Homemaking Meme

Sallie at A Gracious Home made up a Homemaking meme that looks like fun.

Aprons – Y/N? If Y, what does your favorite look like?
No — I just don’t usually bother. But that is one reason I love wearing denim jumpers — hardly anything shows!

Baking – Favorite thing to bake?
Cookies.

Clothesline – Y/N?
No, though a retractable one like Sallie mentioned would be good for line-dry items or those times the power is out. We had one in our first home. The South is a buggy place, and too often I would end up bringing little critters in, plus the clothes would be stiff, whereas the dryer made them soft and I usually wouldn’t need to iron them. Plus I like being able to wash and dry whenever and not have to plan around daylight or weather.

Donuts – Have you ever made them?
Not totally from scratch. I made some once that were small and round without holes, and made some using canned biscuits. But I’ve never made yeast donuts.

Every day – One homemaking thing you do every day
The dishes, with occasional exceptions.

Freezer – Do you have a separate deep freeze?
No. There is no room for one anywhere in our house.

Garbage Disposal – Y/N?
No. I don’t really want one — I was always afraid of one of us accidentally getting fingers caught in there.

Handbook – What is your favorite homemaking resource?
The Internet. I have, though, just started Queen of the Castle: 52 Weeks of Encouragement for the Uninspired, Domestically Challenged or Just Plain Tired Homemaker by Lynn Bowen Walker and it looks good. I’ve read The Messies Manual by Sandra Felton and looked at their web site, and I have gotten a lot out of Confessions of an Organized Homemaker by Deniece Schofield. But I like to glean what works for me from the books I read and not be tied down to one person’s “system.” For instance, Sandra Felton strongly recommends, almost insists on wearing shoes when you are housecleaning so that mentally you know you’re getting down to business and are not tempted to get distracted. Well, I’m sorry, I was raised barefoot and never got over it. 🙂 I rarely wear shoes unless I am going outside the house, and shoes have no bearing at all on how down-to-business I am when I clean.

Ironing – Love it or hate it? Or hate it but love the results?
I don’t mind it once I get started, but I hate to think about doing it. If I hang things up straight out of the dryer, there are only a handful of things that need ironing.

Junk drawer – Y/N? Where is it?
In what we call the “dry sink” in the kitchen.

Kitchen – Color and decorating scheme
The lower part of the wallpaper is pink and white stripes and the upper part is a white background with pink roses and some small blue flowers, and a border with pink roses and blue edging connects them. The floors are a just-off-whiet linoleum with blue and pink lines. The kitchen sink and counters are blue (but they clash with each other, which drives me buggy if I think about it). The cabinets are a natural wood color.

Love – What is your favorite part of homemaking?
This might sound redundant. but being able to be home.

Mop – Y/N?
I use one of those Swiffer wet things, but it needs a more thorough scrubbing right now.

Nylons – Wash by hand or in the washing machine?
I only wear knee-his and put them in a lingerie bag in the washer.

Oven – Do you use the window or open the oven to check?
Have to open the door as our light doesn’t work.

Pizza – What do you put on yours?
Pepperoni and sausage.

Quiet – What do you do during the day when you get a quiet moment?
Check my e-mail or Bloglines or a couple of online forums.

Recipe card box – Y/N? What does it look like?
No. I made a scrapbook-type notebook for recipes.

Style of house – What style is your house?
Kind of a nondescript split level, about 35 years old, beige with brown trim. I’d love to change the colors, but that’s out of my hands. 🙂

Tablecloths and napkins – Y/N?
Only on special occasions.

Under the kitchen sink – Organized or toxic wasteland?
Sort of organized. It needs to be cleaned out. But I have a place for things and know where to find them.

Vacuum – How many times per week?
My kids do most of the vacuuming, and my desire would be to have it done once a week. But since they are only home on Saturdays and sometimes there are other things going on then, it’s more like every 2, sometimes 3 weeks. Our family room needs and gets it the most — that’s where everyone tracks in leaves or drops crumbs of food.

Wash – How many loads of laundry do you do per week?
Never counted it up before, but it is at least 8-10. I’ll have to make a note of that this week! I try to keep it within two separate days, but sometimes it spills over into more than that.

X’s – Do you keep a daily list of things to do that you cross off?
Only on my most busy days. Many days I do have something of a mental list.

Yard – Y/N? Who does what?
My husband and sons do most of that. I’d like to do something with the flower beds but can’t physically.

Zzz’s – What is your last homemaking task for the day before going to bed?
Most days it is cleaning up the kitchen, though occasionally most often Wed. nights after prayer meeting) will leave them til morning.

If you would like to participate or read others’ answers, go here.

Thursday Thirteen #21: Favorite songs from musicals

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1. “Bring Him Home” from Les Miserables

2. “All I Ask of You” from Phantom of the Opera

3. “There’s a Time For Us” from West Side Story

4. “Where Is Love?” from Oliver!

