Reading Plans for 2025

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Reading Plans for 2025

I like to set some goals for my reading year. If I mean to read more of a certain author, or get to particular titles, those things don’t happen unless I plan for them.

But I also like having flexibility to read a new find or pick up something I am in the mood for or feel the need to read about.

Some of my reading goals this year:

  • One Dickens book I’ve not read yet.
  • A couple of classic books.
  • One C. S. Lewis book I’ve not read yet.
  • A book about writing.
  • A book about productivity, time management, or organization.
  • At least one biography, autobiography, or memoir.
  • A Bible study book.
  • A Christian living book.
  • A book related to midlife or aging.
  • Some of the unread books on my shelves or in my Kindle.

I like reading challenges that help me reach my goals and expand my horizons. Plus, reading challenges are a fun way to share about books we love. But I don’t like being involved in too many because of the record-keeping involved.

These challenges best intersect with my goals:

Mount TBR challenge

Bev at My Reader’s Block hosts the Mount TBR Reading Challenge, where we set a goal to read a certain number of books we already own. Details and rules are here. Bev has set the challenge up in increments of twelve, each set represented by a particular mountain. Last year I read 31 books from my shelves and Kindle app. This year I’m aiming for Mt. Blanc again, which is 24 books.

TBR 25 in '25

The TBR 25 in ’25 Challenge hosted by Rose City Reader dovetails nicely with the Mount TBR challenge. It’s the same idea—to read books you own but haven’t read it (though rereads count, too). The difference is, we aim for 25 and list them some time during the challenge. I don’t have my whole list figured out yet, but I know I want to read Ron Hamilton: The Man Behind the Patch by Shelly Hamilton, Bloom In Your Winter Season by Deborah Malone, Writing for Busy Readers: Communicate More Effectively in the Real World by Todd Rogers and Jessica Lasky-Fink, The Testament by John Grisham (have not read anything by him. I got this at a library sale a few years ago), The Wingfeather series by Andrew Peterson, and Rembrandt Is in the Wind: Learning to Love Art through the Eyes of Faith by Russ Ramsey, to name a few.

I listed this challenge last year but then forgot about it since it was new to me.

2025 Nonfiction Reader Challenge

Shelly Rae at Book’d Out hosts the Nonfiction Reader Challenge. This can be done one of two ways. Shelly has twelve books in different categories that we can aim for. Or we can be a “Nonfiction Grazer” and make our own goals. Although I might hit a few of her categories, I’ll go the grazer route and incorporate the nonfiction goals mentioned above.

Historical Fiction Reading Challenge

Finally, The Intrepid Reader. hosts the Historical Fiction Reading Challenge. A lot of my fictional reads fit this category. I’m going to aim for the Medieval level at 15 books.

Do you have any reading goals or participate in any book challenges?

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Does God Have a Specific Will For Your Life?

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Does God have a specific will for your life?

I became a Christian in my later teen years, when one faces myriad choices that will affect the rest of life: college or not, and where; majors; vocations; mates, location.

In the years since my teens, I’ve read a number of opinions about discerning God’s will for your life, or for specific decisions.

Some say God does not have a specific will for whom you marry, what job you do, etc. Big and small decisions are up to you–if you love God, whatever you want to do is fine. I assume they base that view on Proverbs 16:9: “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”

And while that verse is true and comforting, I don’t really see a “do whatever you want” attitude in Scripture.

God had a specific will at least for some people:

  • Rebekah to marry Isaac.
  • David, not his brothers, to be king.
  • Not David, but his son to build the temple (2 Samuel 7).
  • Moses to lead the children of Israel from Egypt (Exodus 3)
  • Mary to bear Jesus.
  • Paul to go to Macedonia, not Asia (Acts 16:6-10).

Furthermore, James 4:3-17 warns against planning to go to another town and trade without taking God’s will into account. I would assume that principle applies to all our plans, not just travel and trade.

And then, Ephesians 2:8-10, after the famous verses about being saved by grace through faith and not our works, informs us that “we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” God saves His people by His grace, and their faith is then expressed in good works. But could it also mean that, in God’s workmanship, He prepared each person for specific works? Some commentators seem to think so. Speaking of this passage, Warren Wiersbe says:

These works are not only good; they are also “prepared.” “Good works which God hath before ordained [prepared] that we should walk in them” (Eph. 2: 10). The only other time this word is used in the New Testament is in Romans 9: 23: “vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory.” The unbeliever walks “according to the course of this world” (Eph. 2: 2), but the believer walks in the good works God has prepared for him.

This is an amazing statement. It means that God has a plan for our lives and that we should walk in His will and fulfill His plan. Paul is not talking about “kismet”—an impersonal fate that controls your life no matter what you may do. He is talking about the gracious plan of a loving heavenly Father, who wills the very best for us (Be Rich [Ephesians]: Gaining the Things That Money Can’t Buy, pp. 60-61, Kindle version).

