Good reads

Deena at A Peek at My Bookshelf is giving away 30 books, one each day, through the month of September. Read more about it here. I enjoy Deena’s book reviews.

In Fourteen Reasons For Fourteen Years, Jason Jantz shares perspectives of what God accomplished through the fourteen years his brother lived in a persistent vegetative state after an accident. His brother, Jeremy, just went home to heaven last week.

Janet at Findings had a great post about speaking the truth in love.

Gina at Chats With an Old Lady has some great thoughts about Christians and the fashion industry in What do you wear to the grocery store, Part 1 and Part 2.

I totally agree with Worthwhile Books’ thoughts on Profanity in Books and Culture.

Why read? I’ve been thinking about a post on that subject, but Sherry and Janet recently posted a multitude of good reasons, many more than I had thought of.

Tawra Kellum has a great perspective about ethics in frugality when frugal becomes just plain cheap. HT to The Sparrow’s Nest.

Skip To My Lou has clever back to school ideas to show teacher appreciation.

On the crafting front, here are some really cute candy corn pins and magnets, roses from maple leaves, 20 craft projects from Tipster (HT to Susan), a friendship letter book, felt cupcake ornaments, and pretty cards here, here, and here.

And finally, Katrina at Callapidder Days will again be hosting Fall Into Reading beginning Sept. 22. More details to come there Sept. 8.

Happy reading!

Saturday Photo Scavenger Hunt: Wrinkled

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I had decided not to do a photo hunt today, because the only things I could think of for the wrinkled theme were my face and unironed clothes, and I didn’t really want to share pictures of those wrinkles. Then just now I spied the edge of my napkin:

Decorative edge of a napkin

Sometimes wrinkling can be done deliberately for decorative purposes.

(Hey, I’m not wrinkled! That’s just decoration for my face! 🙂 )

According to Dictionary.com, “wrinkled” can mean “a temporary slight ridge or furrow on a surface, due to contraction, folding, crushing, or the like; to form wrinkles in; corrugate; crease.”

Then when I went upstairs to get my camera, I saw another example of this type of decorative wrinkling…

Embossed edge of a post-it note

…in the embossed edge of a Post-It note.

To see a variety of other wrinkles, go to the Photo Hunt hostess, TN Chick. I am almost always amazed by the creativity of the entries for each week’s topic.

Poetry Friday: Anne Bradstreet

Anne Bradstreet has been one of my favorite poets since I first “discovered” her in my college sophomore American literature class. The heart and spirit that shines through her poems belies the premise that the Puritans were dour and humorless. She was one of America’s first poets and one of the first women to have a book published.

Probably one of her most well-known and favorite poems is To My Dear and Loving Husband, which begins with the lines, “If ever two were one, then surely we. If ever man were lov’d by wife, then thee.” Another of my favorites is The Author To Her Book, which begins, “Thou ill-formed offspring of my feeble brain…” I just love the way that sounds! By Night While Others Soundly Slept touched my heart with her seeking communion with her Lord late at night.

But my friend Bet pointed me to one of Anne’s poems with which I was not familiar, Verses Upon the Burning of Our House. The title clearly states the subject. The first lines describe the surprise and fear of finding her home in flames with earnest prayer for the Lord’s comfort. Job-like, “I blest his grace that gave and took,” and she acknowledges God’s ownership of all she has and His right to do with it as He will.

Yet she begins to grieve for the special, precious things lost, the particular familiar and treasured bits of a woman’s nesting instinct.

My sorrowing eyes aside did cast
And here and there the places spy
Where oft I sate and long did lie.
Here stood that Trunk, and there that chest,
There lay that store I counted best,
My pleasant things in ashes lie
And them behold no more shall I.

