Know and Tell Friday

(My Friday Show and Tell post is just below this one)

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To Know Him hosts Know and Tell Friday and asks this week:

Question 1
(In honor of my best fwend today…. she has been so ill 😦 How often do you get real sick?

Not real often: maybe one or two good colds a year.

Question 2
Do you usually send serious or humorous greeting cards? Why?

It just depends — on the occasion, the person, the frame of mind I am in when shopping, and most importantly, what’s available. As I look through the variety of cards I choose whichever one seems to fit the best. However, I do send more humorous cards than I used to. Some of the serious, sentimental ones go way over the top. Plus I think maybe I’ve lightened up a bit over the years. 🙂

Question 3
Are you a person who has a whole lot of acquaintances, or just a few very close friends?

I have both, I think. If you have just a few close friends, everyone else will be an acquaintance. 😀 But all through life I have had just a few close friends rather than a “group.”

Question 4
If you could cure a disease, or heal a sickness, which one would you choose?

That would be hard. Cancer comes to mind first because it is so devastating and pervasive, but many of my relatives struggle with heart disease and my mother battled diabetes. I’m glad I don’t have to make those decisions.

Bonus Questions
Question 5
What does “being spiritual” mean to you?

A couple of verses come to mind: “For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace” (Romans 8:5-6) and “that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter” (Romans 7:6b). To me a spiritual person is one who doesn’t just live by lists of dos and don’ts (though such lists are important) and who doesn’t just go through the motions, but he or she is one who has a loving relationship with the Savior and wants to please Him in everything. But I know in the world sometimes being spiritual is thought to be kind of a nebulous and inexact thing and applied to any “religious” act or feeling, though they would spurn the word “religious.” I look at it this way: if I act towards my husband in love, I am not just experiencing warm but foggy feelings towards him: rather, I seek out what he likes and try prepare the foods and buy the brands he likes, etc. I try to avoid things he doesn’t like, from rutabagas to loudness and chaos in the house. To me it is the same in our relationship with the Lord — we seek out what pleases Him and what doesn’t, we “mind the things of the Spirit,” we serve “in newness of spirit.” It’s not that special feelings aren’t there, but they’re not entirely reliable.

Question 6
Imagine you were talking to someone who did not believe in God and Jesus… How would you explain to them that Jesus is Real (from your experiences in your own life)?

I would be inclined to go more towards things like evidences in nature, fulfilled prophecy, etc., but if I were to speak from my own life, I would point to times of answered prayer, times God gave me something specific that I needed from His Word, or times I definitely saw the Lord intervene — some of those kinds of things I wrote about in a previous post about “God’s thumbprints.”

Show and Tell Friday

Show and Tell Kelli at There’s No Place Like Home hosts “Show and Tell Friday” asking “Do you have a something special to share with us? It could be a trinket from grade school, a piece of jewelry, an antique find. Your show and tell can be old or new. Use your imagination and dig through those old boxes in your closet if you have to! Feel free to share pictures and if there’s a story behind your special something, that’s even better! If you would like to join in, all you have to do is post your “Show and Tell” on your blog, copy the post link, come over here and add it to Mr. Linky. Guidelines are here.“

One of my favorite spaces in our home is just a thin strip of wall.

 Small pictures

The two small pictures I got a few years ago with some Christmas money at Kirkland’s.

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I found this for just a few dollars at a craft fair.

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Nearly every time I pass by this spot and see these little pictures, they make me smile.

I also wanted to mention that I won a prize from Ellen in the Bloggy Giveaway Carnival, and it arrived today! It was so neat to win something from a bloggy friend! It arrived very nicely packaged:

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This is one side:

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And this is the other:

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It goes perfectly with a new dress I bought after Christmas!

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Thanks so much, Ellen! I love it!

How I amused myself today

In Scribbit’s post today she mentioned a YouTube video of the Titanic in 5 seconds. I hadn’t seen Titanic due to objectionable content, but I clicked over — and this cracked me up. Then I found several other 5 minute synopses of films. They remind me a lot of the Book-A-Minute Classics, only dealing with films instead of books.

Here are a few of my favorites:

Braveheart in 5 seconds

Jurassic Park in 5 seconds

The Lion King in 5 seconds

The Return of the King in 5 seconds

Booking Through Thursday: But enough about books

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The Booking Through Thursday question for this week is:

Okay, even I can’t read ALL the time, so I’m guessing that you folks might voluntarily shut the covers from time to time as well… What else do you do with your leisure to pass the time? Walk the dog? Knit? Run marathons? Construct grandfather clocks? Collect eggshells?