On the other end of the spectrum, conscientious people who care very much about God’s will can become almost obsessed with finding and following it, and fearful of missing it. This is where I was in my early twenties.

One example was in dating my husband. When we began to get more serious, I struggled with whether he was the man God wanted me to marry. My parents were divorced, so I knew love didn’t always last. I had been engaged before. But in processing things after we broke up, I realized we were not right for each other. I was stunned that I didn’t see that in the first place. If I could have been so mistaken then, how could I be sure now?

It took me a long time to realize that if I earnestly wanted and asked for God’s guidance, He would answer that prayer. I had grown tired of the “dating game” in college and prayed that no one would ask me out that God didn’t want me to go out with. Jim was the very next person to ask me out. Unlike in my previous relationships, I was praying for God’s guidance in dating and finding the person He wanted me to marry. There was no reason to think my relationship with Jim was not God’s leading.

On the other hand, for many years I feared I had missed God’s will in my college major. I wanted to major in English, but felt Home Economics Education would be more practical. By the time I got to my senior year, I knew I did not want to teach in high school. With a later interest in writing, I wished I had chosen that English major. I grieved that I had “wasted” my college education by choosing wrong.

However, I realized God did use my major tremendously in my life, even though the outcome was not the intended one. More than anything, I wanted to establish a Christian home, and what I learned in my major fueled that desire. The Bible classes and Christian influence and teaching all through school fed my soul and grounded me spiritually. The education classes helped with people skills. I realized writing can be a form of teaching. I minored in English, so I did get a few classes in writing. And I’ve had opportunity since to take in writing instruction through books, blogs, webinars, and conferences.

God doesn’t make His will elusive. He wants to lead and guide us.

This is God, our God forever and ever. He will guide us forever (Psalm 48:14).

For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name’s sake you lead me and guide me (Psalm 31:3).

You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore (Psalm 16:11)

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you (Psalm 32:8).

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).

I’ve often wished that God told us exactly what He wants us to do, as He did for some in Bible times. But I think seeking His will is an exercise in faith that can result in drawing closer to God as we evaluate and pray over aspects of our life that we might not otherwise.

I think finding God’s will is somewhere between the two extremes of not considering it at all and considering it overmuch.

So how do we find God’s will?

Pray. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him” (James 1:5). “We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you” (2 Chronicles 20:12). “We have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding” (Colossians 1:9).

Be humble and willing for whatever God wants. “He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble his way” Psalm 25:9).

Read God’s Word regularly. “You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will receive me to glory” (Psalm 73:24). However, the Bible is not like a “Magic 8 Ball.” We don’t open the Bible, let our finger fall on a verse, and take that as God’s answer.

Even in our regular reading, we have to be careful not to take a verse out of context and apply it to ourselves. Let’s say you are considering the mission field. In your daily quiet time, you come to God’s call to Abraham in Genesis 12: “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you.” That may seem like a direct answer. But what are you going to do when you come across Mark 5:19: “Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.” God may use these verses to help you be willing to go or stay, but the main point of the verses concerns what God is doing in the lives of those in the passage.

Instead, as we read the Bible day by day, we get to know our God better. As we do, we discern more how He might be leading.

Do what you know to be the will of God now. “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33). Many verses speak of God’s will:

Finally, then, brothers, we ask and urge you in the Lord Jesus, that as you received from us how you ought to walk and to please God, just as you are doing, that you do so more and more. For you know what instructions we gave you through the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor (1 Thessalonians 4:1-4).

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect (Romans 12:1-2).

There’s a lovely song titled “This Is the Will of God” incorporating several verses about God’s will.

Consider your gifts and bent. “Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them” (Romans 12:6a). “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace” (1 Peter 4:10). As a quiet, bookish person who doesn’t like crowds, I’m not likely to be called to something involving lots of noise and activity and people. An extrovert who loves being with and talking to people likely will not thrive alone in an office eight hours a day.

Sometimes you discover your gifts by trying different things. In my early Christian life, I was often asked to participate in children’s ministries. I did, and I hope it was useful to those involved. But I didn’t really enjoy it and often had to deal with myself about a less-than-enthusiastic attitude. Then one day our Awana secretary at church asked me to be her assistant, helping with ordering and checking in supplies, keeping score during games, adding up points and assembling awards. I loved it.

One caveat here: God may call you to something you don’t feel gifted for, like He did for Moses, Gideon, Jeremiah, and others. In that case, either He has already gifted you, and you don’t realize it yet, or He will when your gifts are needed.

Ask others. “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety” (Proverbs 11:14). Sometimes another person’s insight can be very helpful. They might have wisdom in the area you’re wondering about, or they might see something in you that you don’t see. It helps to ask more than one person, because one opinion might be a little off.

Take the next step. God usually leads step by step, without giving us the whole roadmap at once. If you think God might be leading you to a particular college, look into it. Ask for materials from them. Perhaps go visit. If you think God may be leading you to a certain vocation, read about it, learn about it, maybe take an internship in it. Those experiences, bathed in prayer, can help you know whether to take the next step.

