreams in the Medina by Kati Woronka, courtesy of a free voucher Lisa graciously shared with me, a coming-of-age story about several girls in Syria.

Out to Canaan by Jan Karon (audiobook), Book 4 of the Mitford series.

Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert by Rosaria Champagne Butterfield: a lesbian leftist professor who hates Christians….becomes one. Just started this one and can’t wait to dig in more.

Coming up next:

Introverts in the Church: Finding Our Place in an Extroverted Culture by Adam S. McHugh. I know it’s okay to be an introvert, but I struggle with whether I sometimes play the introvert card when I should be seeking God’s grace to extend myself. We all need to leave our comfort zones sometimes.

A New Song by Jan Karon.

A Maud Hart Lovelace book for Carrie’s Reading to Know Book Club for March. I’ve never read her: any suggestions?

I need to pick something from my multitude of Kindle app downloads! But I’ll decide that after I finish some of the above.

So what are you reading?

Update: I am linking this post up with

btt  button Booking Through Thursday, a weekly meme related to books. Today’s (2/28) question is “what are we reading,” which ties in nicely with this post. 🙂

Book Review: On the Banks of Plum Creek

Plum CreekI wanted to read next On the Banks of Plum Creek by Laura Ingalls Wilder right on the heels of Let the Hurricane Roar (linked to my thoughts) by her daughter, Rose Wilder Lane  while it was fresh in my mind, because they covered some of the same events.

Little House on the Prairie had ended with the Ingalls family having to leave their homestead in “Indian territory” when it was determined that the Indians had rights to the land. On the Banks of Plum Creek opens with the family coming into Minnesota near Walnut Grove (“only three miles away, a nice walk”, Pa says) and trading their horses for the land and crops of a family who is leaving. The family had a little dugout house, and the Ingalls live there until Pa’s wheat crops start to sprout, and he borrows against it to buy lumber and supplies for a new house.

Since they are close to town, Mary and Laura begin to attend school, where they meet the infamous Nellie Oleson, who becomes an instant enemy with her derisive assessment of them as “country girls.” The also meet Reverend Alden and are able to attend church for the first time in a long time.

This book contains some of my favorite “Little House” scenes, like the party where their classmates are invited to the house on the creek and Laura lures Nellie into the area where the crab and leeches are, the church Christmas party where Laura gets her fur cape and muff, the girls bringing in all the firewood during a storm when Ma and Pa are away after they heard about a house of children who froze. It also tells of the awful grasshopper invasion, Pa’s having to go East for work, prairie fires, and the terrible blizzards.

Some of us reading Laura’s letters in books like West From Home have remarked how unemotional her correspondence seems. I’m not sure how much of that comes from her personality and how much from her upbringing. The Ingalls weren’t stoics, but their attitude during any crisis seemed to be to buck up and do what you had to do. Emotion is shown more subtly, as when Pa stops playing his fiddle during stressful times or Ma sits late at the window with the light in it, staring at her hands, worried for her husband, who might be caught out in a blizzard. Once when a visiting child takes a liking to Laura’s rag doll and wants to keep it, Ma admonishes Laura that the child is little and company and should have the doll, and scolds Laura that a great girl like her (about age 8 at this time) should sulk over it. But then later Ma does come around and says she didn’t realize Laura cared so much for the doll and helps her restore it when Laura rescues it from a puddle, and while she doesn’t let them rant, she does understand when they’re strained and stops work to play games with them. Laura is ashamed of herself for crying during Pa’s long absence, saying it would be a shame even for younger Carrie to cry. Laura seems to paint herself as the only family member having bad emotions, like envy and pride.

Once again I marvel at the strength of the early settlers, who regard three miles as a “nice walk” and bear so much without a whimper. I don’t know if we could do today what they did, maybe because we haven’t had to. But then, each generation has its particular trials and hardships.

I liked seeing through Laura’s eyes as she described new things and how she thought when she fell into temptation. I enjoyed visiting with the Ingalls family again, with Pa’s cheerfulness, Ma’s gentleness and resourcefulness, their industriousness and endurance of the whole family as well as their enjoy of simple pleasures, and the interaction of the family as well as getting to know new neighbors from town.

