The Week in Words

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Welcome to The Week In Words, where we share quotes from the last week’s reading. If something you read this past week  inspired you, caused you to laugh, cry, think, dream, or just resonated with you in some way, please share it with us, attributing it to its source, which can be a book, newspaper, blog, Facebook — anything that you read. More information is here.

Though I didn’t plan it this way, all the quotes I have for today are good for starting the new year and putting those plans, resolutions, and goals into practice.

Seen on Lisa‘s Twitter:

What is not started today is never finished tomorrow. -JW von Goethe

I forgot to note where I saw this:

The way to do a great deal, is to keep on doing a little. The way to do nothing at all, is to be continually resolving that you will do everything. ~ Spurgeon

I read this in Anne’s House of Dreams by L. M. Montgomery:

“Welcome, New Year,” said Captain Jim, bowing low as the last stroke died away. “I wish you all the best year of your lives, mates. I reckon that whatever the New Year brings us will be the best the Great Captain has for us.”

I hope the same for you, friends, “that whatever the New Year brings us will be the best the Great Captain has for us.”

You can share your family-friendly quotes in the comments below or write a post on your blog and then put the link to that post (not your general blog link) in Mr. Linky below.

I hope you’ll visit the other participants as well and glean some great thoughts to ponder. And don’t forget to leave a comment here, even if you don’t have any quotes to share.

Still, My Soul, Be Still

Our assistant pastor introduced this song to us several months ago, and I was struck by the richness, depth, and Spiritual base of the words as well as the hauntingly beautiful music.

Still, My Soul, Be Still

Still my soul be still
And do not fear
Though winds of change may rage tomorrow
God is at your side
No longer dread
The fires of unexpected sorrow

God You are my God
And I will trust in You and not be shaken
Lord of peace renew
A steadfast spirit within me
To rest in You alone

Still my soul be still
Do not be moved
By lesser lights and fleeting shadows
Hold onto His ways
With shield of faith
Against temptations flaming arrows

Still my soul be still
Do not forsake
The Truth you learned in the beginning
Wait upon the Lord
And hope will rise
As stars appear when day is dimming

~ Words and Music by Keith & Kristyn Getty & Stuart Townend

No matter what happens in our lives, if we know God, we can “trust and not be shaken” and rest in Him alone.

If you don’t know God in that way, please read this.

“And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.” (John 17:3).

And may those of us who do know Him not “forsake the truth we learned in the beginning” and rest in Him continually.

Laudable Linkage

Here are some things I found interesting online the last couple of weeks. Perhaps some might be of interest to you as well.

What to Do If You Wake Up Feeling Fragile.

The Importance of Superficial Reading the First Time Through. I put the book mentioned on my TBR list.

Bible Reading Plans. You may have seen many posts like this the last few weeks. I think there is a plan for any personality, temperament, or way of thinking. The important thing is to be in the Word regularly.

You’ve probably seen a lot about resolutions, too. I put links to the posts I’d found thought-provoking at the bottom of this post where I tried to work out some of my thoughts about it all, but a couple more are Teenage Resolutions and Resolutions on Growing Old With God.

Four Tips for Scripture Memory.

An idea for Christmas cards.

Making a take-out menu binder. Neat idea. I have a folder for menus and coupons, but this takes it a step further.

Tips for getting organized in the new year. Lots of really neat ideas.

I’ve pinned a number of crafty, organizational, or food-related posts on my Pinterest boards recently, probably too many to list here, but if you’re interested in more of those things, I invite you there. 🙂

And a couple of funny pics:

Happy Saturday!

Friday’s Fave Five

Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week,  wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

The week after Christmas is relaxing in some ways, but sad in others as visiting loved ones go home and Christmas decorations come down. It’s sad that it’s over. But it is kind of nice to get the house back to normal and to make plans for the new year. I’m not sure why changing over the year brings about a flurry of organizing and cleaning out, but I’m going with it!