What do you want to do? “Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). This doesn’t mean God will give you every little thing your heart desires. As a good parent, He sometimes has to say no. But as we delight ourselves in Him, He puts the right desires in our heart. Again, sometimes He calls us to do what we don’t want to at first. But often, what we yearn to do is what He is leading us to do.

Serve faithfully where you are. As a young man, Joseph could not have known all that was ahead for him: being sold into slavery by his brothers, being wrongly accused, sent to prison, and then becoming second to Pharaoh in Egypt. But He was faithful to God in every situation. Likewise, as a shepherd boy, David had no idea he would someday be king. Even after he was anointed by Samuel, it was years before he came to the throne. Yet he followed and served God all along the way.God

Consider open and closed doors. “A wide door for effective work has opened to me, and there are many adversaries” (1 Corinthians 16:9). Once I planned to go on a school-sponsored mission trip over Christmas break. But the school officials would not approve my going because I was in debt to the school: they felt I needed to work to take care of my obligations before asking people to give to a mission trip.

A closed door doesn’t necessarily mean that opportunity is not God’s will. It may not be the right time. Or the closed door may be an obstacle rather than a “no”–some Christians have gotten into countries that are closed to missionaries by pursuing other vocations within those countries. Gladys Aylward was not approved by China Inland Mission to be one of their missionaries, but she worked and saved money to go to China on her own. She had a long, fruitful ministry.

Likewise, an open door doesn’t necessarily mean that situation is God’s will. There may be several open doors, and discernment is needed to know which one. But by and large, this is one way God guides.

Trust God for the answer. Once my husband had an opportunity for a new job in another state. He was happy in his work, but he felt he should investigate the other possibility. He interviewed and was offered the job.

But he wasn’t sure what to do. There were no red flags, no extenuating circumstances that would point to one job or the other. He was willing to stay or go.

He went to our pastor for counsel, who shared with him Proverbs 16:11: “The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord.” The pastor told Jim that as he had prayed for God’s guidance and was willing to do whatever God wanted, he could trust that when the time came to give a final answer, whatever God laid on his heart at that moment was the right thing to do.

When discussions on God’s will come up, someone will say, “Does God have a will about everything? Even what cereal you eat?” Well–some cereals are certainly better for you than others. There are times in Scripture when circumstances are left up to the individual, like the differences in Romans 14, or the famous disagreement between Barnabas and Paul in Acts 15. Paul once said of Apollos, “Now concerning our brother Apollos, I strongly urged him to visit you with the other brothers, but it was not at all his will to come now. He will come when he has opportunity” (1 Corinthians 16:12). We don’t know what steps Apollos took to come to that decision. Paul shares general thoughts about marriage in 1 Corinthians 7 and distinguishes between God’s instruction and his own advice, but he doesn’t seem to tell any one individual what to do. 1 Corinthians 10 deals with different situations involving meat offered to idols, something common in that day and time. Many of these situations may not have God’s exact will expressed, but they involve wisdom, spiritual maturity, love and concern for others, and a concern for God’s glory over selfish desires.

Multitudes of books have been written on this topic, so there’s much more that could be said and a variety of opinions. But I think we would agree that God promises to lead us and wants us to seek to follow Him closely.

The heart of man plans his way, but the LORD directs his steps. Proverbs 16:9

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Laudable Linkage

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Laudable Linkage

Have things settled down for you now that the holidays are over? Or has your new year started full tilt? We’re in resting/puttering mode–getting things done here and there but taking it slow after a lovely but busy couple of weeks.

There are several good reads found this week. I hope you’ll have time for some of them.

A Happy New Year Task for Writers. Though geared to writers, it’s good for us all. Before resolutions or goals or words for the year, we need to consecrate everything to the Lord.

How Healthy Is Your Soul? Six Questions for a New Year, HT to Redeeming Productivity. “Strewn throughout Scripture, prophets and apostles, wise men and the God-man all urge us to watch ourselves, pay attention to ourselves, and stay awake “lest we drift away” (Hebrews 2:1). Unless we keep our hearts ‘with all vigilance’ (Proverbs 4:23), they will not be kept.”

More Bible, Better Bible in 2024. This was written to preachers but is good for anyone who writes or speaks from the Word of God: we need to read and study it for our own souls, not just to find something to share with others. This was written by one of our former pastors.

The Good Shepherd Is the Lover of My Soul. Some good lessons from the life of Michal, David’s first wife.

What Happens When We Share the Gospel? Six Encouragements, HT to Challies. We may not know exactly what’s going on in hearts when we share the gospel. But there are a few things we do know.

Honor Your (Elderly) Parents: How Adult Children ‘Make Some Return,’ HT to Challies. “What can we tell adult children in the church to help prepare them for this call to honor aging parents and elders? As one in the thick of learning the lessons (and the blessings) of honoring, I would suggest three main messages for the adult children among us.”