5. “If I Loved You” from Carousel

6. “Til There Was You” from The Music Man

7. “Goodnight My Someone” from The Music Man

8. “How to Handle a Woman” from Camelot

9. “If Ever I Would Leave You” from Camelot

10. “I’ve Grown Accustomed To Her Face” from My Fair Lady

11. “Singin’ In the Rain”

12. “Do You Love Me?” from Fiddler on the Roof

13. “Who Am I?” from Les Miserables

Connect to other Thursday Thirteeners here.

Scattergories meme

Saw this at Sugarfused.net and thought it looked like fun!

Rules: Use the 1st letter of your name to answer each of the following…They must be REAL places, names, things…NOTHING made up! If you can’t think of anything, skip it. Try to use different answers if the person in front of you had the same 1st initial. You CAN’T use your name for the boy/girl name question.

Your name: Barbara

1. Famous Athlete: Barry Bonds (do I get extra points for having both names start with B? 😀 )
2. 4 letter word: Busy
3. Street name: Boardwalk
4. Color: Blue
5. Gifts/presents: Boyd’s Bears, Books
6. Vehicles: Barracuda
7. Tropical Locations: Bahamas
8. College Majors: Bible, Broadcasting, Biology
9. Dairy Products: Blue Bell Ice Cream
10. Things in a Souvenir Shop: Baseball cap
11. Boy Name: Ben
12. Girl Name: Brenda (People often get my name mixed up with Brenda)
13. Movie Titles: The Birds
14. Alcohol: None for me, thanks
15. Occupations: Beautician
16. Flowers: Blue bonnets
17. Celebrities: Bill Cosby
18. Magazines: Business Week
19. U.S. Cities: Baltimore, Beaumont
20. Pro Sports Teams: Braves
21. Something Found in a kitchen: Bowls
22. Reason for Being Late: Blew a tire
23. Something You Throw Away: Banana peels
24. Things You Shout: Be quiet! (Not really. But I have thought it. 😀 )
25. Cartoon Character: Bugs Bunny

Tag – you’re it! Let me know in the comments if you do this and I’ll come read your answers. 🙂

Works-For-Me Wednesday: Conveying expectations to children

wfmwheader_4.jpgWhen my children were little, sometimes in public places they would exhibit behavior that was hard (not impossible, but hard) to correct once it was in motion. For instance, at the grocery store one would ask for candy and a drink and a toy. Or visiting an elderly neighbor, my child would want to wander off and play in other rooms when I wanted him to stay where I could see him, or mess with things he was not supposed to, or ask for candy from the candy dish, etc. One day at the grocery store it occurred to me to tell him before we ever got out of the car what he could have in the way of a treat (sometimes we would get a drink if it was a hot day, or a piece of candy at the register, or whatever). Then if he asked for something in addition once we got in the store, I would say, “No, remember, we’re just getting this today. Maybe next time we can get that.” When we went to visit the neighbor, before we ever left our house, I would say (in a matter-of-fact way, not a harsh or scolding way) that we were going to visit Mrs. B., and he could not ask for a piece of candy, though he could have one if she offered it, and he had to stay in the room where I was and not touch the things Mrs. B. had on her end tables (side hint: in situations like that it also helps to bring a little toy or book or something that the child can play with). Mrs. B., by the way, always seemed to love our visits and never seemed to mind if my son handled anything in her house, but I wanted to teach him not to do that.

It seemed that often just by letting him know ahead of time what he could expect, a lot of inappropriate behavior was avoided. In fact, as I remember these things I am picturing my oldest, so possibly by the time the others came along this was already ingrained in my child-rearing habits. I am sure it was not fool-proof, and there were probably infractions, but it did seem to help immensely.

We discovered another variation of this when he was older. The local Christian college was putting on a production that might be of special interest to children and invited upper elementary children at our Christian school to come to the final dress rehearsal. This gave the cast a chance to rehearse before a live audience (maybe even gave them a chance to know what the reaction might be) and gave the kids a treat. Before the production started, the man in charge (Dr. Gustafson, for those who know him) came out and told the children a little bit about it and explained how they needed to behave, again, in a kind but matter-of-fact tone. In the course of that he said something about “putting on our best concert manners.” That stuck with me when we went to other performances, and I was able to tell my children, “Remember the man who spoke to us about concert manners? We need to put on our best concert manners when we go to this program.” That was very helpful as well.

Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer began and hosts Works For Me Wednesday, and you can find more tips or share some of your own there.

I know it is well past Christmas, but….

…I didn’t want to wait til next Christmas to do these. 🙂 I saw these soft trees first at The Sparrow’s Nest and was referred to little birds handmade for the free pattern. The blogger at little birds handmade (whose name I am afraid I don’t know) set up a Flickr group for soft trees that is really fun to look through. My, there are some wonderfully creative people out there!!!

