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“Obeying the Great Commandment”

“Obeying the Great Commandment” is the seventh chapter in the book The Discipline of Grace by Jerry Bridges, which we’re discussing every Thursday in the “Reading Classics Together” challenge at Challies‘ place.

The Great Commandment Bridges refers to is from Matthew 22:36-40:

“Master, which is the great commandment in the law?”

Jesus said unto him, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

However, love is not just a nice warm feeling. Bridges shares several passage that show that love for God with result in obedience to him, among them these from John 14:

15 If ye love me, keep my commandments.

21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.

23 Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.

24a He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings.

For many of us, obedience means fitting in with whatever Christian culture we’re in rather than a whole-hearted purposeful pursuit of learning and doing God’s will. Or we obey with mixed motives — fear of punishment, gift, withholding of blessings, negative consequences, desire to “look good” before others, the feeling that we’ll earn God’s blessing by our deeds, etc. “Without the motive of love, my apparent obedience may be essentially self-serving” (p. 122).

“Fervency of worship on Sunday morning or in our private devotions is vain without an accompanying fervency in obedience to God. On the other hand, precise and exact obedience to the law of God is in vain if it is not prompted by love for Him” (pp. 122-23).

“A person who struggles with some persistent sin but does so out of love for God is more pleasing to Him than the person who has no such struggle but is proud of his or her self-control” (pp. 123-24).

But how do we develop that love for God? “We love him, because he first loved us” (I John 4:19). Our love is a response to His, so meditating on His love for us is the greatest way to increase our love for Him. “To love God, I must believe that He is for me, not against me (Romans 8:1), and that He accepts me as a son or a daughter, not a slave (Galatians 4:7) (p. 125).

Guilt and a sense of condemnation keep us from love, so we need continually cleansed consciences, cleansed by confessing our sin to Him and trusting in His forgiveness, in order to keep that right relationship with Him. His love for us in the gospel is the greatest factor in creating and maintaining our love for Him.

This was perhaps the easiest chapter to understand so far, but it convicted at several points, mainly in having a laid-back rather than a whole-hearted pursuit of obedience and the many wrong motives for obedience.

More discussion on this chapter can be found here. My discussions of previous chapters are here.

“As seen on the Internet”

I’ve tried some tips seen on the Internet, mostly on Pinterest, lately, and I though I’d share how they turned out.

This post, seen on Pinterest, told about making an entire meal in the crock pot: pork chops on the bottom, potatoes wrapped in foil and placed on top, and corn on the cob wrapped in foil placed on top of that. I thought that sounded like a great idea, so I tried it, except instead of wrapping the potatoes in foil I cut them in chunks and placed them under the pork chops. I love potatoes that way, when the sauce and meat juices slow cook into them. But I did place corn on the cob in foil on top of that. The meat and potatoes were great, but to me the corn ended up tasting old and dry. It may be I just had some older ears of corn and it may turn out better for others, (it obviously did for the person who posted the recipe), but for me, I think I’ll stick with boiling corn on the cob in water.

Rating: 💡 💡

This pin told about using equal parts of Dawn dishwashing liquid and vinegar on the tub for an hours or more to get rid of soap scum and build-up. I tried it first with the dish liquid I use, and it didn’t really do anything. But then I bought some Dawn and tried it, and it worked great. I wouldn’t say it is completely spotless, but it did a great job. I kept clicking through to get back to the original post about it, and it said to heat the vinegar. I hadn’t seen that when I tried it, so I don’t know if that would make it work even better.

Rating: 💡 💡 💡 💡

This pin said to soak paper towels in vinegar, wrap them around the faucet, leave them for an hour, and wipe it off to remove the gunky stuff that gets around the base of the faucet. That really didn’t work any better for me than commercials cleaners, then the kitchen smelled like vinegar all afternoon. Yuk. Plus it left a white residue.

Rating: 💡 💡

What worked just as well, even a little better, was to make a paste of baking soda and vinegar and scrub it around the faucet with a toothbrush and then wipe off. The vinegar smell wasn’t bad at all and didn’t linger. And those both these methods cleaned the gunk, but they didn’t remove the hard water spots. I finally bought a commercial cleaner for that but haven’t tried it yet.