Parental Regret: How to Move Forward When You’ve Let Your Kids Down, HT to Challies. “Rather than letting regrets anxiously swirl in our minds, we can take the off-ramp of reckoning honestly with what happened. Did you notice the pattern? It’s relational. Let your regrets move you toward the Lord, toward other Christians, and toward your kids.”

God’s Power Is Made Perfect In Weakness, HT to Challies. “He’s not saying God gives me his power and I feel powerful. This isn’t a shot of divine Red Bull that makes Paul powerful in his own right. No, God’s power is at work even as Paul is weak.”

Finally, just for fun, (Southern) Pride and Prejudice–Jane Austen’s book read in an “American Southern” accent.

Maybe the circumstances you most fear will contain treasures you least expect. Sarah P. Walton

Maybe the circumstances you most fear will contain treasures you least expect.
Sarah P. Walton

Friday’s Fave Five

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Friday's Fave Five

Though we slowed down a little from holiday festivities, this was still a pretty full week. I’m sharing blessings with Susanne and friends at Living to Tell the Story.

1. A Lego book nook. I haven’t put Legos together since my youngest son was a child, maybe twenty years or more ago. I saw this Lego set and commented on it online somewhere, which my husband saw and then searched for it for Christmas. I put it together while Jeremy and Jesse were at the other end of the table playing games in case I needed help with the instructions or tiny pieces. But I was able to do it all by myself! The instruction booklet said a lady submitted this idea for a Lego challenge and won. How fun it must have been to see her idea turned into an actual Lego kit.

Lego book nook

Isn’t that the cutest thing? Here’s a view with the ladder removed:

Lego book corner

I love the details–the mail, the feather pen and ink well, the globe, the scroll work at the top of the shelves.

2. Mexican food. Jeremy wanted to go to a Mexican restaurant while he was here because the ones near where he lives in RI don’t have the cheese dip we love. We had a bit of a wait, but once we were seated, everything went well and the food was delicious. Plus some of us had enough for another meal.

3. Games. We love playing games and tried some new ones as well as some old favorites. One new one I got was Ransom Notes–each player has a metal tray and takes a “pinch” of magnetic words. Then a card is turned over with a prompt, and everyone has to try to make sentences to express that prompt. The only downside was that it took a lot of time for each player to get new words each round and spread them out. But otherwise it was a lot of fun. (We found a few inappropriate prompts in the card which we weeded out as we came to them. I’ll probably go through and eliminate any others before we play again.)

Jeremy brought Wave Length, a game where you divide into teams, and one person picks a card with a prompt of extremes, like “hot” on one side and “cold” on the other. They spin a dial and see where the points land. Then then try to give one clue so their team can guess where on the dial the highest points are. So if the highest points were on the left, for “hot” and “cold” you might say “lava” so the team knows the points are on that end of the spectrum. Each team gets points for how close they come to what’s on the dial. Plus the other team can get a point if they correctly guess whether the opposing team guessed too high or too low.

We always love Jackbox games, especially Blather Round and Drawful (Timothy likes Earwax). We play them through the Apple TV so everyone can see the game on the TV, but they cam be played through other systems as well. Each person logs into Jackbox on their phone or tablet to play. Jeremy told us about a new one called Jackbox Survey Scramble, which is somewhat like Family Feud but with several variations: a prompt is given, like “items in a junk drawer,” and we all give answers which are then ranked according to survey results.

4. Gingerbread houses. Somehow we’ve missed this the last few years.

Gingerbread house

On the left, Jeremy’s at the top, then mine, and Jesse’s. On the right, Mittu’s, Timothy’s, and Jason’s. I had to give Jim center stage because his was so elaborate. I thought his trees looked like something from Dr. Seuss, and he sprinkled everything with powdered sugar through a strainer to look like fresh snow.

5. Christmas cards and letters. I love receiving these every year–even the late ones! It’s so good to catch up with everyone’s families.

Christmas cards

Bonus: New calendars! I love setting these up with birthdays and anniversaries for the new year.

Jeremy went home Wednesday. It’s strange how two things can be true at the same time–intensely missing all the family togetherness, yet enjoying a lower-key rest of the week. We’ll take the Christmas stuff down this weekend, which also involves mixed emotions. But I guess that’s life. 🙂

Two Christmas Books

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The Everyday Gospel Christmas Devotional was taken from Paul David Tripp’s larger book, Everyday Gospel: A Daily Devotional Connecting Christmas to All of Life. The 25 selections are only two pages, easy to incorporate in one’s devotional time. Each day’s reading begins with Scripture,and they cover a wide variety of topics related to Christmas. Excellent resource.

Some of my favorite quotes from the book:

The beginning of Matthew presents us with a majestic one-time moment in history that you shouldn’t run past in your desire to complete your daily Bible reading. God has recorded and preserved it for you because he wants it to leave you in gratitude and awe. And that awe is meant to capture your heart with such force that it changes the way you think about who you are and how you live your life.

