A question for those with eye problems

A few years ago at an annual eye exam I was told I was just on the verge of needing reading glasses. Before my next yearly check-up, I experienced two days of sudden double vision. I was told after having transverse myelitis that there was a 20% chance of it turning into multiple sclerosis, so I was really concerned about this vision problem having to do with the optic nerve. Dashed off to the eye dr., and he said the optic nerve was fine, I just needed trifocals. Trifocals? When less than a year before I was only on the verge of needing reading glasses?  I kept trying to stress that this wasn’t something that crept up but rather happened suddenly. He was convinced it probably was happening all along but I had just noticed it. 🙄

I didn’t have a lot of confidence in that diagnosis, so I didn’t get the glasses. I’m not opposed to getting glasses, I just didn’t think this diagnosis was accurate. The blurry double vision lasted for a couple of days, went away for a couple of weeks, then returned. I had seen my personal family dr. in the meantime for something else but mentioned this. My eye dr. happened to be someone he knew and had confidence in, so he trusted his diagnosis, but sent me to an ophthalmologist. That dr. told me I had an astigmatism. I wasn’t sure that was right, either. I didn’t want to get prescription glasses for a problem that only occurred occasionally, and I wondered why no one considered there might be other non-glasses related problems that might be occurring.

I saw the ophthalmologist again less than a year ago for a regular check-up. My eyes weren’t blurry then, and I had 20/20 vision.

But the double vision and blurriness come and go. My eyesight in general had gotten worse — I use little Wal-Mart reading glasses generally to read but can’t wear them all the time because everything else is blurry when I have them on.

The double vision is occurring again today. It’s good I wasn’t planning to do much blogging today!!

So I guess my question is — does this happen to anyone else? I know that after passing the mid-40s eyesight begins to wane anyway. And it does seem to occur more when I am tired or haven’t had enough sleep, but I haven’t really kept track enough to say that always affects it.

Works For Me Wednesday: Shower Curtain Repair

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When your shower curtain develops a little tear like this:

You can take a few inches of clear plastic packaging tape, put the first few inches over the tear on one side like this:

Then fold the tape over to the other side and smooth out. Use a hole punch to make a hole for the shower curtain holder-upper, insert said holder-upper, and — voila!

Almost good as new.

See Rocks In My Dryer for more tips or to share yours.

Easter Day

Hope you had a blessed Easter Day! Ours was very nice.

A few days ago I posted a recipe for Resurrection Rolls, but didn’t have a picture. I thought I’d post a picture of one from today. They didn’t get as “poofy” as usual, and this picture turned out blurrier than I thought when I took it, but you get the idea.

Resurrection Rolls

My husband played around with it and took some photos on black fabric. I like the way the light behind it looks like it’s coming from inside.

Resurrection roll

I think young kids would particularly like these, but our guys still like them, too, so they’ve become an Easter tradition.

We have another tradition that didn’t exactly start out as a tradition. No one likes hard-cooked eggs (except maybe for a deviled egg or two), so we never did the egg-dyeing. I kind of hate that my kids never did that, but it seemed a waste to do all of that when no one liked to eat them. I think I used to put candy in the little plastic eggs, but later just dumped it in the Easter basket. One years my husband decided to do an Easter Egg hunt with money in the eggs, mostly coins. I’m not sure why — maybe it was just spontaneous. But the kids have asked for it every year since. It was funny this morning — Jeremy and Jason (22 and 19) asked if we were doing that again this year, saying things like, “Well, of course, we really do it for Jesse.” 🙂

We traditionally do the hunt after Sunday afternoon dinner — though I think sometimes we’ve done it after Sunday evening church. It was in the 30s this morning, but warmed up a little in the afternoon, so it was a pleasant day. Here are a few pictures from “the hunt.”

Starting point:

Getting ready for the eggs hunt

Some are hidden on the ground, under leaves, in the drainspout, etc., but Jim does put some in unusual places:

Hunting eggs

By the way — that’s a scenic view of my neighbor’s junk pile, isn’t it? That’s what I see from my place at the dining room table. I’d like to plant a tree in the line of vision.