Rating: 💡 💡 💡

My favorite Internet tip wasn’t found on Pinterest but rather through a search for getting rid of ants. We had problems with them off and on through the summer. Oddly, they didn’t get into any food cabinets but came up through the medicine cabinet. Even then they didn’t get into anything there but expanded onto the counters. We’d spray them, and they’d be gone for a few days, but then come back. I wanted something longer lasting and less toxic. I saw a number of ideas that seemed pretty messy, but the one that looked easiest was leaving bay leaves in the area where they come in. So I scattered a few bay leaves in that cabinet, and we haven’t seen ants in the kitchen since!

Rating: 💡 💡 💡 💡 💡

I’ve found a number of food-related ideas and tips online. The one I was most excited about recently was how to make my own tartar sauce. We don’t have fish often, and the last time we did I discovered I was out of tartar sauce, so I dashed to the computer to find this. It really tasted great, and making about half that recipe would be about enough for one meal, which I’d prefer to do so it wouldn’t spoil since we don’t use it much.

Rating: 💡 💡 💡 💡 💡

I guess it was a sign that I have been perusing Pinterest too much when I saw what looked like grandparents in Home Depot buying a big metal drip pan and thought, “Oh, they must be making a magnet board for their grandkids!” Maybe — or maybe they just needed an oil drip pan. 🙂

Here are some other neat ideas I haven’t tried yet (if you’re not familiar with using Pinterest, usually if you click on the photo it will take you to the site that explains more about the idea):

Making onesies and socks look like cupcakes for a baby gift or shower.

A way to get kids to look at the camera.

Lace storage.

A faux cami for tops that are too low.

Assorted canvas crafts.

Some neat photography ideas (some of those will have to wait for when we have grandkids.

As will these ideas for kids.

Sigh. So many neat ideas — so little time. But it does stimulate my imagination and creativity to look at them.

Have you found any neat ideas online lately?

Book Review: The Bridesmaid

The Bridesmaid by Beverly Lewis is the second in her Home to Hickory Hollow series, and some characters are in both books, but each can easily be understood alone.

Joanna Kurtz is close to suffering from the old cliche, “Always a bridesmaid, never a bride.” She is 24, which by her community’s standard sets her in danger of being an old maid, and there are no prospects of a suitor in site. But an out-of-town trip for a relative’s funeral leads to a meeting with Eben Troyer, a young Amish man near her age.

The two hit it off immediately, but their relationship is beset my many problems. Besides living in different states and only communicating by letter and an every-other-week phone call, Eben is responsible for helping his father on the farm. The farm would go by rights to his younger brother, Leroy, but Leroy is off “in the world,” getting higher education and learning to fly planes, both taboo to the Amish. All of Eben’s hopes are tied up in Leroy’s coming “back to the fold,” which humanly speaking does not look likely.

Joanna has a semi-secret hobby: she loves to write stories. While not expressly forbidden, it is frowned upon. When news of it reaches the bishop’s ear, he pays a visit to warn her against it. Innocently she asks about the difference between writing stories and telling them, as there are famed Amish story-tellers, but she is threatened with shunning if her impertinence continues. If Joanna is in trouble with her bishop, that would not only affect her own life and her family, but it would likely prevent her from being able to move out of state as well.

Just as these problems  and others for Joanna and Eben come to a head, another young man from Joanna’s community, who seemed undesirable before, begins to show her attention, and she wonders whether God might be leading her toward him.

A relative gives Joanna a quilt stitched by her namesake, and as Joanna learns the story behind the quilt, it inspires her to trust the Lord for her future.

I enjoyed this story and Joanna’s journey. I especially appreciated that in this series, each plot wraps up instead of being held over until the sequel. I always enjoy Beverly’s books. There is something cozy about them, and I admire the industriousness and gentleness of the Amish women. Beverly does not gloss over the problems the Amish face, though, especially the legalism that varies from church to church. I’m looking forward to the next book in the series in April.

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

 

Book Review: The Discovery

In The Discovery by Dan Walsh, famous author Gerard Warner has just passed away. Though well-loved, he was reclusive, not allowing photographs of himself on his book covers, only granting print interviews, never going on book tours. No one knew him like his family, especially his grandson, Michael, who is also an aspiring author.

At the reading of the will, the family members discover that they are each now ridiculously wealthy, and Michael has been willed his grandfather’s beautiful home in Charleston, SC. Michael can begin in earnest now to pursue his own dreams of writing.