The one who designed us to sing recorded and preserved songs for us. These songs are meant to focus our hearts, instruct us in the ways of the Lord, motivate our joy, and put words to our worship.

The entire biblical story is about a God who gives his creatures what they do not know they need, what they often do not want, and what they could never earn or do for themselves—but which they cannot live without.

The end of the reign of evil on earth began with the birth of Jesus. Later Satan would be defeated at Christ’s temptation, he would be defeated on the cross, and he would be defeated by the empty tomb. Jesus was victorious on our behalf and now reigns in glory. His reign guarantees the end of sin and death and an eternity of peace and righteousness for all who believe. The dragon is defeated. The Son reigns. Hallelujah!

The Christmas Hummingbird by Davis Bunn is perhaps the most unusual Christmas novella I have ever read (or listened to).

Ethan Lange lives in Miramar Bay, CA, and is awakened by banging on his front door. He finds a female police officer telling him an out-of-control fire is heading their way and he must vacate immediately.

A few weeks later, Ethan is in a rental property, having lost everything in the fire. When he runs into the police officer who saved his life, Ryan Eames, she asks if he would be willing to be deputized to help with a problem: people are robbing some of the vacation houses belonging to out-of-towners just before fire reaches them. In fact, police suspect the fires were started on purpose as a cover for the robberies.

As Ethan helps Ryan, he rescues a number of homeless animals, including a hummingbird overcome by smoke. Later we learn why hummingbirds mean so much to Ethan. Ryan’s mostly silent son takes an interest in helping the hummingbird, which he names Trevor.

Ethan contacts homeowners in the affected area offering to transfer their valuables to a vault in his bank.

Ethan has a side interest in art and often makes miniatures used in films to depict cities or neighborhoods. His contact in Hollywood calls to say a company is making a film series of his favorite childhood fantasy series, and does Ethan want in? Yes, of course.

Both Ethan and Ryan have been hurt before, so they are slow to consider another relationship. As Ethan gets to know Ryan and her son, Liam, he forges a special relationship with Liam. He finds that Liam is a gifted artist, though he rarely lets anyone see his work.

I love that there are so many layers to this book: the mystery of the fires and robberies, Ethan’s relationship with both Ryan and Liam individually and together, the hummingbird, the fantasy story Ethan’s latest project is based on.

Most of what I have read from Bunn has been Christian fiction. I don’t recall anything of a spiritual nature mentioned in this book, but I listened to the audiobook read by Graham Winton, and it’s impossible to flip back through pages. Nevertheless, this is a lovely story. I just discovered it’s also part of a Mirarmar Bay series by Bunn.

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Favorite Books of 2024

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I posted all 74 books I read this year here, doubling up on my posts today since they overlap. I felt I had a good variety and enjoyed probably 98% of what I read.

But there are always a few standouts, and this year is no different. Most of these were not published this year, but I am glad I read them in 2024.

My top ten books read in 2024 are:

Adorning the Dark: Thoughts on Community, Calling, and the Mystery of Making by Andrew Peterson. Immediately upon finishing this book, I read it again. I wanted to soak up as much of I as I could. I’m sure I’ll read it again. From my review: “He writes about battling self-doubt, creating as an act of worship, the fact that creating is work, not magic, that writing what we know doesn’t mean the polished end, but the struggle. He writes about humility, self-consciousness, and the fact that we don’t create to draw attention to ourselves even though ‘art is necessarily created by a Self’ (p. 28). He references Lewis and Tolkien and others and talks about imagination, serving the work, and serving the audience.”

Stop Asking Jesus Into Your Heart: How to Know For Sure You Are Saved by J. D. Greear. As one who wrestled with assurance of salvation for decades, and knowing several others in the same boat, I found this book very helpful. From my review: “Satan can trip people up over assurance because if we’re insecure about our salvation, we come to a standstill in our Christian growth. We don’t have the confidence to serve the Lord in any way. Instead of going forward in our Christian lives, we’re spinning our wheels over the same issues. On the other hand, there is such a thing as false assurance. Jesus said there would be people who stand before Him some day, fully assured that they are all right spiritually. They’ll be shocked to hear Him say, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'”

Help for the Hungry Soul: Eight Encouragements to Grow Your Appetite for God’s Word by Kristen Wetherell “is not about how to read or study the Bible. She goes further back than that to our appetite for God’s Word. We’re made to hunger for God. Satan tempted Adam and Eve to hunger for the wrong thing for the wrong reasons. Our spiritual appetites have been skewed ever since.”

Life Without Limits: Inspiration for a Ridiculously Good Life by Nick Vujicic. It would be hard to function without limbs. But Nick shares how his parents and others along the way helped him to thrive. I didn’t agree with every little point of theology, but I was inspired by Nick’s story.

Isaiah for You: Enlarging Your Vision of Who God Is by Tim Chester. Our ladies’ Bible study went through this, along with reading Isaiah, last spring. Isaiah has some beautiful, familiar, relatable passages, but others that are a little harder to work through. Chester did a great job explaining the passages with the overarching purpose of the book in mind.