Then she reminds herself of the impermanence of treasures here on earrth and “sets her affection of things above“:

Then straight I ‘gin my heart to chide:
And did thy wealth on earth abide,
Didst fix thy hope on mouldring dust,
The arm of flesh didst make thy trust?
Raise up thy thoughts above the sky
That dunghill mists away may fly.
Thou hast a house on high erect
Fram’d by that mighty Architect,
With glory richly furnished
Stands permanent, though this be fled.
It’s purchased and paid for too
By him who hath enough to do.
A price so vast as is unknown,
Yet by his gift is made thine own.
There’s wealth enough; I need no more.
Farewell, my pelf; farewell, my store.
The world no longer let me love;
My hope and Treasure lies above.

Often as I have read older stories and biographies I’ve been struck by how closely they lived with loss. We have fires, floods, and such now, too, of course, but such catastrophes happen much less often now due to safety factors implemented as a result of previous disasters. Yet even though materials things may last longer now, they still won’t last forever, and our treasures are best laid up in heaven.

Poetry Friday is at Read Imagine Talk today.

Friday’s Fave Five

Susanne at Living To Tell the Story has begun a Friday Fave Five in which we’re invited to tell about five favorite things from the previous week. It can be “Favorite quotes, posts, happenings, scriptures, recipes, etc.” Today’s participants are here.

Here are my Fave Five:

1. Jason’s arriving home from his summer in CA. It’s nice to have all the family back together again.

2. Watching the Olympics. I’m not usually a sports fan, but there is just something about the Olympics that draws me. My favorite moments from this week was Shawn Johnson winning her gold and Jonathan Horton winning his silver. Yang Wei’s performance on the pommel horse during the gala was entertaining (tried to fins a video of it on the NBC site but only saw the American’s gala performances there).

3. My birthday cake!

My birthday cake!

Devil’s food with chocolate chip icing! Pretty and yummy! It was made by a lady at our church: actually I discovered on her Facebook page that she was making cakes from her home for people.

4. The music from one of my gifts, the soundtrack to the Keira Knightly version of Pride and Prejudice. As far as the film itself goes, I actually like the earlier A&E version with Colin Firth better overall, but there were parts of this I liked as well. But I really liked the music, especially loved the track “Liz on Top of the World.”

5. Birthday dinner at Outback!! With leftovers for lunch today! At first I didn’t see my favorite entree, the Drover’s Platter, listed, which has both chicken and baby back ribs, and I thought, “Oh, no! I am going to have to choose one or the other?!” But when I asked the waiter, he said they still had it. Love their bread, too!

Thirteen thoughts about my birthday

1. I turn 51 today!

2. That sounds so much older than 50! I’m still trying to figure out how I got there!

3. While standing in line somewhere I saw a headline saying, “50 is the new 30.” Sounds good to me!

4. This is a good week for birthdays: Barb‘s was a few days ago and Janet‘s was yesterday.

5. I got offered a senior citizen’s discount at Jack in the Box again today. 😕 Actually, they didn’t even offer — just rang it up, and I had to correct them. Then the cashier said, “How old are you?” Not exactly tactful! My husband thinks I should have just taken the discount.

6. We get to eat out at Outback tonight! Love the food — not crazy about the darkness and music. We only get there maybe once a year.

7. Barb had some good thoughts about reaching the over-50 mark here. My favorite line: “It doesn’t matter how many years you actually live. What matters is what you do with those years and how you impact the people who will live beyond you.”

8. My favorite cake is chocolate (preferable devil’s food) with chocolate icing (preferably fudge chocolate).

9. I miss talking to my mom on special days.

10. I could join the Bloggers Over 50 Blogroll. I could have last year, but I wanted to wait til I was over 50 just as a matter of principle. 🙂

11. Last year I posted some perks of being older and some neat quotes about aging.

12. One of my favorite “older” quotes not listed there is the following:

“It is love in old age, no longer blind, that is true love. For love’s highest intensity doesn’t necessarily mean its highest quality. Glamour and jealousy are gone; and the ardent caress…is valueless compared to the reassuring touch of a trembling hand. Passersby commonly see little beauty in the embrace of young lovers on a park bench, but the understanding smile of an old wife to her husband is one of the loveliest things in the world.” Booth Tarkington

13. Seen at ivman:

More Thursday Thirteeners are here.