Here are some faves from the past week.

1. A short work/school week.

2. Knowing that there is more daylight since Dec. 21 even though it doesn’t really seem like it yet.

3. Playing games. Jason and Mittu got some expansion packs for their Catan games, and Jesse got a couple of new games for Christmas. It’s been fun to play all together. I’m looking forward to playing more.

4. New officey stuff. I’d been wanting some kind of memo board ever since we set up an office in this house, but was undecided about style and size. I’d thought about making the kind that has criss-crossing ribbons. But then I saw this at W-Mart today, and I like that it has both cork board and magnetic board, and it will fit right under a cross stitch picture I have up. Can’t wait to ask a certain handy hubby to take care of that for me. 🙂

And I was tickled to find pink push pins for the cork board:

5. These:

Also just discovered at W-Mart. My sweet tooth got really overfed over the holidays and I’m needing to get it back under control. These are really good and just 120 calories per pouch. Just enough to satisfy that desire for something sweet and chocolatey but in controlled portions. No, this isn’t a commercial. 🙂 I just really like them.

Bonus: A visitor:

We’ve seen bunnies in the yard occasionally, but this is the first time I remember seeing them right outside the window. I had spilled some bird seed when I refilled the feeder a few days ago, and I guess he found it! It’s hard to get a good picture, though, because he’s pretty skittish — any movement or even the click when I take the camera from its charger makes him jump.

I need to hop away, too, but I’ll be back to visit with you later today. Happy Friday!

Thinking about resolutions and words for the year…

It’s that time. The close of one year and beginning of another seems a good time for taking stock, making plans, setting goals for the year ahead.

I don’t know how the tradition of making New Year’s Resolutions first got started. I dutifully made them each January as I grew up and forgot about them in a few weeks’ time. After a while that seemed pretty ridiculous. Then I began to make goals rather than resolutions. And then later on I began realizing that the things I pondered every year around Jan. 1 were things I needed to be working on all the time anyway. So I happily gave up on the whole idea.

This year in several articles and posts going around, some have gone so far as to say Christians shouldn’t make resolutions, that resolutions smack of moralism and even legalism, putting a focus on our efforts, on trying harder, rather than on grace, and we should rest on God’s promises to us rather than making promises to Him.

Well, of course we should rest on God’s promises and His provision of grace and forgiveness. Our resolutions or goals or lists for ourselves don’t make us more accepted or loved in His sight. But does that mean we should never resolve anything or promise God anything?

A few years ago I made a study of the statement “I will” in the Bible, said not by God or Satan but by people. “I will” is a statement of determination, sometimes a vow, or we could even say a resolution. There were many I found, and that’s not even including “I will nots” or statements that say the same thing in different words.

And then our pastor has been leading us through the book of Job for the past several months and started a series last Sunday on Job’s resolutions from Job 31, beginning with “I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?” The rest aren’t stated quite that way, but resolution can be inferred from the other behaviors Job lists in his defense against his friends who felt that he must have sinned and sinned big to deserve the affliction he suffered.

So there are Biblical grounds for making resolutions (not necessarily Jan. 1, but whenever needed, though January is a good time to examine ourselves and our schedules, etc.).

Our pastor made a little study booklet to aid in going over this section of Job in the next few weeks, and in it he nails the crux of another problem I have with resolutions: how to reconcile the fact that it is God who is making the changes in us with our efforts or promises or resolutions. That’s something I’ve wrestled with nearly all of my Christian life. It’s God who does the work of change in us, yet He requires our cooperation. He doesn’t run roughshod over our will in salvation or in sanctification. But what is God’s part and what is mine? And why won’t He just make me holy without requiring me to makes choices throughout the day as to whether to yield to the flesh or to the Spirit? If I were Spirit-filled, wouldn’t I just automatically do, feel, think the right things without having to make the conscious effort? Those are the kinds of things I wrestle with and I’m very excited that it looks like we’ll be going over some of those things in the coming weeks at church.