Whose Waves These Are by Amanda Dykes, my favorite fiction book this year. I had never read Amanda before, but I loved this book and am seeking out others of hers. Set in a coastal Maine village, the story goes back and forth between two brothers during WWII and the granddaughter of one in modern times. I loved the story, the writing, the strong sense of place.

Hope Between the Pages by Pepper Basham. Pepper is another new-to-me author. This book is set in the Asheville, NC, area and also goes back and forth between current times and 1915. Modern-day Clara Blackwell owns a bookstore in Biltmore village but is about to lose the store unless she can find the lease. In searching, she discovers her grandmother was the librarian at the Biltmore House in the early 1900s. Books, Biltmore, Asheville–what’s not to love? 🙂 I enjoyed the story in both timelines.

The Edge of Belonging by Amanda Cox. Amanda is yet another new favorite author to me. In this story, a homeless man discovers an abandoned baby. He plans to find a home for her, but grows too attached. But he can’t raise her alone. In the current day, Ivy receives a mysterious letter from her grandmother after her death, sending her on a search for how her family, all unrelated to each other, came together.

The British Booksellers by Kristy Cambron goes back and forth between WWI and the forgotten “Coventry Blitz” of WWII. Amos is the son of a tenant farmer and good friends with the daughter of the manor house. He goes off to fight in WWII and comes back scarred and morose. Charlotte is widowed, and now they own competing bookstores on the same street. But to survive WWII, they’ll all have to learn to work together.

Everything Sad Is Untrue: (A True Story) by Daniel Nayeri has the distinction of being the most “different” book I have ever read in its style. Daniel’s mother became a Christian in Iran and then had to flee the country with her two children. The family deals with many losses and new adjustments. It took a while to get into this book, but I was glad I persevered. I loved it.

Honorable Mention:

What were some of your favorite books read this year?

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Books Read in 2024

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Books read in 2024

I read 74 books this year, including audiobooks–75 if you count reading one twice in a row. That’s down a little from the last few years, but that’s fine. I don’t want to race through books just to get to a certain number. I want to give each its due.

I felt like I had a good blend of older and newer books, some having been on my shelf for a while; others were hot off the press. I enjoyed some by old favorite authors and discovered some new-to-me authors that have become new favorites. I read 29 fiction books, four classics, 35 Christian fiction, and five other fiction.

(MTBR behind a book title refers to the Mount TBR [To Be Read] reading challenge, an encouragement to read books already on hand. I decided to acknowledge those here rather than making a separate post. I aimed for 24 books [Mt. Blanc] and read 31.)

Titles link to my reviews:

Classics:

Nonfiction:

Christian fiction:

Tin Can Serenade by Amanda Dykes was a delightful short story.

Other fiction:

How was your reading year?

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December Reflections

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December Reflections

As I am sure is true for most of you, December has been a busy month. We’ve pared down some activities: I didn’t do any holiday baking except for apple pie for Christmas day. Jesse made cheesecake and Mittu made chocolate pie, so we had more than enough sugar to go around.

We seemed to have a good blend of activities to go to without feeling overwhelmed: the Fantasy of Trees, a Christmas play, a Christmas concert, Family Fun Night, a Christmas Eve service.

Jim and I celebrated our 45th anniversary! I shared some thoughts on 45 years of marriage here.

We’ve enjoyed time with the whole family since Jeremy came and we’ve seen Jesse a little more than usual.

Despite getting sick in the middle of the month for a week or so, everything got done that needed to get done, and we had a good month.

Now we’re in the phase of asking ourselves “What day is it?” several times a day. 🙂 Jeremy is still here for a few more days, working from our home this week.

Watching

As I write this, we haven’t watched any of our usual Christmas movies–or any movies at all, really, except A Biltmore Christmas. It’s main draw was being set in one of my favorite places, the Biltmore House in Asheville, NC. The plot has a screenwriter tasked with drafting a remake of a (fictitious) classic Christmas movie set at the Biltmore. She’s not getting it quite right, so her boss sends her to the Biltmore at Christmastime to get inspired. She finds a broken hourglass that, when turned, sends her back to the 1940s when the original movie was made. The ending everyone knows and loves has been lost, so she has to try to get the writer to change the ending he has in mind–and along the way she falls in love with the leading man. It’s a Hallmark movie free for Netflix through December. The fictitious old movie is similar to The Bishops’ Wife. Though it was Hallmarkish, it was fun.

Creating

December was a busy month for cards. I didn’t get started when I wanted to, so I relied on decorative paper and stickers.

This was for our anniversary:

Anniversary card

It was funny that Jim included my favorite candy with his card, so he literally did make life sweeter. 🙂

This was Jim’s Christmas card:

husband Christmas card

Jeremy’s:

handmade Christmas card

Jason’s:

handmade Christmas card

Mittu’s:

handmade Christmas card

Timothy’s:

handmade Christmas card for grandchild

Jesse’s:

handmade Christmas card

I don’t feel like this was my best-ever batch of cards–but the sentiments were heartfelt.

