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Laudable Linkage

Here’s my weekly round-up of interesting things seen round the Web. Maybe some of these will appeal to you, too.

Let Jesus Argue With Your Soul About Being Anxious. I need to read this maybe once a day or more.

Finish Like You Started. Excellent, excellent. “We start feeling capable — and our capability makes us less reliant on the very One who called us.”

Why Romance Novels Aren’t Emotional Porn. I’ve heard this charge here and there, and this post gives some good reasons to the contrary.

Cloffice Inspiration (Closet Office). Great ideas for small places.

Make your own microwave popcorn. I haven’t tried it yet, but it looks like a neat idea.

Baking Quick Breads In Your Crock Pot/ Slow Cooker, HT to Lizzie.

So How’s Your Day Going? If you feel you’re having a bad day — it might not seem so bad after seeing this!

Just a short list this week! We’re doing something special and fun today — but it is a surprise so I can’t talk about it yet. 😀 Hope you have a good weekend!

Friday’s Fave Five

Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week. This has been a wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

This week it’s been a little difficult to come up with five favorite things. It hasn’t been a bad week, per se, but there have not been any standout moments that I could easily list. I try not to repeat things on FFF, but then, I know it’s perfectly fine to be repeatedly thankful for regular occurrences. 🙂 So you might have seen a few of these before, but they’re still favorites.

1. Air conditioning.

2. The end of July. I’m not ready for the summer schedule to end but I am definitely glad this hot month is over and we’re one month closer to cooler weather in the fall. It’ll still be hot here for many weeks to come, though.

3. Pizza and movie nights with the family. Streaming Netflix has been great!

4. Encouraging comments from readers.

5. Not needing many school supplies and finding good deals on them. One really nice thing as kids get older is that they can reuse many school supplies from the previous year. I had a minimal amount to buy and was pleased to find some great deals. Even last year’s school uniforms fit!

I’m looking forward to the coming week mainly because my oldest son, Jeremy, is coming home for his birthday! We haven’t seen him since Christmas (except for Skype and Face Time), the longest stretch that we’ve been apart from any of our kids.

Hope you have a great weekend!

Randomness

I have a couple of topics in mind to blog about, but this morning after I spent time responding to comments and e-mails, there wasn’t much time left, so please forgive this random listing. 🙂

I’m trying to be better about responding to people. With most of you with whom I visit back and forth regularly, I don’t necessarily respond to every comment unless there is something specific that needs a response because we do touch base often. But with someone new I do like to visit their blog or send them an e-mail and thank them for stopping by.

Last night I was preparing a stir-fry with chicken, shrimp, and fried rice (and a few stray vegetables). Suddenly I realized that what I had just liberally doused dinner with was Worcestershire sauce rather than soy sauce. The only thing I knew to do was get the soy sauce and douse it even more liberally, hoping it would cover up the Worcestershire sauce taste. I decided not to tell my family and just see if they noticed anything: I figured if I told them the mistake ahead of time, they’d approach it with an “Ewww!” attitude. It must not have been too bad because almost everyone had seconds. Jim did ask me if it was from a mix. 🙂 After they were pretty much done, I told them about it. It did have more of a tang than stir-fry usually does, but it wasn’t horrible. I’m just glad it wasn’t completely ruined.

I wonder if Curtis Stone ever has moments like that. Somehow I doubt it.

In other news….Jesse got a car. A truck, actually. My oldest son says we’ve “gone native” Tennessean. But we’re ok as long as he doesn’t drive it without a shirt — I don’t know how many men I have seen driving trucks without shirts on without their shirts on driving a truck. Weird.

Jeremy is coming to visit next month! 😀

School starts in a couple of weeks. This will be the last year of high school for my last child. Sniff, sniff. 😦

I am definitely ready for cooler weather.