Faithful in little things

The following quotes are from today’s reading of Joy and Strength compiled by Mary Wilder Tileston:

It is required in stewards that a man be found faithful.
–1 CORINTHIANS 4:2

TOO many people are not faithful in little things. They are not to be absolutely depended upon. They do not always keep their promises. They break engagements. They fail to pay their debts promptly. They come behind time to appointments. They are neglectful and careless in little things. In general they are good people, but their life is honeycombed with small failures. One who can be positively depended upon, who is faithful in the least things as well as in the greatest, whose life and character are true through and through, gives out a light in this world which honors Christ and blesses others.
–J. R. MILLER

Duties retire evermore from the observation of those who slight them.
–SARAH W. STEPHEN

Great thoughts go best with common duties. Whatever therefore may be your office regard it as a fragment in an immeasurable ministry of love.
–BROOKE FOSS WESTCOTT

A quiz and a meme

I saw this over at Joyful Days:


You Are Palatino


You consider yourself to be creative and artistic.

And you’d like everyone else to know it!

You take design and aesthetics seriously.

You like everything in your life to be unique and beautiful – but never gaudy!

What Font Are You?

I don’t think I had ever noticed this font — I had to go try it out just to see what it was like. I like it! The last couple of lines are true of me, but I don’t consider myself really artistic.

I saw this meme over at Brenda’s and Melli‘s and thought it looked like fun. I won’t tag anyone, but let me know if you do it — I’d enjoy reading your answers.

What kind of soap is in your bathtub right now? Dove unscented for sensitive skin.

Do you have any watermelon in your refrigerator? No. I’m not a big watermelon fan.

What would you change about your living room? I’d like to change it’s dimensions or size so as to be able to get a chair in there. We have a couch and a loveseat, which is ok when it’s just us, but that is usually where we have company, and then there aren’t enough seats to go around.

Are the dishes in your dishwasher clean or dirty? Clean — I forgot to have Jeremy unload it last night, and there are dirty dishes in the sink that need to go in.

What is in your fridge? The usual basic stuff — milk, OJ, condiments, etc. — plus diet Pepsi and leftover Mexican food from Jason’s birthday dinner out last night.

White or wheat bread? Wheat.

What is on top of your refrigerator? Water bottles and more diet Pepsi.

What color or design is on your shower curtain? A white and black striped lighthouse on a blue background.

How many plants are in your home? None, at least not real ones. I am guilty of negligent planticide. I do have some fake flower arrangements, though.

Is your bed made right now? Not yet.

Comet or Soft Scrub? Soft Scrub. I knew a lady once who had serious trouble with her eyes when the powdery Comet got into them as she was shaking the can.

Your closet organized? Pretty well.

Can you describe your flashlight? We have several. A couple of plain basic ones in yellow and red, a camouflage one (that I bought for Jesse for camp one year — probably not the greatest idea to take to camp in the woods, huh? But he didn’t lose it). Plus a big yellow industrial looking one that Jim likes to use.

Do you drink out of glass or plastic most of the time at home? Has to be glass.

Do you have iced tea made in a pitcher right now? Yes.

If you have a garage, is it cluttered? We don’t have a garage — I wish we did. We do have a very cluttered shed.

Curtains or blinds? Both.

How many pillows do you sleep with? One.

Do you sleep with any lights on at night? One nightlight in the bathroom that shines a little into our room.

How often do you vacuum? That’s one of my kids’ chores, so I don’t do it often myself.

Standard toothbrush or electric? Standard.

What color is your toothbrush? Pink. We have this odd thing — some of the family members can’t remember what their toothbrushes look like — they just remember where theirs is on the toothbrush rack. So I always get a girly color so there is no mistaking which one is mine.

Do you have a welcome mat on your front porch? Yes, though the design is kind of worn down.

What is in your oven right now? Nothing. It had birthday cake yesterday!

Is there anything under your bed? A flat storage box container flattened gift boxes, tissue paper, gift bags, and a few flat pieces of wrapping paper. And dust.

