Saturday Photo Scavenger Hunt: Broken

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I’ve used this picture once before for a Wordless Wednesday, but it was the first one I thought of for today’s theme because it fit so well.

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My son and a friend had been playing with a bouncy ball in the living room (ahem!!) The ball didn’t hit Papa Bear, but it fell on the floor under the shelf. When my son’s friend retrieved it, he somehow accidentally ran into Papa Bear, and the bear’s leg broke off.

You might be able to see other scars of the poor bear family. Something about hanging their legs over the side like that causes them to get accidentally bumped into and knocked off, even though I have put them into a corner where there is no traffic — except for retrieving stray bouncy balls and dusting. Some time ago my husband ago my husband attached them to the shelf (with sticky tac, I think), so they don’t fall off any more. But they do still get bumped into.

Christian quotes about love

(Friday’s Feast post is below this one.)

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The springs of love are in God, not in us. It is absurd to look for the love of God in our hearts naturally; it is only there when it has been shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.

— Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest, April 30

The labor of self-love is a heavy one indeed. Think whether much of your sorrow has not arisen from someone speaking slightingly of you. As long as you set yourself up as a little god to which you must be loyal, how can you hope to find inward peace?
– A.W. Tozer

How many of you will join me in reading this chapter (I Corinthians 13) once a week for the next three months? A man did that once and it changed his whole life. Will you do it? It is for the greatest thing in the world. You might begin by reading it every day, especially the verses which describe the perfect character. “Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself.” Get these ingredients into your life. Then everything that you do is eternal. It is worth doing. It is worth giving time to. No man can become a saint in his sleep; and to fulfill the condition required demands a certain amount of prayer and meditation and time, just as improvement in any direction, bodily or mental, requites preparation and care. Address yourselves to that one thing; at any cost have this transcendent character exchanged for yours.
—Henry Drummond, The Greatest Thing in the World

To love those whom we do not like means that we treat them as if we did like them — to choose to act kindly toward them even though we do not like them….The Bible does not ask us to like the brethren, it asks us to love them, and that means, therefore, something like this: we may not like certain Christians. I mean by that, there is none of this instinctive, elemental attraction; they are not the people whom we naturally like; yet what we are told is that to love them means that we treat them exactly as if we did like them. Now, the men and women of the world do not do that; if they do not like people, they treat them accordingly and have nothing to do with them. But Christian love means that we look beyond that. We see the Christian in them, the brother or sister, and we even go beyond what we do not like, and we help that person. Love your brethren — that is the exhortation with which we are concerned.
— Martyn Lloyd-Jones on I John 3:16-18 in his book Children of God

True love ennobles and dignifies the material labors of life; and homely services rendered for love’s sake have in them a poetry that is immortal.
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe

Let the wife make the husband glad to come home.
Let the husband make the wide sorry to see him leave.
— Martin Luther

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Thursday Thirteen #22: Valentine’s jokes

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Some of these are really corny; some are cute. 🙂 There are more than 13, so you get a free bonus today. 🙂

What did one light bulb say to the other?
“I love you a whole watt!”

What did the caveman give his wife on Valentine’s Day?
Ughs and kisses!

What did the paper clip say to the magnet?
“I find you very attractive.”

What is a ram’s favorite song?
I only have eyes for ewe, dear.

What would you get if you crossed a dog with a valentine card?
A card that says, “I love you drool-ly!”

What did the painter say to her boyfriend?
“I love you with all my art!”

What did the man with the broken leg say to his nurse?
“I’ve got a crutch on you!”

Did you hear about the romance in the tropical fish tank?
It was a case of guppy love.

Why do valentines have hearts on them?
Because spleens would look pretty gross!

What did one piece of string say to the other?
“Be my valentwine!”

What did one fir tree say to the other?
“Be my valenpine!”

What did one bell say to the other?
“Be my valenchime!”

What did the boy pig say to the girl pig?
Be my Valenswine!

What did Frankenstein say to his girlfriend?
Be me Valenstein!

What happened when the monster kissed his one true love?
He left lip prints on the mirror!

What did the French chef give his wife for Valentine’s Day?
A hug and a quiche!

What did the pencil say to the paper?
“I dot my i’s on you!”

What did one pickle say to the other?
“You mean a great dill to me.”

What did the bat say to his girlfriend?
“You’re fun to hang around with.”

Did you hear about the nearsighted porcupine?
He fell in love with a pincushion!

What did one oar say to the other?
“Can I interest you in a little row-mance?”

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: “Love, Sweet Love’

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Today’s edition of “Works For Me Wednesday,” hostessed by Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer, is a themed one on the subject of love in honor of Valentine’s Day. We’re asked to contribute relationship advice, romantic tips, Valentine’s ideas, etc. So I present you with various odds and ends. 🙂

One piece of advice: I mentioned this several days ago, but something Elisabeth Elliot wrote spoke to me:

Many women have told me that my husband’s advice, which I once quoted in a book, has been an eye-opener to them. He said that a wife, if she is very generous, may allow that her husband lives up to perhaps eighty percent of her expectations. There is always the other twenty percent that she would like to change, and she may chip away at it for the whole of their married life without reducing it by very much. She may, on the other hand, simply decide to enjoy the eighty percent, and both of them will be happy.