Well, obviously I blog. 🙂 I enjoy playing games, especially with real live people, but often I play Boggle or Scrabble against the computer. I enjoy crafting, though I haven’t done much of it in a while: I used to cross-stitch a lot, and now I like paper crafting like making cards and bookmarks. I’d like to experiment with One Stroke Painting: I’ve taken a couple of classes and have a couple of videos but just haven’t carved out the time to do it. I also like home decorating, finding heart-shaped things, attending church-related functions, writing, watching a little TV, and visiting with friends and family.

I missed out on last week’s question about quirky characters. Dickens wrote some of the quirkiest: Mr. Micawber, Uriah Heep, and Betsey Trotwood, all from David Copperfield, easily come to mind. They were all annoying to some degree, but Micawber and Aunt Betsey grew on me. I was thinking when I saw this question that in TV the eccentric character often steals the show (Fonzie, Steve Urkel), but I can’t think of an incidence of that in books.

The Haven of Rest

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(Photo courtesy of the stock.xchng.)

Then they cry unto the LORD in their trouble, and he bringeth them out of their distresses. He maketh the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are still. Then are they glad because they be quiet; so he bringeth them unto their desired haven. Psalm 107:28-20.


The Haven of Rest

By Henry Gilmour

My soul in sad exile was out on life’s sea,
So burdened with sin and distressed,
Till I heard a sweet voice, saying,
“Make Me your choice”;
And I entered the “Haven of Rest”!

Refrain

I’ve anchored my soul in the “Haven of Rest,”
I’ll sail the wide seas no more;
The tempest may sweep over wild, stormy, deep,
In Jesus I’m safe evermore.

I yielded myself to His tender embrace,
In faith taking hold of the Word,
My fetters fell off, and I anchored my soul;
The “Haven of Rest” is my Lord.

Refrain

The song of my soul, since the Lord made me whole,
Has been the old story so blest,
Of Jesus, who’ll save whosoever will have
A home in the “Haven of Rest.”

Refrain

How precious the thought that we all may recline,
Like John, the belovèd so blest,
On Jesus’ strong arm, where no tempest can harm,
Secure in the “Haven of Rest.”

Refrain

O come to the Savior, He patiently waits
To save by His power divine;
Come, anchor your soul in the “Haven of Rest,”
And say, “My Belovèd is mine.”

Refrain

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matthew 11:28-30.

 

Works-For-Me Wednesday: Online shopping edition

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The first WFMW of the month is often a themed one, and this time Shannon has asked for our favorite online shops.

I love online shopping! I probably did at least half of my Christmas shopping online.

Probably everyone knows about Amazon.com. I buy a lot of books and DVDs there, and I’ve rejoiced to find used out-of-print books there, too. But I have also bought a tent and toys and I don’t know what all else.

I buy many Christian books at my local Christian bookstore — I do want to support the local economy — but what I can’t find there I look for at Christianbook.com. I’ve also bought some nice plaques there.

If you love crafts, the place to go is Etsy, where individual crafters sell their handmade items in a wide variety of categories.

I buy most of my clothes online through Woman Within (formerly the Lane Bryant catalog), Roaman’s, Just My Size, and Jessica London (all of those are plus-size stores) as well as Blair and Bedford Fair. I also occasionally buy clothes at Coldwater Creek and Silhouettes, but generally they are beyond what I like to spend. Many department stores also have online shops.

Here is a listing of other frequented places:

Current: stationery, gifts.

Oriental Trading Company: Birthday party items, also good for classrooms and VBS.

ThinkGeek: all sorts of nerdy t-shirts and gadgets like USB “toys” (like this rocket launcher).

Fabric.com: I found the Waverly fabric I wanted for my family room curtains for less, plus I found the perfect shade, which local stores didn’t carry. For many, if not all, of their fabrics, you can order a swatch first to see how you like it.

Terry’s Village: cute home decor stuff.

Lillian Vernon: I’ve bought storage-related things that that I couldn’t find locally, but they have gift items, home decor, toys, personalized items, and a number of other things.

Domestications: sheets, bedspreads and comforters, table linens.

Nanalulu’s Linen Closet: Beautiful tables linens and handkerchiefs.

Graphics for my blog or ladies’ ministry newsletter: CLM Graphics and Graphic Garden (both of these sites do have a few free graphic downloads as well).