One year we were running short of plastic eggs, and Jim dashed out to the store at the last minute. The regular pastel ones were all out, but he found these:

An unusal egg...

Seems a little strange to see Spiderman on Easter! 🙂

Here’s part of Jeremy’s collection. At some point they stop and count so Jim can tell them how many are left. He’s actually started keeping a list of where he put them because in previous years he’s have a hard time remembering the last few.

Jeremy's collection so far

Jason finds the last one:

Jason finds the last one

Everyone counting up their finds:

Jesse counting eggs

Jason counting eggs

Jeremy counting eggs

Jeremy’s shirt, in case you’re wondering, says, “Maybe if this shirt is witty enough, someone will finally love me.” 🙂

When we were first married, I was pretty anti-everything related to holidays that wasn’t directly related spiritually. But one year I heard someone whom I highly respected explain the Christian versions of the symbols like the egg. So I realized that Christians could use those things in good conscience. I didn’t agree, necessarily, that it was right for us to do, at first, but I realized it was one of those things Christians could differ on and still love each other. 😀 Then one year when the kids were small, I thought about Easter baskets and decided there was nothing in the world wrong with them. And somewhere along the way, I began to realize that all of springtime is a picture of the resurrection, as the Martin Luther quote I posted a few days ago mentioned. So I relaxed about it all a lot. 🙂

We still don’t do the Easter bunny, though. That never quite made sense to me. And I don’t like how people in public will ask kids, “What’s the Easter Bunny bringing you?” as if it were a springtime version of Santa Claus. We don’t exchange gifts — I think I used to put little toys, pencils, and stuffed animals in the boys baskets, but overall it was pretty simple.

On that note, I had a laugh his morning. Jim had put the coins in the eggs before the kids got up. When I went upstairs after breakfast, I saw an egg on my dresser in front of the jewelry box. I thought, “Oh, how sweet — he left me a little something.” We don’t usually do anything for each other for Easter. I thought maybe it was a little piece of candy or something. I picked it up and it rattled! I opened it — and there was a smaller plastic egg inside. I opened that, and there was….nothing. I laughed and told everyone about it later. Jason said, “Now you have to give her something, Dad!” No, I just thought it was funny. Come to find out Jesse had unearthed it when he was cleaning his room yesterday, and asked Jim where to put it, and Jim told him just to put it in our room. But I didn’t notice it til this morning.

One of the best parts of Easter, to me, is the reflection on Christ’s death and resurrection all through the week. Though as Christians we commemorate the resurrection every Sunday, and the resurrection is why we meet on Sundays, there’s a sense in which it is nice to have this time to really focus on it (just like we should be thankful every day, but Thanksgiving is a special time to especially remember all we have to be thankful for).

Another of the best parts of Easter is the music. We always have special music at Easter time, and it is so beautiful and uplifting. The choir tonight didn’t do a cantata, but rather a number of songs with one of our men reading selected Scripture passages in between.

I’ve posted a lot of quotes, poetry, and hymns related to Easter, and I have a few still in my files, but didn’t want to overdo it. But I think I’ll leave you with one last one.

The strife is o’er, the battle done;
The victory of life is won;
The song of triumph has begun:
Alleluia!

The powers of death have done their worst;
But Christ their legions hath dispersed;
Let shouts of holy joy outburst:
Alleluia!

The three sad days are quickly sped;
He rises glorious from the dead;
All glory to our risen Head!
Alleluia!

He closed the yawning gates of hell;
The bars from heaven’s high portals fell;
Let hymns of praise His triumphs tell!
Alleluia!

Lord, by the stripes which wounded Thee,
From death’s dread sting Thy servants free,
That we may live, and sing to Thee:
Alleluia!

Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!

