Thursday Thirteen: Features I want in my next house

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I haven’t been terribly happy with our house since we bought it — I hope that doesn’t sound terribly discontent. We were rushed the weekend we were house-hunting and just didn’t see or realize some of the problems with this one. At the time it was the only one with the room we were looking for, so it won out over houses that I liked better. And circumstances haven’t been conducive to buying a different home yet. But when we do, these are features I’d like:

1. Some distance between neighbors. I really don’t like these new subdivisions that are so close together that it looks like you could borrow a cup of sugar from each other’s kitchen windows without ever leaving your house. Our subdivision is 30+ years old and not quite that crowded, but houses are close enough that it’s awkward to me. From my kitchen window I cam see right into the family room of the house behind us, where someone’s easy chair sits whose occupant looks like he’s looking back into my window. I put a sun-catcher right at that spot, which helps. But I’d rather have a different view and not feel self-conscious there on my patio when the neighbors driveway is right there a few feet away.

2. At least 2 full bathrooms. We have 1 1/2 right now, which works out ok most of the time. But an extra shower would be helpful.

3. Our last two homes have been split-levels, and I’d prefer next time to have just one level. I could live with a two-story, though, where I didn’t have to go up and down stairs just to use a restroom or bring groceries in.

4. Speaking of groceries, I’d love to have the kitchen right next to the driveway or garage door. Right now I have to cart groceries in across two rooms and up seven steps. It gets exhausting after hiking across Super Wal-Mart.

5. A pantry. I sorely miss the one from our old house. Our kitchen is seriously short of storage space.

6. A more efficiently laid-out kitchen.

7. Some larger or more open area for when company comes. Our house now is small compartments of rooms. so when family comes to visit or we have anyone over, it’s crowded.

8. A craft/sewing room where I can put all of my ‘stuff” where it’s accessible and where I can leave projects-in-progress out and shut the door so I don’t feel like there’s a mess in the living area or bedroom. I’d also like to put a day bed in there and have it double as a guest room.

9. I’d love to have an office for my husband, if he’d like one, so that he’d have a place for his technical books and microscopes and a quiet space when he’s working from home.

10. A ‘mudroom” or little space when you first come in from outside to take off jackets and shoes, hang up wet jackets to dry, etc., without that being a corner of a living area.

11. A garage (preferably) or carport.

12. A fence around the back yard.

13. I’m not sure about this one, but I’ve thought about a screen-in porch area in the back where you can go out when the weather’s nice but not be bothered by bugs (the South is very buggy) and even maybe have a ceiling fan. But — that’s iffy. I’m not outdoors much as it is.

Bonus: At one time we wanted a log cabin, but now I am leaning more toward something Victorian or very Southern-looking with white columns.

Now — I know I should be content with such things as I have (and I try. 🙂 ). And I know that in many parts of the world, what I have now would be considered luxurious. I try to keep it in perspective. But…..if we ever do buy another house, these are some of the things I’d look for.

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(House graphic courtesy of Graphic Garden.)

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Wordless Wednesday: “Helping” with laundry

Jesse in hamper

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Works For Me Wednesday: Cleaning drip pans and rings

Drip pans and rings from the stove used to be cheap enough that I tossed them out when they got covered with hard, caked-on grunge. But then they went up in price, so I wasn’t comfortable doing that as often. Yet it took a lot of scrubbing even make a dent, and getting them thoroughly clean seemed impossible. Then I came across this tip in the Frugal Living section of About.com: Dissolve about a 1/4 cup of baking soda in a large pot of warm water. Add the drip pans ands rings and boil for a few minutes. Let it all cool and then scrub the drip pans. I was amazed at how well it works.

I also started sprinkling baking powder on pans that are hard to get clean and scrubbing with a sponge that has an abrasive side. Works great and doesn’t have the fumes and irritants to my hands that other cleaners have.