So often we can get hung up on the few little things that bother us rather than putting it into perspective.

Traditions: The only thing I do every Valentine’s Day is make heart-shaped cupcakes using some heart-shaped muffins pans. One year I made a big Valentine sign for the family using candy bars for various words. I forget where I had first seen the idea. I went to the store to get candy bars first, so I could see what was available and make up sentences using those words, then made up the sign writing out my “greeting” and replacing the key words with candy bars. Another year I made a little clue-finding expedition, cutting out a heart and putting a series of clues on the two halves which led to some prize, I forget what now. The kids really loved that and asked for it for the next couple of years, but I had exhausted my clue-making abailities. That was harder than I thought! I try to make a nice dinner that night — not all-out like Thanksgiving, but not hot dogs or fish sticks, either. I also usually buy or make cards for everyone. When the kids were little we made cards with them for each other, and I loved that — those are some of my treasures.

Resource: Family Fun magazine and its web site are wonderful resources for neat, fun, and simple holidays ideas (crafts, foods, ways to celebrate). It’s Disney-owned, so there are a lot of ads for Disney stuff, and I wouldn’t agree with every philosophy or product they recommend, but the holiday and party ideas are great.

Book: There are many great books on marriage, but I think my all-time favorite is The Ministry of Marriage by Jim Binney. It reall emphasizes that aspect, that marriage is a minstry to the other person.

Funnies: This is something from my files I thought you might enjoy. I received it in an e-mail years ago, author unknown:

Pearls of wisdom from Grandpa on having a long, happy marriage…

Whether a man winds up with the nest egg or a goose egg depends a lot on the kind of chick he marries.

Many girls like to marry a military man – he can cook, sew, make beds and is in good health, and most importantly he’s already used to taking orders.

Too many couples marry for better or for worse, but not for good.

When a man marries a woman, they become one. The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

Trouble in marriage also often starts when a man gets so busy earning his salt that he forgets his sugar.

If a man has enough “horse sense” to treat his wife like a thoroughbred, she will never be an old nag.

On anniversaries a wise husband always forgets the past, but never the present.

As I did for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Day, over the next few days I want to post some quotes, jokes, and such for Valentines’s Day.

In related news, as most probably already know, Shalee is sponsoring a “50 Cheap Dates” event where folks can link to their ideas for fun and inexpensive things to do for two. 🙂 I don’t have anything to share for that one, at least not that I can think of yet. I tend to be a homebody, and most things that we do involve the whole family. But we probably should do some of that kind of thing — I’ll be looking forward to gleaning some ideas from there and from this week’s Works-For-Me Wednesday. 🙂

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Hidden Treasures blog awards

Everyday Mommy is hosting the First Annual Hidden Treasure Blog Awards. She writes:

The idea is simple; to recognize blog authors of excellence, with deserving posts which may go unnoticed.

All of us have our favorite blogs, the ones we read faithfully. They are dear friends, like a comfortable pair of shoes, perfectly broken in. But, we can also find ourselves in a rut, reading the same blogs week after week, and overlooking those hidden gems which may require a little more digging. But, as my mom taught me, anything worth having is worth working for.

The categories in which we can nominate posts are: Children & Family, Faith, Marriage, Motherhood, Homemaking, Humor, Current Events and Life.

More details about this are here. Nominations continue through Feb. 7; voting begins Feb. 8. Information about how to nominate is here.

I hope you will help bring some of your favorite, off-the-beaten path bloggers’ posts to light. I haven’t quite decided on my nominations yet — I know at least one of them but I am still pondering the rest.

Questions vs. accusations

We had one of our missionaries speaking at church last night. In the course of his message he referred to God’s asking Adam in the garden of Eden, after he had partaken of the forbidden fruit, where he was hiding and what he had done. God, of course, knew the answer. But He asked Adam the questions all the same. The speaker said one reason for that is because “Questions stir the conscience, but accusation hardens the will.”

That’s one of those things I wish I had known when my kids were younger.

Satan’s goal

You know how you can read a particular Bible passage for years, be blessed by it, get much from it, and then someone asks a question or brings an insight that you did sort of know on one level, but the way they put it opens up whole new vistas for you?

That happened yesterday in Sunday School. The overall topic was afflictions, and the teacher mentioned a few verses in Scripture that spoke of afflictions, reasons for them, etc. Then we spent most of the class period on Job. After reviewing a little bit about Job’s situation, and the discussion between Satan and God in Job 1 and 2, our teacher asked, “What was Satan’s goal in afflicting Job?” He wanted Job to curse God.

I knew that — but putting it like that made me think — when we are going through any kind of trial, do we think about this aspect of things? So often we just want relief, we want out. That’s normal — Job did, too. We don’t have any record that he had any idea of this conversation behind the scenes. But we have it — and we can seek God’s grace not only to get through any trial, but to uphold God’s honor.