Reading

Since last time I’ve finished (linked to my reviews):

  • 2 Corinthians for You by Gary Millar. Our ladies’ Bible study at church went through this. Very good.
  • Waking Up in the Wilderness: A Yellowstone Journey by Natalie Ogbourne. Very good.
  • Across the Ages by Gabrielle Meyer, audiobook, the latest in her Time Crossers series. In this book, the heroine knows no one else with her “gift,” so she doesn’t know what to think about living in both 1727 as the granddaughter of a plantation owner and in 1927 as the daughter of a famous preacher. Very good.
  • An Honorable Deception by Roseanna M. White, audiobook, the latest (and I think last) in her Imposter’s series. Excellent.
  • The Painted Castle by Kristy Cambron, the third in her Lost Castles series. This one involves a replica of a famous portrait of Queen Victoria over three timelines: England in 1830, then in WW2, then modern day. Very good.
  • Christmas at the Circus by Joanne Bischof, an okay Christmas novella.
  • Bespoke: A Tiny Christmas Tale by Amanda Dykes, very good.
  • Christmas at Sugar Plum Manor by Roseanna M. White, audiobook, a very nice Christmas novella set in Edwardian England with nods to Jane Austen and The Nutcracker.
  • Christmas With the Queen by Hazel Gaynor and Heather Webb, audiobook. Could have been great; some language and immoral behavior marred it. The parts with the queen were excellent.
  • Everyday Gospel Christmas Devotional by Paul David Tripp, not reviewed yet.
  • The Christmas Hummingbird by Davis Bunn, audiobook, not reviewed yet.

Tin Can Serenade by Amanda Dykes was a delightful short story.

Our Sunday School class went through selected psalms with a booklet put together by the teachers from some of their resources. One lady mentioned In God I Take Refuge by Dane Ortland, so I got it about 2/3 of the way through the class. It has each of the psalms printed along with some devotional thoughts. It’s not as in-depth as a study Bible or commentary, but was very good. I’m looking forward to reading the whole thing next time I am in the psalms.

I’m currently reading:

  • Ezekiel: The God of Glory by Tim Chester
  • What’s a Disorganized Person to Do? by Stacey Platt
  • The Collected Letters of C.S. Lewis, Volume 3: Narnia, Cambridge, and Joy, 1950 – 1963, compiled by Walter Hooper.
  • Winter Fire: Christmas with G. K. Chesterton by Ryan Whitaker Smith
  • A Holy City Christmas: Charleston Holiday Tales, short stories by various authors.
  • Hans Brinker or the Silver Skates by Mary Mapes Dodge, audiobook.

Tomorrow I’ll post my top books of the year.

Blogging

Besides the weekly Friday Fave Fives, Saturday Laudable Linkage, and book reviews, I’ve posted these since last time:

Sometimes at the end of the year, I’ll have a post with the most-viewed posts of the year. I like to see what kinds of writing people are interested in. The timing didn’t work out for such a post this year, but I did take a peek.

My top posts published this year:

My most-viewed posts of all time:

Writing

There’s been nothing on this front besides blog posts and Christmas cards. 🙂 Our critique group has been off for about six weeks but will start up again in January.

Looking ahead, I plan to spend the latter half of this week resting and maybe puttering. Somehow I ended up with four medical appointments in January. 😦 Thankfully, they are all just regular check-ups.

I don’t usually make resolutions or choose a word for the year, but somewhere in January I like to evaluate habits and schedules and see where I need to change or tighten things up. I especially want to make time for my manuscript and hopefully get it ready to submit.

How was your December? What are you looking forward to in January?

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We Can Trust God On Our Journey

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We can trust God on our journey through life.

Imagine a child or two or three in the back seat during a family trip:

Mom, did you pack my toothbrush?

Dad, are you sure you know the way?

Will we be able to find somewhere to eat at dinner time?

Will Grandma have room for us?

Weren’t we supposed to turn there?

What if the road is out?

Or a tornado comes?

Or a robber comes to our house while we’re away?

Is the GPS working right?

After a while, a weary parent would be tempted to respond, “Just trust me. I’ve traveled before. I know what to do. Even if we have problems along the way, we’ll take care of them. Just relax and enjoy the trip.”

Yet, earthly parents can fail. I did, in fact, forget one child’s underwear one trip, necessitating a stop at Wal-Mart when we arrived at our destination. Once, my husband took us to the airport the wrong day. Drivers can take wrong turns and get lost.

Sometimes we seem like anxious children with God, our perfect Parent. We wonder if He’s really guiding us the right way, if He can truly meet our needs. We wouldn’t put it quite this way, but we act as if we don’t trust that He knows what He’s doing.

God not only knows the way, He is the way.

“Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me‘” (John 14:6).