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Wordless Wednesday: Brotherly Love

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This is one of my favorite pictures. 🙂
It’s from a few years ago. Thankfully they still love each other. 🙂 This picture is from a few weeks ago:

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: Clutter Prevention and Time Saver

Shannon over at Rocks In My Dryer hosts the weekly “Works For Me Wednesday” conglomeration of tips offered by scores of folks. She asked us to consider going back into our archives and posting a “classic” tip this week…..but since I have only been contributing for a few weeks, and therefore all of my posts would be within recent memory, and since I already had something else in mind, I’ll post my “new” one.

It took me seemingly ages (and a lot of frustration) to learn this, but it’s better to prevent clutter that to have to sort through it. One of the best ways to avoid clutter is the OHIO principle: Only Handle It Once (I first heard this from my former Home Economics teacher, Mrs. Karis Wickensimer. I don’t know it is is original with her). Most clutter comes from setting something out of place “just for now until I can get back to it ,” and by the time we get back to it, it has multiplied somehow.

Here’s one example from my early married years. We used to have a trunk in our bedroom, and at night when it was late and we were tired, we’d lay our clothes from the day across it. After several days I’d have to make time to sort through the pile. Anything that could have been worn again originally was now wrinkled and needed to be ironed or washed. Taking the few seconds to go ahead and hang clothes back up or put them in the hamper as soon as I took them off saved time and frustration and certainly made the room look a lot better. (Looking back, I can’t believe I ever used to do that. :oops:)

An example from current life: when my son brings home a permission slip for a field trip, if I set it on the counter or the desk, I’m likely to forget about it until the last minute, when it’s a mad scramble to try to find it on the day it’s needed. It’s much more efficient to go ahead and sign it, make note of the details on my kitchen calendar, get out the money for it, and have my son put it back in his bookbag right when he first gives it to me.

Using this principle not only prevents clutter but also saves time by not having to deal with the same paperwork or item again. And usually dealing with these things right away makes them a whole lot less complicated.

There are, of course, some household tasks for which this would not work well: clipping coupons, for instance, is usually best done as an assembly-line procedure with the Sunday paper insert rather than filing each individual coupon as you clip it.

And it is meant to be a general principle, not the law of the land with which you beat yourself (or anyone else). There will be times when it’s not possible. But when it is, it will save time, energy, and frustration and prevent clutter. And that works for me!

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Thursday Thirteen: One-liners

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1. We don’t have to attend every argument we’re invited to.

2. If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging.

3. He cuts corners will soon find himself running around in circles.

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Every time history repeats itself the price goes up.

5. Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you don’t have a leg to stand on.

6. He often broke into song because he couldn’t find the key.

7. It takes a smart spouse to have the last word and not use it.

8. One day a peacock, the next day a feather duster.

9. You can’t have everything: where would you put it?

10. Two wrongs don’t make a right, but three rights make a left.

11. Some drink at the fountain of knowledge: other just gargle.

12. What did the cured ham actually have?

13. Quote: “ ” – Marcel Marceau, French mime artist.

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: More chicken tenderloin recipes

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I had a post in mind about time-savers, but when I made one of these chicken tenderloin recipes for dinner last night, I thought I’d share that instead.

Chicken and Stuffing Casserole

10 chicken tenderloin pieces
1 16-oz. package Pepperidge Farm Cornbread Stuffing
1 jar chicken gravy or leftover gravy*
Salt and pepper to taste
Prepare the stuffing mix according to package directions for 8 servings (save the rest of the package for the next recipe) and place in rectangular baking pan. Place chicken tenderloin on top. Salt and pepper chicken. Pour gravy over top of all. Bake at 375 for 20-30 minutes.

* You could also use 1 can of cream-of-chicken soup mixed with milk (fill the soup can about 1/2 to 3/4 with milk) or make a white sauce and add instant chicken bouillon.

Oven-Baked Chicken

10 chicken tenderloin pieces
Leftover Pepperidge Farm Cornbread Stuffing mix from previous recipe

Rinse chicken and place in bag of stuffing mix: shake well. Place in single layer on baking pan and sprinkle the rest of the stuffing mix over the top. Bake at 375 for about 20 minutes if thawed, 30 minutes if frozen.