In his grandfather’s office Michael discovers a previously unpublished manuscript from his grandfather along with a note indicating that he had intended for Michael to find it. As Michael becomes engrossed in the WWII spy novel, he begins to realize the impact this book will have on his family. And since his grandfather’s manuscript is published as a book within this book, readers can follow along as well.

I can’t say too much more about the plot without spoiling it, and some readers may be able to figure out the main thrust of it just from these few words. But even though I figured things out way before Michael did, this was still a very intriguing read.

My only real criticism of the book is that the spiritual truth in it comes through a character who is a part of what I would consider to be a works-based denomination (though one is not saved by denomination but by personal repentance and faith in Christ). This is the second book in which Walsh has done that. I wouldn’t have a problem with it if this was a secular novel, but in Christian fiction I am dismayed to see such lines blurred.

But overall I really enjoyed the story. Charleston is one of my all-time favorite cities, and I loved the scenes there. The dilemma that Ben, the character in Gerard’s manuscript, finds himself in is heart-wrenching, and  making sacrifices for one you love is displayed on several levels.

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

Laudable Linkage

I don’t mean to toot my own horn or call my own link laudable, but I thought some of you might be interested in seeing my latest newspaper column: Missionaries can be a force for good. My original title was “Tolerance, Evangelism, and Missions.” I only have one more column left — and too many ideas for it! In some ways it will be a relief not to have to meet this deadline every six weeks, but in a greater sense I will miss it. But I can reapply after a year. (If you are interested, my other columns are here.)

Here are some interesting online reads discovered in the last week or so:

The Redistribution of Wealth is a topic that comes up often in election years, but is it a Biblical idea? No, but the Bible does have much to say to those with any kind of wealth.

Making Friends With Imperfect People. There is no other kind….but this could be more aptly titled “Making Friends in Imperfect Situations.”

Here I Am, or There You Are? Makes all the difference in the world.

15+ Free Printable Grocery Lists from Tipnut, who always has a great wealth of good information.

I have never cooked salmon, but nikkipolani’s Slow Cooked Salmon sounds really good.

Astronomy Photographer of the Year 2012. “The heavens are telling of the glory of God; And their expanse is declaring the work of His hands.” Psalm 19:1.

Author Sarah Sundin is having  Facebook party and giveaway of her novel With Every Letter (linked to my review).

I had not heard, that I remember, that they were making a movie titled “Lincoln,” but it looks good.

Hope you have a great Saturday!

Friday’s Fave Five

Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week, a wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

It’s been something of a mixed week, but here are some of the high points of it:

1. A new disk drive. My computer has been putting up little warning notices about not having enough disk space, and I’ve been deleting old files and photos I no longer need, but with continually adding photos and new stuff, I needed more space. Jeremy (oldest son who lives out of state) got me an new bigger disk drive for my birthday, but there hadn’t been time to install it til last weekend. Jim was on the phone with Jeremy through the process, and at one point the computer died completely. Jim had to replace a part (I forget its name, but it looked like a metal box with bunches of wires coming out of it), but finally it all came together, everything is working great, and I can breathe easier.

2. The TN Valley State Fair made for a nice family outing. I don’t think I enjoyed it quite as much as last year — maybe it was due to the newness of it last year, and/or the fact that it was cooler and less crowded then. But it was still a fun time, and the thing I most looked forward to was sharing a funnel cake with Jim. There is a local restaurant that sells them, but they are just not the same outside of a fair context.

3. Antibiotics and early detection. Wednesday morning I discovered a 2 1/2″ patch of redness on one foot, the one where I have had cellulitis a few times before. It looked like it might be that again. Last time I wasn’t sure, hemmed and hawed and waited til we finally ended up having to go to the ER near midnight. I didn’t want to repeat that process, so I went in to the doctor’s office to see about it that afternoon. My doctor was away, but the nurse practitioner prescribed antibiotics, told me to keep my foot elevated, and gave me instructions to come back if it got worse. It was worse that night, but then much better the next morning, and the redness is mostly gone now, whereas last time I was out of commission most of the week. So going in early, even if I am not sure, is much better than waiting on this type of thing.

4. Ebay finds. I’m not much of an Ebay shopper. If I looked around there much I’d be too tempted to buy things. But I found some Pfaltzgraff Tea Roses glasses that match mine that were no longer available on the Pfaltzgraff site (they have a newer design that’s fussier that I don’t like), and I also found some napkins to match my dishes.