Pastor did bring up Jonathan Edwards’ resolutions, which begin with the statement “Being sensible that I am unable to do anything without God’s help, I do humbly entreat him by his grace to enable me to keep these Resolutions, so far as they are agreeable to his will, for Christ’s sake.” There are key elements there: that our resolutions be agreeable to God’s will, and that we acknowledge that we can’t keep them on our own and need His enabling.

So…I haven’t started making any lists yet, but I’ve been mulling this over and reading with interest several posts and links people have been putting on their blogs and Facebook. Thanks to a couple of you for letting me think through some of this in your comments section. I probably should not have taken up so much space there and should have just waited til this blog post to “think through my fingers.” 🙂

I’ve also seen a number of people choosing a word or theme for the year over the last few years. I had never heard of anyone doing that before, and wasn’t inclined to myself: I knew there would probably be several words to list areas God needed to work on me about. It’s not a practice laid out in Scripture, but there is certainly nothing wrong with it if it done as led by God. I wouldn’t necessarily want others to feel they should do this just because they see others do it and make it the new spiritual fad. But the blog friends I know of who have done this aren’t approaching it faddishly but rather with much thought and prayer.

Even though I hadn’t intentionally sought out or prayed for a word for the coming year, one that keeps coming to mind is intentional. Having good intentions is a different thing from living intentionally: I need to intentionally work those intentions out into everyday life. A former pastor once said that Philippians 2:12b, “work out your own salvation with fear and trembling,” meant first of all not to work for your salvation, but to work it out like a math problem, taking it to its logical conclusions: in other words, take those high and lofty ideals in the Bible, those rock-solid doctrines, and work them out into your everyday lives. I can see many areas in my life, both the spiritual and the practical, where I’ve been floating along for years without making any real progress. Thinking, studying, and meditating on these areas is good and necessary, but they need to translate into action. And maybe that’s where resolutions or goals come in.

Another factor I wrestle with in all this is the time it will take. In a couple of areas in particular, making changes is going to take some planning. And then, too, just the thought of schedules and such to implement some of these things makes me cringe, but that may be my lazy, resistant-to-change flesh.

I am thankful that the next verse in Philippians 2 says, “For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.” I’m seeking His help and guidance both in the willing and the doing.

If you’ve read this far, you deserve a pat on the back, so consider it done. 🙂 Thanks for listening to my ramblings.

If you’re interested, here are some of the other posts that have fueled my thinking about resolutions:

A Resolution on Resolutions. Advocates that resolution-making might better come after Easter than New Year’s Day and that “New Year’s resolutions were meant to be inspired by repentance and redemption; they were never intended to be the path to them.”

A New Year’s Plea: Plan!

Trading One Dramatic Resolution for 10,000 Little Ones

A Different Kind of New Year’s Resolution. “My daily perseverance requires embracing God’s promises, not inventing my own, which I cannot keep. There will come a time for resolutions in the conventional sense, personal goals and the shouldering of responsibility. But the law will bear crops only where grace has fertilized the soil. So, at least for the first month of this new year, my focus will be not on what I plan to do better, but what has been done perfectly for me.” (Note: theologically I’d disagree with a couple of his resolved statements).

Many of these people I have never read before, so please don’t take this as an endorsement of everything on their sites. Most were found through recommended links of people I do know.

In Memory of Susie Dog

On December 21, our pet dog of 14 years quietly passed away. It wasn’t totally unexpected as she had been slowing down, sleeping a lot, and having a harder time moving. She was seriously ill a few months ago and we weren’t sure would make it then. But she pulled through, and when she started having the same symptoms, we tried the same treatment, but it didn’t work this time.

We got Susie (or Suzie — I seemed to go back and forth with how to spell it) in a parking lot of W-Mart in Georgia fourteen summers ago. I haven’t seen this before or since, but a family had puppies in the open trunk of their car with a big sign advertising free puppies. Jason, then almost 10, pleaded, “Can we just go look at them?” Jim and I looked at each other — we knew what would happen if we “just looked.” But we had talked off and on about getting a puppy for the boys and figured this was a good time.