That’s all I can think of for the moment! I did want to add, though, that many of these stores can be reached through Igive.com, which is an organization that coordinates charitable giving with shopping: a portion of each sale goes to the charity of your choice. I try to remember to start any online shopping there (they have an a-z listing of the stores who work with them as well as a “mall” where you can peruse by the type of shop you are looking for). If you don’t have a charity of choice that you support, may I suggest the Transverse Myelitis Association.

Check our more of the best of online shopping at Rocks In My Dryer.

Time Travel Tuesday: Answered prayer edition

timetraveltuesday.gifMy Life as Annie’s weekly Time Travel Tuesday asks this week:

Today we are traveling back to a time that a prayer was answered. I have had so many prayers answered and usually in a way that is totally unpredictable and not exactly how I imagined, but BETTER! So, let’s pick one and travel back to that prayer and tell about how God worked it out or answered it for you.

It was hard to narrow this down to just one! But I think the Lord would have me share this one.

I told this story in more detail here, but to condense it a little, my family is mostly unsaved. I became a Christian when I was about 17, and since then, of course, my major concern has been my family’s salvation, though verbal witnessing has been my major failing. I have prayed and I have written to family members about salvation many times, but speaking to them about it is very hard. To me the hardest one of all — both the hardest to speak to and the hardest to the gospel — was my dad. He was an alcoholic, not the most reasonable of men, and had a very bad, very short temper. My mom’s watchword was “Stay out of his way,” so staying “under the radar,” especially if he was in a bad mood, became second nature.

My parents divorced when I was 15 and my mom took the five of us kids and moved several hours away from my dad to Houston. A few years later he moved up to Houston, but an hour away on the other side. It wasn’t long after I was saved that I went to college in South Carolina. When I wrote to my dad, sometimes I wrote out the full plan of salvation, sometimes I just wrote out a salvation verse at the end of my letter, but he never commented on any of it. I figured he just ignored or skimmed over that part.

To fast forward several years, after my husband and I were married and had my oldest two boys, my dad came to SC to visit for the first time. We asked him if he would attend church with us, and at first he said no, but later he agreed to. Then he got sick. He had just gotten out of the hospital with pneumonia not long before he came, and we figured he was just doing to much too soon. We had pinned all our hopes for his salvation on his attending that service and we were greatly disappointed when he couldn’t attend that Sunday: we couldn’t understand why the Lord would allow him to be sick after he agreed to come.

The following Monday he was considerably worse, and we took him to our doctor, who sent him by ambulance to ICU with some kind of deep-seated infection. I think it was the second or third night he was in the hospital that he almost died. When they let us in to see him, he said, “When I get home, me and the Lord and Pastor Hodges (my former pastor in Texas) are going to have to have a long talk.” He had never said anything like that before, never indicated any interest. We asked him if he would like for our pastor here to visit him, and he said yes.

So our pastor came to see him for a few minutes at a time as much as ICU would allow for several days. The first night after my dad was moved to a private room, when we came in to see him, he told us he had accepted the Lord that day when Pastor Minnick came to see him. We were bowled over!

Pastor Minnick told me later that my dad had told him that he used to read the verses I wrote about salvation. I was amazed and so thankful that the Lord worked through those, and I want to encourage those of you with lost loved ones that often the Lord is working in someone’s heart through His Word even when we can’t see any outward signs of it. Keep praying; keep sharing!

To quote from my previous post:

To share with you “the rest of the story” — my dad ended up being in SC for six weeks instead of one. When he went home, I excitedly thought this would be the catalyst to reach the rest of my family. Unfortunately, it didn’t happen that way. Though there were small, discernible changes, there was no big, dramatic, obvious change. My pastor here said that when someone has lived “on the other side” for so many years (Dad was 61 at this point), sometimes the changes take place more slowly. Plus he wasn’t in church being taught and being around other believers, so I am sure that hindered his spiritual growth. He did, however, love to read, and would devour Christian books I sent him. I remember one phone call when we discussed one of the books I had sent about Soviet Christians who had been imprisoned for their faith, marveling at all they had gone through and God’s grace in sustaining them. When I got off the phone, I just sat for a moment, marveling that I had just had a conversation with my father about the Lord.

He passed away at the age of 67 and I have no doubt he is with the Lord now.

Odds and Ends…

My leg is doing better — I think we’ve turned a corner.

Super what? Am I the only person in the country totally uninterested in football? I’ve never understood it, but I have never wanted to. It doesn’t make sense to me that big burly guys are paid mega-bucks to knock down other guys, take their ball, and run away with it — when I would punish my pre-schooler for doing that. 😛

Free lovelies. I have been a fan of Karla Dornacher since I first saw her work. She has some free downloads at her blog for Girlfriend Gatherings: candy wrapper, place cards, name tags, a devotional. etc. They are available through the month of February. She also has free stationery downloads and coloring book pages at her website.