5. A new printer. Ours has been having assorted problems for some time now. Jim just got a new one last night and hasn’t had a chance to install it yet, but I am excited about it, especially that it has a wireless feature so we can print directly from iPhones or tablets.

More “everyday” blessings come to mind — good books, comfy bed, climate control, time with family, technology, Facetiming with Jeremy, and many more. The everyday “manna” is no less special than the bigger events of the week, and when I stop to really think of it, I have so much to be thankful for, so many more good things than bad things, and even the assurance that God has a purpose in the “bad” things, that I really should be happy and positive and upbeat and thankful all the time. 🙂

“Transformed Into His Likeness”

“Transformed Into His Likeness” is the sixth chapter in the book The Discipline of Grace by Jerry Bridges, which we’re discussing every Thursday in the “Reading Classics Together” challenge at Challies‘ place.

When believers are first saved, the penalty for their sin is lifted, having been borne by Christ on the Christ, and His righteousness is put to their account. Yet they still have what the Bible calls their old nature or “old man” within them. Sanctification is the word for the process whereby Christians are gradually transformed from looking and acting like the “old man” to looking and acting more like Christ. It happens in fact at salvation, it happens progressively through life, and it culminates in our perfection when we get to heaven. Or, as Bridges explains it:

Sanctification is the work of the Holy Spirit in us whereby our inner being is progressively changed, freeing us more and more from sinful traits and developing within us over time the virtues of Christlike character. However, though sanctification is the work of the Holy Spirit in us, it does involve our wholehearted obedience and the regular use of spiritual disciplines that are instruments of sanctification (p. 96).

It is “the carrying out of regeneration to its intended end” (p. 99).

You don’t hear this so much these days, but there used to be people who thought that their entire old nature was removed or changed when they became Christians and they could no longer sin. I don’t know how they missed the remaining sinful tendencies in their own hearts or the verses in the Bible that speak of our growth and change.

Today we have more of the opposite problem: people who say they have been regenerated (saved), yet do not display any evidence of a new life or any growth spiritually. Bridges says, “The solution for these people is not to change their conduct so that they might see some evidences of regeneration. The solution is to come to Jesus, renouncing any confidence in their own goodness, confessing themselves to be sinners in the sight of God, and trusting entirely in His atoning work” (p. 98).

After one becomes a Christian, the goal of our transformation is to become more like Christ. “To be like Jesus…is to always seek to do the will of the Father…Not only did Jesus do the will of the Father, not only was that His whole goal in life, but Psalm 40:8 tells us He delighted to do the will of the Father…What is our aim? Is it to please the Father in all we do, or is it just to get through life as comfortably as we can? (p. 102).

But it is not just in our actions and goals that we’re transformed into Jesus’ likeness, but in our character.

This process involves the Holy Spirit’s leading and enabling and our obedience and cooperation.

Our part, that is, our response to the Holy Spirit’s work and our cooperation with Him in His work is the pursuit of holiness…the pursuit of holiness, though requiring diligent effort on our part, is dependent on the enabling power of the Holy Spirit…It is difficult to grasp this principle of being responsible yet dependent. But it is absolutely vital that we grasp and live by it” (p. 100).

In my circles, the idea of progressive sanctification is taught often, but the emphasis tends to be more on our responsibility.  It wasn’t an entirely new thought that Holy Spirit was the agent, the enabler, the One ultimately responsible for our transformation, but I had never heard this truth brought out as thoroughly as Bridges does it, and that was a great blessing to me. Among his comments on this aspect:

Paul said in 2 Corinthians 3:18 that we are being transformed by “the Lord, who is the Spirit.” The verb being transformed is passive, that is, something being done to us, not by us. This does not mean we have no responsibility in sanctification. It means that in the final analysis it is the Spirit of God who transforms us. He calls on us to cooperate and do the part He assigns us to do, but He is the one who works deep within our character to change us (p. 106).

Several passages of Scripture emphasize the fact that sanctification is primarily the work of the Holy Spirit. In 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 Paul said, “May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.”…

Again, Paul wrote in Philippians 1:6, “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”(p. 107).

Finally, the writer of Hebrews prayed that God will “work in us what is pleasing to Him” (Hebrews 13:21) (p. 107).