Author of the words is unknown
Author of the music is Giovanni Pierluigi da Palestrina

And for a very moving story about the power of the resurrection, see My Son, My Son! My Only Son! from The Jungle Hut, a great blog I just discovered.

Easter poem

Tomb, thou shalt not hold Him longer;
Death is strong, but Life is stronger;
Stronger than the dark, the light;
Stronger than the wrong, the right;
Faith and Hope triumphant say
Christ will rise on Easter Day.

 

– Phillips Brooks, An Easter Carol

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Our Lord has written the promise of resurrection, not in books alone but in every leaf of springtime.–Martin Luther

Spring bursts to-day,
For Christ is risen and all the earth’s at play.
— Christina Georgina Rossetti, Easter Carol

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Was it not most meet that a woman should first see the risen Saviour? She was first in the transgression; let her be first in the justification. In yon garden she was first to work our woe; let her in that other garden be the first to see Him who works our weal. She takes first the apple of that bitter tree which brings us all our sorrow; let her be the first to see the Mighty Gardener, who has planted a tree which brings forth fruit unto everlasting life.

— Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Previous Easter quotes are here, here, here, and here.

Happy Easter!

Saturday Photo Scavenger Hunt: Clean

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Crosses

Psalm 51:1-10:

1 Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.

2 Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.

3 For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.

4 Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest.

5 Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.

6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

8 Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice.

9 Hide thy face from my sins, and blot out all mine iniquities.

10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.

I John 1:7: But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.

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John 15:3: Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.

Psalm 119:9: Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.

Mine, mine was the transgression…

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O sacred Head, now wounded, with grief and shame weighed down,
Now scornfully surrounded with thorns, Thine only crown;
O sacred Head, what glory, what bliss till now was Thine!
Yet, though despised and gory, I joy to call Thee mine.

What Thou, my Lord, hast suffered, was all for sinners’ gain;
Mine, mine was the transgression, but Thine the deadly pain.
Lo, here I fall, my Savior! ’Tis I deserve Thy place;
Look on me with Thy favor, vouchsafe to me Thy grace.

Men mock and taunt and jeer Thee, Thou noble countenance,
Though mighty worlds shall fear Thee and flee before Thy glance.
How art thou pale with anguish, with sore abuse and scorn!
How doth Thy visage languish that once was bright as morn!

My burden in Thy Passion, Lord, Thou hast borne for me,
For it was my transgression which brought this woe on Thee.
I cast me down before Thee, wrath were my rightful lot;
Have mercy, I implore Thee; Redeemer, spurn me not!

What language shall I borrow to thank Thee, dearest friend,
For this Thy dying sorrow, Thy pity without end?
O make me Thine forever, and should I fainting be,
Lord, let me never, never outlive my love to Thee.

— Bernard of Clairvaux

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We greatly need the cheer of this precious Easter truth. We make too little of the place our Lord has gone to prepare for us. We rob ourselves greatly when we try to reduce heaven to a mere state of ecstatic feeling. We need the cheer which comes of having the eye of faith fixed on the better country and the city that hath the foundations. Such a certainty of an inheritance that is real and that cannot fade away goes far to mitigate the pangs which come of the fires and floods and disasters and frauds which so often despoil God’s people of their earthly possessions; for we know that the things seen are temporal, but the things not seen are eternal, and they are only a few heart-beats away.
E.P. Goodwin

IF you come to seek His face, not in the empty sepulchre, but in the living power of His presence, as indeed realizing that He has finished His glorious work, and is alive for evermore, then your hearts will be full of true Easter joy, and that joy will shed itself abroad in your homes. And let your joy not end with the hymns and the prayers and the communions in His house. Take with you the joy of Easter to the home, and make that home bright with more unselfish love, more hearty service; take it into your work, and do all in the name of the Lord Jesus; take it to your heart, and let that heart rise anew on Easter wings to a higher, a gladder, a fuller life; take it to the dear grave-side and say there the two words “Jesus lives!” and find in them the secret of calm expectation, the hope of eternal reunion.
— John Ellerton

(Other Easter quotes are here, here, here, and here.)