I just wasn’t able to get to these during the Christmas season or right after, but finally did them today.

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The little plaid fabric was a 43¢ remnant, and the soft green was $1 per yard.

They are addictive! I am imagining all types of fabrics and trims! I may have a whole forest by next December. 🙂 After Christmas I found some pretty Christmas plaids at Wal-Mart for $1 a yard that would look nice.

I could even keep these out now, don’t you think? 😀

(Updated to add — this is a post from January, but I wanted to link it to Gibee’s Homemade With Love 2007 carnival. I do want to make some distinctively Christmasy ones and have them cut out but not made yet.)

Like Women of the Bible

Someone sent this to me in an e-mail years ago. The original author is unknown. This would make a good jump-start for a Bible study, but just reading over these is convicting and instructive, too:

LIKE WOMEN OF THE BIBLE

Like Deborah, I will serve the Lord in power and speak His word without fear.

Like Esther, I will intercede for God’s people before the throne.

Like Abigail, I will humble myself to wash the feet of the servants of the Lord.

Like Sarah, I will respect my spouse and his ministry to the Lord.

Like Hannah, I will dedicate my children to the Lord.

Like Priscilla, I will explain the way of God more perfectly to those who are seeking.

Like the Shunamite widow, I will trust God in the day of adversity.

Like Lydia, I will be a worshiper of God and open my home to His ministers.

Like Tabitha (Dorcas), I will always do good and help the poor.

Like Joanna, I will use my wealth to support the ministry of Jesus.

Like Mary, the mother of Jesus, I will hear the word of God to me and answer, “Be it unto me as you have said”.

Like Mary, the sister of Martha, I will know the voice of Jesus and hear his words.

Like Mary, the mother of Mark, I will make my home a haven for the followers of Jesus.

Like Mary, the Magdalene, I will keep at the feet of Jesus and love him unto death.

One of the saddest anniversaries

I hadn’t realized until late yesterday afternoon while reading Cindy’s blog at Notes In the Key of Life that yesterday was the 34th anniversary of the Roe vs. Wade decision that led to legal abortions.

I think this is one of our greatest national tragedies. It makes me unfathomably sad.

Every year at the Wed. night prayer meeting before or after this date, the man who leads our prayer time asks everyone who has been born since that date to come and sit on the first few rows. Those were the ones who were spared, who were allowed to live (I can hardly fathom that phrase, allowed to live. If it were in any other context there would be national outrage). Then to think of how much greater that number would be, to think of all the missing faces of our population due to abortion — 47,282,923, according to Carmon — it is just mind-boggling.

LaShawn Barber has an excellent blog post for that day as does Crystal at Bibilcal Womanhood.

Another why…

A while back my “Thursday Thirteen” dealt with some of the “whys” of life. There was one I had been thinking of but forgot to include: why do people in the next car or the next house like to treat everyone within earshot to their choice of music? Especially when it is loud banging music? It’s quite gracious of them to want to share their cultural experience with us, but, really, I’d prefer to just sit in my quiet, peaceful, tranquil car or home….if I only could.

Psalm Sunday: Psalm 3

In our journey through the Psalms together hosted by Erica at Butterfly Kisses, we’re looking at Psalm 3 this week. I hope you can join us!

A Psalm of David when he fled from Absalom his son.

1 Lord, how are they increased that trouble me! many are they that rise up against me.

2 Many there be which say of my soul, There is no help for him in God. Selah.

3 But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.

4 I cried unto the LORD with my voice, and he heard me out of his holy hill. Selah.

5 I laid me down and slept; I awaked; for the LORD sustained me.

6 I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people, that have set themselves against me round about.

7 Arise, O LORD; save me, O my God: for thou hast smitten all mine enemies upon the cheek bone; thou hast broken the teeth of the ungodly.

8 Salvation belongeth unto the LORD: thy blessing is upon thy people. Selah.

In this day and time in the U.S., many of us would have a hard time trying to imagine what it would be like to have to hide from an active enemy bent on destroying us. The fear and uncertainty would be multiplied in this case when David’s self-proclaimed enemy was his own son who raised up an army to overthrow him. But as was his habit, David encouraged himself in the Lord. He knew by previous experience that those who said, “There is no help for him in God” were mistaken. He knew he could call on the Lord for protection, safety, sustenance, and deliverance. He could rest his heart in the Lord.

What enemies do we have today? Our “adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour” (I Peter 5:8). “Friendship of the world is enmity with God” (James 4:4): there is a world system which has set itself against the Lord. There may come a time when we face persecution for our faith or a war on our soil. We may have smaller-scale “enemies” in the form of a rival who is after our job or a neighbor with a grievance. In every circumstance we can do as David did. Remind ourselves of God’s promises. Call out to Him for protection. Keep from falling for lies by relying on God’s truth and character. Trust Him for the outcome. Rest in His care.