You could dip the chicken in milk or beaten egg before placing it in the stuffing mix if you want to, but just rinsing it with water works well (and is fewer calories).

Both of these feed our family of five with a little left over for lunch. Of course, both could be made with regular chicken pieces, but would take longer to bake.

Bonus tip: If you are out of cream of chicken soup for a casserole recipe, in many cases you can substitute with and cream-of-something soup and a little over a teaspoon of instant chicken bouillon.

Request: I posted a blogging question a few days ago which has not received a response yet. If you have time, it would be a help to me to have your input. Thanks!

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Wordless Wednesday: Surprises

(Forgive me, I haven’t yet had a truly Wordless Wednesday. :))
When you live with all boys, this is the kind of little decorating touch you might find around the house…

along with this kind of little surprise…

Boys! 🙄 🙂
I love ’em! 😀

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: Book Weights

I write a monthly booklet for my church’s ladies’ group, and frequently I quote from or review good books. I’d have to set the stapler (and maybe an assortment of other desk accessories) on the book to keep it open while typing — but then often couldn’t see what I was trying to quote from, or would have to move it all around to see different lines or turn the page. Then one day someone in my family bought me one of these from the local Barnes and Noble. I wasn’t even sure what it was called: I searched on the B&N site and didn’t find it at first, then I Googled things like “book holder opener” and found a listing for “book weights,” searched B&N with that term, and voila! (Amazon.com calls it a weighted bookmark.) I love it because it holds the book open flat and is easily moved around.

As I was searching for this I saw various other devices for holding books open, but I still like this best.

I have a couple of cookbooks that tend to try to flop closed, and I have something like this in the kitchen for holding them not only open but propped up, but I rarely bother getting it out. There’s no good place to store it in our kitchen and I usually don’t want to bother with setting it up or going upstairs to get the book weight — so I grab a can of green beans or two instead. 🙂 The book weight might not work for a very big, heavy book (unless they make them in different sizes or you use more than one), but it’s great for most books.

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Thursday Thirteen: Reasons to read the Bible

I go back and forth on “Thursday Thirteens” between funny and serious ones. I didn’t realize at first that my thoughts about this post and the Works For Me Wednesday post were running along the same tracks.

Thirteen Reasons to Read the Bible

1. To learn of Christ

John 5:39: Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me.

2. To increase our faith.

Romans 10:17: So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

3. Guidance.

Psalm 119:105: Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

4. Doctrine, reproof, correction, instruction in righteousness.

2 Timothy 3:16: All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.

5. To give us hope and comfort.

Romans 15:4: For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.

6. To help us avoid sin.

Psalm 119:9: Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.

7. To compare what we are hearing with what God has said.

Acts 17:11 These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.

8. Fruitfulness, stability.

Psalm 1

1 Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.

2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.

3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

4 The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away.

5 Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.

6 For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.

9. Quickening.

Psalm 119:25: My soul cleaveth unto the dust: quicken thou me according to thy word.

Psalm 119:50: This is my comfort in my affliction: for thy word hath quickened me.

10. Understanding.

Psalm 119: 103-104: How sweet are thy words unto my taste! yea, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.

Psalm 119:130: The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.

11. Our rejoicing.

Psalm 119:162: I rejoice at thy word, as one that findeth great spoil.

Jeremiah 15:16: Thy words were found, and I did eat them; and thy word was unto me the joy and rejoicing of mine heart: for I am called by thy name, O LORD God of hosts.

12. Our sanctification.

John 17:17: Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.

13. To see Scripture fulfilled.

Matthew 26:56: But all this was done, that the scriptures of the prophets might be fulfilled. Then all the disciples forsook him, and fled.

John 2:22: When therefore he was risen from the dead, his disciples remembered that he had said this unto them; and they believed the scripture, and the word which Jesus had said. (See also Matthew 21:42; 26:54; Mark 12;10; 14:49; 15:28; Luke 4:21; 24:27; John 7:42; 13:18; 17:12; 19:24, 28, 36, 37; Acts 1:16; 18:28; Romans 1:2; Galatians 3:8; James 2:23; I Peter 2:6 – to name a few). 🙂

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