Yet:

The Spirit of God has indeed given us certain responsibilities in the sanctifying process. In fact, the Bible is filled with exhortations, challenges, and commands to obey, as well as spiritual disciplines to be practiced (p. 107).

I’ve often wondered what exactly is our part and what is His, where does one end and one begin, how does it all work together. Bridges says this is a mystery. It is never quite thoroughly explained in Scripture. But as we do our part, we trust Him for His enabling and transforming.

Bridges then goes on to discuss the various means that the Holy Spirit uses in our sanctification: adversities, exhortations and encouragement from others, Scripture, and prayer. But perhaps the most significant means is found in 2 Corinthians 3:18: “But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory.” “The glory of the Lord denotes the presence of God and all that He is in all of His attributes — His infiniteness, eternalness, holiness, sovereignty, goodness, and so on…God is glorious in all of His being and all of His works” (p. 109). The more we seek Him and gaze on Him in Scripture, the more we are transformed into His likeness.

More discussion on this chapter can be found here. My discussions of previous chapters are here.

Book Review: Rare Earth

Rare Earth by Davis Bunn is the sequel to The Lion of Babylon (linked to my review), but it could easily be read as a stand-alone book.

A former operative for State department, Marc Royce drops into the middle of a crisis in Africa under cover as the employee of Lodestone, a for-profit U. S. company contracted to bring in emergency supplies. A volcano near the border between Kenya and Uganda has erupted onto land “already devastated by drought, famine, and civil war.”

It’s just a bit confusing at first because as readers we don’t know what Marc’s real mission is, why people react negatively to him at first, and what the reasons are for the tensions among different people. But we trust all will come to light soon, and we are rewarded.

And since “rare earth” is in the title and the back-of-the-book description, it is not a spoiler to say that the minerals called by that name are the prize for which someone has been exploiting the area. An aide is missing, many villagers have been forced from their land, and something seems fishy within Lodestone. But discerning what is actually going on, whom to trust, and how to help the situation are reasons Marc has been called in.

This book is well written, the characters are fully rounded, the story is suspenseful, and an area unfamiliar to most is well-described. For those who are familiar with the TV program 24, Marc is much like what I imagine Jack Bauer would be if he was a Christian. 🙂 The latter part of the book is a bit heavy on the hero accolades for me, but otherwise it was an engaging read.

For those who like book trailers, here is the one for Rare Earth:

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

Remembering 9/11

I’ve shared my memories of 9/11 a few times before. I don’t know if anyone else feels this way, but the further we get from 9/11/01, the less I know how I am supposed to feel. Of course, there is no one right way to feel. But as I was thinking of enjoyable plans for later in the day, I almost felt a little guilty when I remembered what day this was.

No one can say for sure, but I don’t think the people who died that day would resent people enjoying themselves on future anniversaries of that date. At least, if it were me, I don’t think I would…as long as people don’t completely forget.

I watched some of the coverage this morning. Those clips from that day reminded me how stunned I was. The first plane crashing was bad enough. But then it seemed we were hit by wave after wave: a second plane flying into the other tower, the horror of people jumping out of the windows, of the towers collapsing, a third plane crashing into the Pentagon, a fourth in PA. Then the next several days as more details and stories came to light, there was horror and sorrow but also inspiration. I don’t ever want to forget that. As I watched part of the ceremony this morning in which the names were read of the people who had died that day, each section was finished with a family member saying a few words to or about their own loved one who had died. It brought back again that these were real people with real families left behind with real gaping holes in their lives and hearts.

But as long as we don’t forget those people who died and their loved ones left here, I think perhaps they would be glad that people can enjoy themselves here and now, that 9/11 did not usher in an era of terrorism on our soil like many feared it would.

Then again, this morning I was reading of Christians meeting underground and suffering persecution in a country where the gospel cannot be shared freely without severe consequences. The writer shared Hebrews 13:3: “Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.” There are so many places where terrorism and a lack of freedom is the norm. We must remember them.

Last year a student from my alma mater made this film about his father, who was originally slated to pilot the first flight.

One of the things that stood out to me was his wife saying, “You don’t know what is going to happen Sept. 11 when you’re living Sept. 10.” We truly never know what a day will bring forth, and we need to be ready to meet our Maker at any time.

Another thing was this man’s renewed sense of urgency to make his life count for Christ, to remember he was living “on borrowed time.”

And finally, as he said, though someone died in his place on 9/11, Someone else died in his place on the cross.