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

He will take care of all our needs.

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

He promises to be with us and help us every step of the way, “From life’s first cry to final breath.”*

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand (Isaiah 41:10).

Even to your old age I am he, and to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save (Isaiah 46:4).

Whatever need we have, God is more than able to meet. We may not like some sections of the path of life. There will be bumps in the road, dark valleys, and occasional detours from the way we thought we should go. But He has good purposes in all He brings us through.

As we face a new year, He bids us cast every anxious care on Him, because He cares for us.

Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7

*From “In Christ Alone” by Stuart Townend and Keith Getty.

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Laudable Linkage

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Laudable Linkage

I’m sorry there was no Laudable Linkage last week. I had not been on the computer much at all and only had two links saved. I’ve done a little catching up this week and have many more to share. The first several pertain to Christmas but are still relatable reading.

Multiple Miracles of Christmas. “There were so many miracles in Christ becoming a man and making possible man’s salvation. Our Christmas celebration focuses on that incomparable miraculous event we call ‘The Incarnation.’ Note just a few of the miracles recorded in the Gospel accounts that were all part of the purpose and plan of God in Christ coming into our world.”

What Did Mary Know? Maybe More Than You Know. “You’ve heard the song. You’ve felt the angst. What did Mary know when she gave birth to Jesus Christ? Well, we have Mary’s song, the Magnificat, in Luke 1:46-55. In it, she reveals what she knew. The depth of her understanding as a teen-aged girl in the first century surpasses all expectations.”

Guard Your Heart from the Christmas Bandits. “In a familiar parable, Jesus described four types of soil that show how our heart condition determines whether the gospel will bear fruit (Matthew 13:1-23). He also identified the bandits that steal the good news. Let’s apply His teaching to Christmas and protect ourselves from the Christmas bandits.” This is good beyond Christmas.

We Three Kings . . .. HT to Challies. This was interesting and informative not only for who they were, but why they were included in Matthew’s gospel.

Making the Most of the Holidays with Your Adult Children, HT to Challies. “While we trust and pray for God to work, there are many things we can do to make the most of the holidays with our adult children”

Have You Lost the Ability to Think Deeply? HT to Challies. “While entertainment isn’t sinful, we need to ask ourselves if it’s affecting our spiritual growth. Jesus commands us in Mark 12:30, ‘Love the Lord your God . . . with all your mind’—our minds are connected to our affections. When we limit mindless entertainment and replace it with deeper content and conversations, our relationship with God and others will benefit.”

Finally Transformed: From Transgender to Christian, HT to Challies. “Christianity bears the brunt of modern criticism. It was oppressive to me—too limiting and too judgmental. I strived to resist it at all costs, believing ‘Bible thumpers’ the most viciously opposed to my identity as Andrea, even more so than the strangers shouting mean comments in the streets. But then I was transformed.”

Creativity in Devotional Time with God. “Reading the Bible straight through as it is printed from Genesis to Revelation can easily become old, even too predictable. Prayer through an unchanging prayer list day in and day out can be quite dry. I would like to help us stir our creative juices a bit and offer some practical ideas for keeping our devotional time fresh.”

The Reality of Edmund, HT to the Story Warren. Kelly Keller writes that in her childhood, she loved Lucy in the Narnia stories. But returning to the series as an adult, she found much to identify with in Edmund. She brought out some things about him that I had forgotten.

9 Ways to Help Those Who Are Suffering, HT to Challies. “While we feel compassion, we often find ourselves at a loss for what to do. Whether it’s a struggling spouse, a grieving friend, or a hurting member in our church, we want to help, but we’re unsure of the best approach. We walk a fine line between giving people space and showing up, between speaking truth and offering a listening ear. We fear doing or saying the wrong thing. It’s difficult to navigate. So, how do we help those who are suffering? How can we grow in showing up with love and wisdom?”

What? You Don’t? HT to Challies. “C.S. Lewis famously once said that friendship is birthed when the one says to the other, ‘What! You too?’1 The thought holds much truth, but the older I get, the more I learn it doesn’t always have to be.”

Teach Your Teen About Christian Freedom, HT to Challies. “When kids are young, we work hard to train their consciences, to teach them God’s commands and how to choose between right and wrong. But as kids get older, they must learn to navigate issues that aren’t black and white. They need wisdom to discern between good choices and those that are best.”

How (Not to Use AI: Three Principles, HT to Challies. “Along with technologies of writing, currency, transportation, and food production, AI confronts us with this quandary: how can we use this and not be corrupted by it?”

“Welcome, New Year,” said Captain Jim . . . “I wish you all the best year of your lives, mates. I reckon that whatever the New Year brings us will be the best the Great Captain has for us.” L. M. Montgomery, Anne's House of Dreams

“Welcome, New Year,” said Captain Jim . . . “I wish you all the best year of your lives, mates. I reckon that whatever the New Year brings us will be the best the Great Captain has for us.”
–L. M. Montgomery, Anne’s House of Dreams