Chore you hate doing the most? Either cleaning toilets or dusting.

What retro items are in your home? I don’t think I have any — it would depend on how you define it.

Do you have a separate room that you use as an office? Sort of. This house has what the previous owners called a sunroom, and they kept a hot tub and some exercise equipment in it. We don’t have a hot tub, but we do have a treadmill in here — plus two desks and computers and bookshelves and a storage cabinet and some boxes and what’s supposed to be a project table that is covered with stuff I need to sort through. So I think of this as more of a hodgepodge room.

How many mirrors are in your home? 1 in each bathroom and in 3 bedrooms, so that makes 5. Plus there are 3 small decorative heart-shaped ones in the kitchen.

Do you have any hidden emergency money around your home? No, but if I did I wouldn’t tell the Internet!

What color are your walls? Living room: Wallpaper on top with beige background and pink roses, sage green on bottom. Kitchen: Rose wallpaper in pink and blue and white. Hallway: Beige-ish wallpaper. Family room: Just off-white. My bedroom: Pink. Jeremy’s bedroom: Wood paneling. Jason’s bedroom: Dark blue. Jesse’s bedroom: Light blue. Upstairs bathroom: Pecan Sandie (I just love the name of that paint). Downstairs bathroom: Southwest style wallpaper in beige, rust, and gray (NOT my style at all, but not high on the priority list of needed improvements). Office/sunroom/hodgepodge room: diagonal wood paneling (strange, huh?) And that’s probably much more than you ever wanted to know.

Do you keep any kind of protection weapons in your home? Do you think I’d tell the whole world? 🙂

What does your home smell like right now? Um…I don’t detect any smells right now.

Candle scent? I can’t do candles — they give me a headache and the really heavily scented ones make me feel like I can’t breathe.

What kind of pickles (if any) in your fridge? Sweet pickle relish, which we mainly only use for potato salad and tuna salad. We’re not really into pickles — I usually pick them off hamburgers

What color is your favorite Bible? Maroon.

Ever been on your roof? Not me! I get dizzy just thinking about it.

Do you own a stereo? Yes.

How many TVs do you have? 3.

How many house phones? 4.

Do you have a housekeeper? Ha!

What style do you decorate in? I’m somewhere between country and Victorian.

Do you like solid colors in furniture or prints? Prints, depending on what’s on the walls. Prints don’t show stains as much. 🙂

Is there a smoke detector in your home? At least 4.

What are the items in your house which you’d grab if you only could make one quick trip?
Hmmm…it would be between the computer and old photo albums.

It might be a clue…

…that I spend too much time on the computer when I am trying to apply mascara to lashes that don’t show up well no matter what I use, and I find myself wishing I could highlight them and click “bold.”

The Simple Woman’s Daybook

Special note: MSNBC has a poll up concerning the motto “In God We Trust” on our currency, here. Really, God is God whether our money affirms it or not, but I would hate to see this country take a further step away from acknowledging Him or the people who want every vestige of God removed from public life awarded another victory. If you read anything of the founding fathers’ official documents you see that they did not deem that mentioning God was akin to establishing a national religion. But that’s another post. If you have opinions on the issue you might want to let it be known there. I don’t know how long the poll will be up.

Outside My Window...looks like a nice day — not too bright or hot.

I am thinking… about plans for the day.

I am thankful… that Jason got home from his summer in CA safely last night.

From the kitchen
…besides a birthday cake, not much today. I mentioned last week we’re celebrating my two older boys’ birthdays this week since they both wanted to wait til Jason got back. We took Jeremy out for dinner (at Fuddruckers) on his actual birthday and will tonight take Jason out to the restaurant of his choice.

I am wearing… my nightgown and robe still….with everyone home and one shower, I’ve been waiting for my turn.

I am creating… a birthday cake…though cakes are not my best thing.

I am going… out to eat. 🙂

I am readingTo Kill a Mockingbird still and Simple Gifts by Lori Copeland. I volunteered to do a book review for the latter on anther site and didn’t get to it…so I wanted to reread it and work on that review.