The puppies were half Collie, half German Shepherd. And cute, of course, as puppies are. We chose one, but since we hadn’t planned for a puppy we had to leave her in the car while we dashed in the store for puppy supplies. When we got home, she seemed not quite as playful and energetic as puppies are wont to be, and we began to wonder if something was wrong. We had planned for her to be an outside dog, but we decided to let her in for a while. She walked straight to an air conditioner vent and flopped down on it. (My husband quipped, “She’s just like you!) Poor doggie — even though we hadn’t been in the store long and we had left the windows cracked, it was still hot out in the van. We learned quickly not to do that again.

(Yes, I know that’s a weird color for carpet. In real life it was more of a dark rose, but we still had to think about whether we could live with it before we bought that house.)

First bath — she never did like water!

One of the first days we took her for a walk, she noticed and ran up to another puppy in a yard down the street. We noticed the puppy looked a lot like her, and then noticed the mom was a collie, and the dog next door was a German Shepherd. We put two and two together and realized that this must be her family. How funny that they were right down the street but we didn’t meet them or know about the dogs until the W-Mart parking lot! Thankfully she didn’t fuss when we left them in their yard.

I didn’t get any photos of this, but when we took her for walks then, she would hold part of the leash in her mouth as if to say, “I’ll hold it myself, thank you.” In retrospect it might have been more comfortable for her that way, I don’t know.

As she grew she began to look like a German Shepherd.

From her earliest days she loved to be with the kids on the trampoline.

When Grandma and Grandpa came for a visit:

Building her dog house:

Walking in the woods behind our house:

I’m not sure how old she was when what I called her “mane” began to grow out and she started looking more like a collie, except that her coloring still looked like a German Shepherd. Jeremy said he was glad we had taken pictures through the years or else he would never have believed she looked so different as a puppy.
Suzie the dog

Suzie the dog's bath

Love her woebegone expression there. As I said, she never did like water!

Suzie looking cool

She was afraid of thunderstorms. We’d let her in, and she’d try to hide under the desk. That led to this post once.

Poor Suzie

She was handy to have around to help clean up spills. 🙂

One of our favorite memories was the way she’d anticipate getting breakfast leftovers on Sunday mornings. If we had let her in overnight, she’d be waiting at the bottom of the stairs. We had a barrier up, just a flattened cardboard box to keep her from coming upstairs while we ate, and once she knew we were about to come, she’d start bouncing to see over the cardboard. It was so cute — I wish we had filmed it. I don’t think she did that at any other time. I don’t know if it was the particular smells or sounds or what that told her it was that time of week.

She even helped Mittu not be so afraid of dogs:

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Suzie the dog

Even when the kids weren’t on the trampoline, she loved to sit there and observe her domain. Even when they didn’t use it much any more, we left it up for her. It was kind of sad when she couldn’t get up there any more as she got older.

When we’d pull up in the driveway, she’d jump up and start prancing all around the trampoline, barking away, as if to say, “I’m on the job! I’m watching out for everything!” Actually, she was never much of a watchdog. She would follow anyone who came into the yard,  looking to be petted.

She did have a propensity to wander, so we had to keep her on a line when we didn’t have a fence. But it ran the whole length of the yard, so she wasn’t confined. We did actually lose her once when she somehow got loose right after we moved to SC. Thankfully we found her at the local Humane Society where someone had turned her in. But even when Jim would take her off her line to hang around with him while he worked in the yard, she’d wander off, so she pretty much had to be kept on a line all the time.

She wasn’t the brightest dog. She sort-of learned how to shake hands, sit, lie down, and roll over. But she’d get them mixed up, especially in her excitement if she knew you were going to give her a treat. But she was loving and attentive, a pleasant companion. Whenever anyone would pet her or talk to her, she looked up at them adoringly, very helpful for boys going through adolescence.