The Key to Escape From Doubting Castle and Giant Despair

Excerpts from Chapter 7 of The Pilgrim’s Progress by John Bunyan:

Now there was, not far from the place where they lay, a castle, called Doubting Castle, the owner whereof was Giant Despair, and it was in his grounds they now were sleeping: wherefore he, getting up in the morning early, and walking up and down in his fields, caught Christian and Hopeful asleep in his grounds. Then with a grim and surly voice, he bid them awake, and asked them whence they were, and what they did in his grounds. They told him they were pilgrims, and that they had lost their way. Then said the giant, You have this night trespassed on me by trampling in and lying on my grounds, and therefore you must go along with me. So they were forced to go, because he was stronger than they. They also had but little to say, for they knew themselves in a fault. The giant, therefore, drove them before him, and put them into his castle, into a very dark dungeon, nasty and stinking to the spirits of these two men. Here, then, they lay from Wednesday morning till Saturday night, without one bit of bread, or drop of drink, or light, or any to ask how they did; they were, therefore, here in evil case, and were far from friends and acquaintance. Psa. 88:18. Now in this place Christian had double sorrow, because it was through his unadvised counsel that they were brought into this distress. Now Giant Despair had a wife, and her name was Diffidence: so when he was gone to bed he told his wife what he had done, to wit, that he had taken a couple of prisoners, and cast them into his dungeon for trespassing on his grounds. Then he asked her also what he had best do further to them. So she asked him what they were, whence they came, and whither they were bound, and he told her. Then she counseled him, that when he arose in the morning he should beat them without mercy. So when he arose, he getteth him a grievous crab-tree cudgel, and goes down into the dungeon to them, and there first falls to rating of them as if they were dogs, although they gave him never a word of distaste. Then he falls upon them, and beats them fearfully, in such sort that they were not able to help themselves, or to turn them upon the floor. This done, he withdraws and leaves them there to condole their misery, and to mourn under their distress: so all that day they spent the time in nothing but sighs and bitter lamentations…….

So when the morning was come, the giant goes to them again, and takes them into the castle-yard, and shows them as his wife had bidden him. These, said he, were pilgrims, as you are, once, and they trespassed on my grounds, as you have done; and when I thought fit I tore them in pieces; and so within ten days I will do you: get you down to your den again. And with that he beat them all the way thither. They lay, therefore, all day on Saturday in a lamentable case, as before. Now, when night was come, and when Mrs. Diffidence and her husband the giant was got to bed, they began to renew their discourse of their prisoners; and withal, the old giant wondered that he could neither by his blows nor counsel bring them to an end. And with that his wife replied, I fear, said she, that they live in hopes that some will come to relieve them; or that they have picklocks about them, by the means of which they hope to escape. And sayest thou so, my dear? said the giant; I will therefore search them in the morning.

Well, on Saturday, about midnight they began to pray, and continued in prayer till almost break of day.

Now, a little before it was day, good Christian, as one half amazed, brake out into this passionate speech: What a fool, quoth he, am I, thus to lie in a stinking dungeon, when I may as well walk at liberty! I have a key in my bosom, called Promise, that will, I am persuaded, open any lock in Doubting Castle. Then said Hopeful, That is good news; good brother, pluck it out of thy bosom, and try.

Then Christian pulled it out of his bosom, and began to try at the dungeon-door, whose bolt, as he turned the key, gave back, and the door flew open with ease, and Christian and Hopeful both came out. Then he went to the outward door that leads into the castle-yard, and with his key opened that door also. After he went to the iron gate, for that must be opened too; but that lock went desperately hard, yet the key did open it. They then thrust open the gate to make their escape with speed; but that gate, as it opened, made such a creaking, that it waked Giant Despair, who hastily rising to pursue his prisoners, felt his limbs to fail, for his fits took him again, so that he could by no means go after them. Then they went on, and came to the King’s highway, and so were safe, because they were out of his jurisdiction.

Now, when they were gone over the stile, they began to contrive with themselves what they should do at that stile, to prevent those that shall come after from falling into the hands of Giant Despair. So they consented to erect there a pillar, and to engrave upon the side thereof this sentence: “Over this stile is the way to Doubting Castle, which is kept by Giant Despair, who despiseth the King of’ the Celestial country, and seeks to destroy his holy pilgrims.” Many, therefore, that followed after, read what was written, and escaped the danger. This done, they sang as follows:

“Out of the way we went, and then we found
What ‘twas to tread upon forbidden ground:
And let them that come after have a care,
Lest heedlessness makes them as we to fare;
Lest they, for trespassing, his prisoners are,
Whose castle’s Doubting, and whose name’s Despair.”