Laura Ingalls Wilder Reading Challenge

(This will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

We Are Not Alone

“Lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.”
Matthew 28:20b

Friday’s Fave Five

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Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week,  wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

Thanks so much for your prayers for Jim’s surgery. Everything went pretty well. We’ll get the pathology report back in about a week, and the doctor didn’t see any other areas of concern. He was released from the hospital yesterday (Thursday) and had a pretty rough time with nausea and pain for a while, but both are under control with prescription medicines now.

Even with surgery during the week, there were highlights of God’s grace:

1. Kind and capable nurses.

2. Hospital food. I don’t know how it was for the patient as Jim didn’t get to experience much of it, but I had a great lunch of the most tender pot roast I’ve had in a long time plus a chocolate peanut butter pie from the cafeteria. When his mom was in, we had a great turkey and dressing lunch there. I may stop in even when no one is a patient. 🙂

3. Surprises. Our pastor unexpectedly met us when we first went to the hospital and stayed with us until they were almost ready to take Jim to surgery. That meant a lot. Someone probably would have stayed with me during surgery, but I had told the pastor weeks before that I’d rather zone out with a book than have to try to make conversation. But I was glad Jason and Mittu came and stayed, and Jesse came after classes. Then I didn’t know until the next day that after Jason and Mittu left they went to our house and made up a couple of meals to go into the oven and a plate full of sandwiches and brought some soup. And last weekend they had gone away for the weekend for Mittu’s birthday (which was Wednesday, the same day as Jim’s surgery. Happy belated birthday, Mittu! We’ll be celebrating later) and brought us back an order of rolls from Fatz Cafe, one of favorite places that unfortunately we don’t have here. We enjoyed them with a couple of meals.

4. People from church who have been and will be visiting Jim’s mom while he is recuperating.

5. Computer cases and fixes. Something went wrong with my desktop computer last weekend–a corrupted file, Jim thinks. He and my oldest son spent a lot of time getting it back in good working order. And I had been looking for a case for my laptop for some time and finally settled on this one, and was able to apply my gift card from Katrina’s Fall Into Reading Challenge to it. It took me ages to decide on one but I like that this is both classy and feminine and has a bit of storage room for other things as well.

Bonus: Humor helps in many ways!

Surgery day!

Well, today’s the big day — my husband’s surgery to have his kidney removed is this afternoon. (If you missed it I wrote more about it here).

Would appreciate your prayers that he come through the surgery well, that God would guide the doctor, that he have a good and quick recovery with no infection, that his mom’s health and situation will remain stable throughout this time, and that I and the rest of the family will have calm hearts.

I don’t know how much I’ll be online for the next few days. On the one hand, I’ll be waiting through the surgery and then he’ll be sleeping a lot afterward. But while he is recuperating I need to be available for him.

I may update here when he comes out of surgery.

Thanks for your prayers, support, and friendship! ♥

Update: everything went well and we’re in his room now. He’s having a hard time getting comfortable but otherwise ok.

A lady in the waiting room waiting for someone in surgery had an asthma attack and had to be taken to the ER. Kinda scary, but I guess a good place to be if you have to have one.

Our pastor was here when we got here and stayed with us til they had Jim prepped for surgery. That was an unexpected blessing.

Thank you all for your warm thoughts and prayers!

Book Review: The Scarlet Letter

Scarlet LetterThe February selection for Carrie‘s  Reading to Know Book Club is The Scarlet Letter, chosen by Shonya from Learning How Much I Don’t Know. I don’t think I have read it since high school, so I figured it would be good to revisit it, especially when I found it as an audiobook.

As most people know, The Scarlet Letter is about Hester Prynne, whose sin of adultery has produced a child in a 1640 Puritan community and whose punishment is to wear the letter A for “adulteress” on her bosom. I’ve been looking around at other reviews, study guides, and such, and many seem to see the story as a strong woman overcoming the confines of a repressive society. But I saw it described in a couple of places as a psychological romance or drama, and I think that is where the strength of the story is.