“Blast From the Past”

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I saw this at Barb’s and Laurel Wreath’s and a few other places and thought it looked like fun.

The instructions are:

This is a NEW meme to help get to know your bloggin’ buds!!!

Here is how it works….

Here is a list of categories add the titles and links to previous posts that you feel fit these descriptions… and tell why if yah wanna!

 

Funny:

Miscommunication

Serious:

Hard to decide on just one here, so I’ll say Blessed Assurance and Encouragement for mothers of young children.

Ugly:

One thing I don’t like about getting older…

All About Me:

Famous in our own lunchtimes

I tend to tag the same people and don’t want them to feel like I am “bugging” them. 🙂 I don’t know who likes or doesn’t like being tagged. So I will leave it to you: if you’d like to do this, leave a comment and I’ll come see your blast from the past. 🙂

Psalm Sunday: Psalm 5

1 Give ear to my words, O LORD, consider my meditation.

2 Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray.

3 My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.

4 For thou art not a God that hath pleasure in wickedness: neither shall evil dwell with thee.

5 The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity.

6 Thou shalt destroy them that speak leasing: the LORD will abhor the bloody and deceitful man.

7 But as for me, I will come into thy house in the multitude of thy mercy: and in thy fear will I worship toward thy holy temple.

8 Lead me, O LORD, in thy righteousness because of mine enemies; make thy way straight before my face.

9 For there is no faithfulness in their mouth; their inward part is very wickedness; their throat is an open sepulchre; they flatter with their tongue.

10 Destroy thou them, O God; let them fall by their own counsels; cast them out in the multitude of their transgressions; for they have rebelled against thee.

11 But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee.

12 For thou, LORD, wilt bless the righteous; with favour wilt thou compass him as with a shield.

In verses 1-3, David cries out to the Lord to hear his prayer.

Verse 4 is one reason David has confidence that God will hear and answer: God does not take pleasure in wickedness, so David has confidence that the wickedness of his enemies will not prevail. We have that hope and expectation as well: ultimately evil will be taken care of and all will be set right. “The wrong shall fail, the right prevail,” as one song says. God’s timetable is not the same as ours: Israel had 10 wait 400 years for deliverance out of Egypt; some people in Hebrews 11 died without having seen the promises to them fulfilled. But quite often God does give us the victory, or at least a glimmer of it, in a shorter time. Verses 5-6 continue describing the wicked and what God hates about their activities.

In verse 7, David contrasts himself with the wicked he has just been talking about, not with a cocky self-righteousness, but with reverence and trust on God’s mercy. A true understanding of God’s mercy will lead to reverence, godly fear and humility as well as confidence in Him. That mercy is available to the wicked, too, if they would but humble themselves before Him.

In verse 8 David asks the Lord to lead him in His righteousness — again, nothing cocky or self-righteous there, but an utter trust in God’s righteousness. “Make Thy way straight before my face.” How often I need to pray that, that I might clearly know His way and what direction to take.

In verse 9 he goes back to describing the wicked from whom he needs deliverance, and in verse 10 calls for their destruction. In a sense that is a difficult passage because as New Testament believers we have been taught to love our enemies, pray for them that despitefully use us and persecute us, etc. (Matthew 5:43-45.) One way to reconcile those two thoughts is to remember that David had not had that instruction yet. There is a sense in which more and more is revealed of God’s will through history. For instance, there is instruction in later books of the Bible about having more than one wife which Jacob did not have, instructions about not marrying a relative which Abraham did not have. In our own lives, God does not deal with everything all at once (and that is such a good thing — think how overwhelming that would be!) — when we’ve been saved 20 years we might be convicted about things that we weren’t at first. For instance, when I was first saved the Lord dealt with me about lying. Years later that was refined beyond just outright lies to conviction about not being manipulative with facts, not telling about a situation in such a way as to favor my actions. And I think that’s true historically. We have so much more of God’s Word today that the patriarchs did — and to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48).

On the other hand, though, I do remember around the time of Desert Storm praying that Sadam Hussein would either come to the Lord, or, if God knew that he never would, that God would take him out of the way. If I had lived in Hitler’s time I probably would have prayed the same way about him, and I probably should pray the same way about bin Laden.

“Let them fall by their own counsels.” That’s one way enemies can be defeated! That reminds me of David’s prayer in II Samuel 15: 31: “And David said, ‘O LORD, I pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness.'” (I don’t know if this Psalm is talking about that same situation or not. I might try to look that up later.) If you read II Samuel 15 and the next couple of chapters, that’s exactly what happened. It’s a great story!

In verses 11 and 12 David again contrasts the righteous with the wicked and rejoices that he can trust in God’s defense.

It struck me in going through this Psalm that David expresses confidence in God’s mercy (v. 7), His righteousness (v. 8), and His defense (v. 11). And we can have confidence in Him as well!

You can read more meditations on this Psalm or share your own at Butterfly Kisses. It’s interesting each week to see what each different lady got out of the Scripture.