5 Blogs That Make Me Think

Janeen (aka ChupieandJ’smama) at Our Story has named me one of the bloggers that makes her think and passed on the Thinking Blogger’s award. Thank you, Janeen! That was very kind of you. 🙂

The instructions that go along with this reward are to then name five bloggers who make me think. Probably all the bloggers I read make me think in some way or another. Some of the ones that come to mind have been named for this particular award more than once, so I want to try to name some that I haven’t seen awarded yet (which is harder than I thought it would be! I keep putting people’s names down, going to their blog to copy the url, and finding they have received this award already!).

1. Mrs. Wilt at The Sparrow’s Nest makes me think about creativity and joy in homemaking.

2. Erica at Butterfly Kisses began Psalms Sundays, which causes me to think through rather than just zoom through one Psalm each Sunday.

3. Elle at A Complete Thought makes me think about doctrinal issues and spiritual truth.

4. Mrs. B at Cherish the Home makes me think all across the spectrum, from homemaking to Scriptural truth.

5. I wanted to include at least one of the craft blogs I love here. With raising three boys, crafts have kind of drifted off my landscape over the years, but some of the craft blogs I have found have been truly inspiring to me, causing my to think about ways to include crafts in my life again, both for the joy of creating and the meaningfulness crafting gives to one’s home decor and to gifts for others. There are so many great ones out there it was hard to narrow down, but I decided to name little birds handmade, because she not only caused me to think about crafting again, but to actually do some: button wreaths and soft trees.

The participation rules are simple:

1. If, and only if, you get tagged, write a post with links to 5 blogs that make you think,
2. Link to this post so that people can easily find the exact origin of the meme,
3. Optional: Proudly display the ‘Thinking Blogger Award’ with a link to the post that you wrote.

You can choose from silver or gold:

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Booking Through Thursday: Truly Biblical

btt3.gif The questions for this week’s Booking Through Thursday are:

  1. Just out of curiosity, as we enter into Passover and Easter season . . . have you ever read the Bible? Just the odd chapter or Psalm? The whole thing? (Or, almost the whole thing? It’s some heavy reading, of course, and those “begats” get kind of tedious.)
  2. If so, was it from religious motivation or from a literary perspective? Stuck with nothing else to read in a hotel room the Gideon’s have visited? Any combination?
  3. If not, why not? Against your religious principles? Too boring? Just not interested? Something you’re planning on taking care of when you get marooned on a desert island?
  4. And while we’re on the subject . . . what about the other great religious works out there? Are they more to your liking?

My answers:

1. Yes, I have read the whole thing, several times. When I first became a Christian as a teen-ager, the pastor of the church I was in at the time encouraged his congregation to read the Bible through in a year. I don’t try to get it in in a year any more — I’m not quite sure how long it takes me, but I want to feel free to stop and ponder things along the way — but I think reading the Bible is the best way to get grounded spiritually and to grow. Romans 10: 17 says, “So then faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.”

2. My motivation was to learn more about God, His character and works, the way of salvation, and what He expects of me. God speaks to us today through His Word — reading it and hearing it taught and applying it are the only ways to really get to know Him. But I do believe it is the highest and best of literary works as well.

3. Different times I have gone through where I haven’t read it have been mainly due to distraction and business. But when I don’t read it, even for a day, I feel out of kilter, and I can’t go too long without reading it without feeling the loss. It keeps me on track.

4. No, I’ve had no desire to.

Edited: When I first answered the last question, I was thinking of “sacred texts” of other religions, and so the answer would be no. But I saw some participants included any general religious works. In that case, I’ve read many: multitudes of Christian biographies and Christian fiction, some of Spurgeon and David Martin Lloyd-Jones and C. S. Lewis and others.

If anyone is interested, a few previous posts on this topic are Reasons to Read the BibleDevotional Tips (ideas to enhance one’s Bible reading), and What Do You Say About This Book?