She was our only pet except for a hamster before her. And I think a goldfish, won at a fair, that we had for only a brief time.

I don’t think we’re getting another dog, at least not any time soon. Jesse’s about to leave for college next fall, and Jim doesn’t really have time to spend with a dog, and I, honestly, don’t like the icky, smelly part of having pets and don’t seem to have an authoritative enough voice or manner to have them obey me, which in turn causes problems, so I wouldn’t want the primary responsibility of one. I can see Jim maybe having a dog to pal around with when he retires. His family grew up with a dog and a cat all the time (along with sometimes having a calf, chickens, myna birds, and assorted other animals through the years.)

But for now we’ll just enjoy the memories of Susie.

Lucy Maud Montgomery Reading Challenge

L. M. Montgomery Reading ChallengeIt’s time for Carrie‘s annual Lucy Maud Montgomery Reading Challenge! I so enjoyed this last year and the year before! The Anne books in particular are ones I love to read over and over, and this challenge gives me a chance to do that for a month, but helps me to keep it confined to a month — once I start the series I want to go all the way through them, and this helps me pace it out so it doesn’t take over my reading completely.

In previous years I read Anne of Green Gables, Anne of Avonlea, Anne of the Island and Anne of Windy Poplars for this challenge and watched Anne of Green Gables: The Sequel (all links are to my reviews) because it covers three of those books. I also read Looking for Anne of Green Gables: The Story of L. M. Montgomery and Her Literary Classic by Irene Gammel, and found some of it insightful but some of it woefully off-base.

This year I want to continue the Anne series with Anne’s House of Dreams (the one I’ve been most wanting to get to!) and Anne of Ingleside. If those go pretty quickly, I may go on the the last two books, but I am just going to commit to those two for now.

Besides the enjoyment of reading LMM books, it’s also enjoyable to do so with others at the same time and see their thoughts as well. I’m looking forward to a good month with Anne!

The Week in Words

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Welcome to The Week In Words, where we share quotes from the last week’s reading. If something you read this past week  inspired you, caused you to laugh, cry, think, dream, or just resonated with you in some way, please share it with us, attributing it to its source, which can be a book, newspaper, blog, Facebook — anything that you read. More information is here.

Hope you’re having a good new year so far! Is this still a day off for you? It is for us, but tomorrow works begins again for Jim and Jesse starts back to school Wednesday.

A friend posted this on Facebook last week neat the end of the year:

“The year is almost over, and the years of my life are growing few, but time does not change my Lord. New lamps are taking the place of old; perpetual change is on all things, but our Lord is the same. Force overturns the hills, but no conceivable power can affect the eternal God. Nothing in the past, the present, or the future can cause Jehovah to be unkind to me. My soul, rest in the eternal kindness of the Lord, who treats thee as one near of kin. ~ C.H. Spurgeon

Blessed, blessed thoughts.

This was posted by another friend on Facebook:

Good habits are not made on birthdays, nor Christian character at the New Year. The workshop of character is everyday life. The uneventful and commonplace hour is where the battle is lost or won.

She quoted from another friend’s Facebook and hadn’t gotten a reply back yet as to whether the quote was original with her. But it is a good one. Good habits can start with resolutions, but until they get worked down into the “uneventful and commonplace,” they’ll be the kind that fade out by March.

And I saw this one on our youth pastor’s wife’s Twitter. It doesn’t directly mention the new year, but it certainly applies:

Why would you panic at your loss of control when you can rest in the arms of the One who, in righteousness and grace, controls all things? ~ Paul David Tripp

Why? I don’t know, but I do. But I need to remember Who does have everything under control and trust Him.

You can share your family-friendly quotes in the comments below or write a post on your blog and then put the link to that post (not your general blog link) in Mr. Linky below.