The audiobook for some reason leaves out the first chapter in which the narrator finds the scarlet letter in a custom house before telling the story behind it. We first see Hester emerging from the prison, the scarlet A already on her chest, with her child in her arms, sentenced to stand on a public scaffolding for three hours. She had been married, and her husband had sent her on ahead to this country, but her pregnancy became evident too long after arriving for the child to have been her husband’s. In all the intervening time he has not been heard from and is assumed dead. Hester steadfastly refuses to name the other guilty party in her sin.

The first time I read the book, it took me a while to realize who it was. If I were reading it for the first time as an adult, I think I would have figured it out much faster. It was interesting reading it knowing who he was from the outset, as there are clues everywhere. I’ve wrestled with whether to name him or not: I don’t want to destroy the suspense for anyone who hasn’t read it yet, but I don’t know how much I can say about the book without naming him. I’ll give it a try. 🙂

The psychological drama comes in the contrast between Hester’s publicized guilt and its consequences, ostracism from society and the resulting extreme loneliness, versus the consequences her partner in sin’s suppressed guilt: the torment of hearing praises heaped on him for his goodness when he knows he is a hypocrite. At first I thought he kept quiet because he was spineless, but later the author shows he is concerned as well about the negative repercussions his guiltiness could have if it were known, thus he feels “caught,” and his guilt begins to affect him physically.

Hester’s long-lost husband shows up at the first scaffolding scene, but signals to Hester to remain quiet. When he speaks to her later, he swears her to secrecy about his real name and their relationship. He understands, in one sense, her sin, because theirs had not been a marriage of love, and he was much older than she. But he determines to find and exact revenge upon Hester’s partner. He has become a doctor of sorts and goes by the name of Roger Chillingworth, fitting for his cold heart. There is more psychological drama when he thinks he has found the guilty party and determines to “dig” until he knows for sure, and the guilty party thinks he is a friend and doesn’t realize the danger.

The book could be easily divided into sections based on three scenes at the scaffold, where each of the major characters appear each time. The first I’ve mentioned; in the second, the other guilty party has been driven in the middle of the night to the scaffold in his guilt and pain. Self-flagellation, fasting, and vigils have not alleviated his guilt, so he goes himself to the scene of Hester’s shame — yet under cover of darkness, where he is tortured at the thought of being found out. Hester and her daughter, Pearl, happen to be walking by at that same time, and he calls to them to join him. They do, and Pearl asks if he will stand with them the next day at noon. He says no, but he will at the Judgment Day. Then the light of a meteor reveals the face of Chillingworth watching them. The final scaffolding scene takes place near the end of the book, with the same characters, yet in a public setting, where everyone’s fate is resolved.

The book is replete with symbolism: the A, of course, and the different meanings associated with it through the years, Chillingworth’s name and misshapen form representing his heart, Hester’s dressing little Pearl in scarlet, the scenes in the forest, the wild rosebush by the prison door, various manifestations of light and darkness. Pearl herself seems symbolic until the end of the book and acts something like a conscience for her parents. At one point she tells Hester, “the sunshine does not love you. It runs away and hides itself, because it is afraid of something on your bosom.

There are two things I don’t know that keep me from understanding this book more fully. One is Puritan society. I don’t know if how it is viewed here and in general (legalistic, harsh, repressive) is what it really was. This community is totally graceless, but the quotes I have read from Puritans have not been, though I admittedly have not read a great deal of Puritan literature. One source said that Puritans believed that whether you were “elect” or not would show in your life, thus Hester’s partner’s dilemma and struggle between his public persona and private sin. But all of the sources I looked at spoke of either being “elect” or earning one’s way to heaven (which did not seem possible for anyone in the book), yet neglected the real truth of grace that reaches out to the fallen sinner to provide redemption.

The other thing is Hawthorne’s transcendentalism and how it affected his views. I looked into this a bit when rereading Little Women (linked to my thoughts) but didn’t feel I really got a handle on their beliefs. Maybe someone else who read this book for this challenge will have more insight into that.

But I could definitely see the themes and contrasts between judgment and grace, penitence and repentance, and true  versus perceived identity (both Hester’s partner and Chillingworth present different personas from what they really are and tend to self-destruct because of it). I don’t know if I would say I enjoyed the book, but it was an interesting study.

(This will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)