Awards. Some sweet blog friends have been very generous to me with awards recently. I’m embarrassed it has taken me so long to acknowledge some of them! My apologies!

Carolyn at Talk…to…Grams is a sweetheart whose blog name just fits: she seems like the type of person I could easily have a chat with over a cup of coffee. She passed on to me the Spread the Love award:

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Cindy at Kaleidoscope has passed on to me the Excellent Award:

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I’ll pass this on to:

Barb at A Chelsea Morning.
Elle at A Complete Thought.
Lizzie at A Dusty Frame.
Laurel at Laurel Wreath’s Reflections.
Kelli at There is no place like home.
Dawn at 4:53 am.
Sentiments by Denise.
Anita at My Country Cottage Garden.

Bloggy friend Jen has passed on to me the Spreader of Love award and the Forever Friends award:

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I’ll pass this to:

Alice at Hello, My Name is Alice.
Barb at A Chelsea Morning.
Diane at Tomato Soup Cake.

And the:

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I will pass this to:

Hello, My Name is Alice
Mama Bear at Bear In Exile.
Susan at ByGrace.
Barb at A Chelsea Morning.
Bet at Dappled Things.
Jewel at Down In My Little Valley.
Ann at From Sinking Sand.
Rita at The Jungle Hut.
Laurel at Laurel Wreath’s Reflections.
Kim at Life in the 10/40 Window.
Susanne at Living to tell the Story.
Jen at My 3 boys and I.
Carolyn at Talk…to…Grams!.
Diane at Tomato Soup Cake.
Janeen at Our Story.

And Bloggy friend Alice has given me the You Cheer Me Up award:

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I’ll pass this one on to:

Melli at Insanity Prevails.
Linda at 2nd cup of coffee.
Carolyn at Talk…to…Grams!.
Kelli at There is no place like home.
Diane at Tomato Soup Cake.
Dawn at 4:53 am.
Anita at My Country Cottage Garden.

Thanks so much to each of you! I am always honored when anyone thinks of me in this way. The hardest part is passing them on because I could literally pass each one on to all of you! But I tried to narrow it down a bit.

Hope you all have a good Monday!

Catching up

It’s funny, I felt like I had been away from my blog for several days — I was surprised to see it had only been since Thursday! I did miss out on a couple of my favorite weekly memes.

I had our ladies’ ministry newsletter due out this week plus our church has had revival meetings all week. The special meetings were great, but the combination of a busy week and being out several nights in a row left me feeling like I could sleep for a week. I just feel really tired today. Sleeping in til 8 felt like pure luxury.

The cellulitis I mentioned earlier is still there. Sometimes it looks better; sometimes it looks worse, so I am not really sure how it is doing. The doctor told me to keep my leg elevated, which has been a little hard to do with everything else going on. She didn’t say to go on bedrest, so I haven’t been sure just how much I needed to keep it up. I brought a chair next to the computer to prop it up in, but because of the angles of everything it just isn’t comfortable for very long.

So, to try to get this thing in hand I plan to pretty much take today “off” and keep my leg propped up. I have some laundry to do, but that’s about it. My dear, kind husband took care of the dishes and is making a grocery store run for me, and we’re planning on take-out pizza tonight. Thankfully last weekend I went on a cleaning frenzy, so things are in fair shape in that department. I am heading off to the couch with a book and the TV remote. Sounds like a lovely way to spend a Saturday!

I wanted to mention also that the little baby girl I asked you to pray for is doing really well, though she had some major scares along the way. She’s off the ECMO machine and ventilator and is getting some oxygen through a nasal cannula though her lungs still aren’t at full capacity yet. I think the next big hurdle is eating: she’s been fed through a tube so far while they worked on the breathing situation, so they will start trying regular feeding some time soon to see if she can learn how to suck. She’s still in the hospital but was moved to one closer to home, which is a tremendous help to the family.

Thanks to those who prayed for her! If you feel led, please continue to pray for her progress — and for healing for my leg. 🙂

A winner!

I used the Random.Org Integer Generator to determine the winner of my Bloggy Carnival Giveaway of the book The Greatest Love Stories Ever Told. The number that came up was 41:

 Jennifer of On the Path to Glory.

Congratulations, Jennifer! I’ll be contacting you in just a moment to find out where to send the book. I hope you have some quiet moments to curl up with it.

Thanks to all who participated!