I am hoping… that a friend is able to get back into school this semester…either that the Lord will provide the finances or the business office will be merciful

I am hearing… my neighbor hammering.

Around the house…I got some clutter taken care of last week but have more to tackle, plus I hope to work on family room curtains soon.

One of my favorite things… is when the family is all together enjoying each other.

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week: the aforementioned decluttering and curtains, plus Jesse’s school orientation Friday night.

Here is picture thought I am sharing…of the birthday boys.

Boys in Christmas jammies

At the park

Brothers in 1992

Sigma finale

Jeremy and Jason

More daybook participants are here.

Book Review: Children of the Storm

Some of you may remember the name of Georgi Vins. He was a Ukrainian pastor in prison for his “religious activities” in the Soviet Union several years ago. I was a BJU student praying for him in the Slavic Mission Prayer Band in the late 70s, and it was with great joy I heard years later that he had been exiled to the USA in exchange for Soviet spies.  Children of the Storm, written by his daughter, Natasha, and published by BJU Press, tells of her perspective during those years of persecution.

Natasha was about nine years old when persecution began in her school (though ridicule of Christianity had begun years before), and it seemed to increase as the years went by. Teachers would hold her up for ridicule in front of her classmates and blame her for her class’s not making it into certain competitions. She was assigned to write a report on a boy held up as a Soviet hero who turned his father in to the KGB for keeping back a little of his grain for his starving family. The other children began to taunt and threaten her or just avoid her. She was threatened with being removed from her home and “re-educated.” These things struck a chord with me when I first read this book because my youngest was at the age Natasha was when some of this was happening, and I just could not imagine him going through these things. Yet as it all struck me as so sad, the Lord reminded me that He marvelously kept her through that time. And she was not even saved yet!

In later years she had a teacher who had similar interests, befriended her, was kind to her, and then began to undermine her Christian beliefs. This time Natasha listened, thought some of what her teacher said made sense, and began to question. When her father came home from a prison camp and she had an opportunity, she talked with him. Imagine coming home from being in prison for your faith to have your own daughter question your faith. Yet he did not express anger or disappointment: he just answered her questions as best he could. Not long afterward Natasha was saved.

At this time and place one truly had to count the cost of following Christ. Natasha was denied finishing her studies in her field of choice because of her Christianity. Her father had had to go “underground” by this time and sent word that he would like her to join him in the printing ministry. She helped for many years in vital ways, and even got to see her father here and there. Once they were to meet with someone who at the last minute had to postpone meeting with them for a couple of hours. Natasha and her father used the time to walk around the city and talk. He thought it highly likely that he would be arrested again, and his talks with her that day helped her to make it through the time when he was indeed arrested. Imagine having to prepare your child not for the remote possibility but for the very real likelihood of your imprisonment…and to do so in a way that does not leave her mourning or sad or bitter or feeling sorry for you or herself, but leaves her strengthened and resting in the Lord.

Natasha’s grandmother was also arrested when she was in her sixties and thought she would die in prison, yet the Lord delivered her.

The book tells also of Natasha’s mother and siblings, of visits to her father and grandmother in prison, of the persecuted church, of struggling to maintain a Christian attitude toward persecutors, of their reaction when her father was suddenly and unexpectedly exiled, of the family’s preparing to join him, of their impressions of America: one of the younger siblings was astounded that everyone carried Bibles to church. Natasha wept upon seeing a Christian bookstore. They left Russia with sorrow because it was their homeland, but before too long they began to see how the Lord could use them in the USA.

The epilogue of the book tells of the Lord’s help through their adjustments to the US, and then opportunities for ministry by publishing newsletters and several books and establishing a mission. After 11 years of exile, in 1990, Pastor Vins was able to make several return trips to the former Soviet Union, visiting and preaching openly, discussing with church leaders how the mission in America could best help them. He passed away Jan. 11, 1998, leaving not only a continuing ministry, but a legacy of godly man and his family.