I hope you’ll visit the other participants as well and glean some great thoughts to ponder. And don’t forget to leave a comment here, even if you don’t have any quotes to share.

Happy New Year!

Happy first day of 2012! Some years I approach with fear, others with joyful anticipation. This year I really don’t feel either extreme. Only God knows for sure what’s ahead, and I can trust Him with the future.

This year our youngest is scheduled to graduate and then go to college — probably to college away from home, different from the other two boys who commuted. So that joyful time of graduation and then sad time of the youngest leaving will happen within a few months of each other. And past experience tells me the whole year will probably be like that, highs and lows juxtaposed.

I haven’t made New Year’s resolutions in years: it seemed like I should always just keep doing what I am supposed to be doing, no matter the day on the calendar, responding to God’s conviction when it comes rather than waiting for Jan 1. But this post about planning has me thinking about it. And a previous study I did on Biblical resolutions indicates that making some determinations is a good thing to do. A general “I need to do better in this area” doesn’t usually get it. I wonder if my tendency not to make resolutions is a convenient “out,” a way not to deal with problem areas. This example of a young friend put me to shame: I need to improve in many of those areas! There hasn’t been much time for quiet reflection the last couple of weeks, but I am mulling things over.

A verse that I often think of at the beginning of a year is Deuteronomy 11:11-12: But the land, whither ye go to possess it, is a land of hills and valleys, and drinketh water of the rain of heaven: A land which the LORD thy God careth for: the eyes of the LORD thy God are always upon it, from the beginning of the year even unto the end of the year.

I’ve posted this before, but it contains many of my thoughts for the new year:

Another year is dawning
With the chance to start anew.
May I be kinder, wiser, Lord,
In all I say and do.

Not so caught up in selfish gain
That I would fail to see
The things in life that mean the most
Cost not a fancy fee.

The warm, kind word that I can give,
The outstretched hand to help,
The prayers I pray for those in need–
More precious these than wealth.

I know not what may lie ahead
Of laughter or of tears;
I only need to know each day
That You are walking near.

I’m thankful for this brand new year
As now I humbly pray,
My hand secure in Yours, dear Lord,
Each step along the way.

-Author unknown

Blogging Year in Review

I like to look back through my posts of the previous year and highlight some of my favorites for each month.

January:

Packing Up Christmas and Help For “Winter Blues.”

February:

The edge of the road and Where is the grace? and The Dinner Party That Wasn’t.

March:

Coping when husband is away and Controversies and How not to be a grumpy old lady and Finishing well and Building Blocks of Trust in Marriage and Parenting Teens.

April:

Looking Up (a rare attempt at fiction)

May:

We look for the Saviour and Missing something? No, I don’t think so after all and If they only knew...

June:

Why Go To Church? and A day of funny observations and The Ideal House.

July:

How does God deal with evil? and Narnian Magic.

August:

Why Don’t Older Women Serve? and “I know their sorrows” and What do adults “owe” parents?

September:

How Older Women Can Serve and Communication in Marriage.

October:

Do you recognize Him? and Love notes and Can frugality go too far? and Every day is a gift.

November:

Happy Housewife Day!

December:

No condemnation.

I notice that I am woefully inconsistent when it comes to capitalizing blog post titles. 🙂 But I also notice that, though I love talking about books and quotes, and I love the social interaction and recounting of blessings in Friday’s Fave Fives, my favorite posts are those in which I am sharing something God has taught me and/or something I feel will be helpful and useful to others. That’s one reason I cut down on some of the other memes I was involved in at the beginning of the year, though they were fun in themselves.

These are not my top posts of the year as far as number of views: when I first started blogging, I shared a lot of seasonal or holiday-related posts, like quotes, poems, etc., and my post views rocket up around those times as people seek that kind of thing.

I’m so thankful for those of you who read and especially who comment. It’s a great encouragement! I need to do better about answering those comments. But thank you for making the time to read and respond. I’ve found some good friends out here in cyberspace.