I am not sure how I am going to get exercise in, though. I like to do it before my shower, because, of course, I get sweaty. But with the usual routine I get up at 5 to have devotions, shower, dress, get ready for the day, etc., before school starts. I definitely don’t want to get up any earlier. I suppose I could do the exercise before the shower and have devotions later in the morning. But I do like to have them first before my mind starts going multiple directions. Of course, once Jesse starts driving himself (still working ion getting his full license) I won’t necessarily have to be ready for the day when he leaves school, though I’d like to be in case something’s wrong with a car and I need to run him to school. I’ll figure it out eventually.

Speaking of exercise, I’ve tweaked my routine in a way that is working out better. I had been doing 40 minutes, but on the Biggest Loser Kinect game, sometimes a 40 minute routine ended up being two 20-minute routines repeated. I didn’t like that, particularly if a given routine had a lot of unfavorite exercises anyway. So I cut it back to 30 minutes, and most days I do an additional 10-20 minutes with one of the other videos or games I mentioned or on this game’s “Freeplay” section. That’s working out pretty well. I’m just about to raise the intensity from “Light” to “Moderate.” I’ve been choosing “Moderate” for the Freeplay exercises, and that’s been going ok.

I’ve been disappointed that the weight loss has not been greater. I’ve only lost 8 1/2 lbs. in 7 weeks. But I am getting stronger and increasing stamina. I’m able to do exercises that I couldn’t or could only barely do in the beginning. One day I did the Wimp Aerobics video: a couple of years ago when I was trying to use it, with its segments A-H, I never got past E. This time I did the whole video easily without feeling tired or winded at all. So all this exercise is accomplishing something. Just not the main thing I want it to yet! I have been cutting down in a couple of areas, but I probably need to start keeping track of calories. I just hate to do that because it is so tedious, but it does help.

Well, time to stop rambling and get to the list of things to do. Thanks for stopping by to visit!

Book Review: The Way into Narnia

This may be the first time I have ever reviewed a book before I finished it. (Update: Finished 7/29/13 after finishing The Last Battle.) I didn’t set it aside because I disliked it: in fact, I liked it very much. But there is a chapter on each book in the Chronicles of Narnia series in The Way into Narnia: A Reader’s Guide by Peter Schakel, and I didn’t want to read the chapters covering the books I hadn’t reread yet. I’ll save the rest for Carrie‘s next Narnia challenge next year. But I didn’t want to wait a whole year to talk about this book!

The book first came to my attention when I looked up the Chronicles online at the local library and this book kept popping up in every search. I bristled at the title a little bit at first: it kind of rubbed me the wrong way that someone seemed to claim to have “the” right interpretation of the books (though that is not what he is claiming). But I decided to give it a try, and I am so glad I did.

Dr. Schakel had previously written or edited five books about C. S. Lewis with this being his third book on the Chronicles of Narnia, so he brings a familiarity and expertise with the subject matter to his writing. He begins with a very brief biography of Lewis recounting the influences that contributed to his writing the Chronicles, and then he gives a chapter to discussing  reading order and different texts. I knew there was a controversy about whether the books should be read in publication order or story order, but I hadn’t realized there Lewis had revised some of the text and yet current publishers publish the original rather than the revised (and improved, many believe) versions. Schakel then discusses storytelling in fairy tales, fantasy, and myth and then devotes one chapter to each of the Narnian books, discussing the plot, symbolism, etc.

This may sound a bit too much like English class for some…but I always liked English, myself. 🙂 Seriously, this is a very readable book, and Schakel brought out many insights that I had not considered or noticed.

For instance, I knew the first book took place during WWII, but it didn’t register how that time setting would have influenced reader’s feelings toward a tyrant like the white witch or a traitor like Edmund. And the tea with Mr. Tumnus, dinner with the Beavers, and various feasts must have sounded wonderful to people living with food rationing.

I also didn’t know that Lewis’s friend and colleague, J. R. R. Tolkien, didn’t like the eclecticism of Lewis’s including elements from all different kinds of mythological backgrounds (from Father Christmas to Greek and Norse myths) not because of the differing religiosity but just because he felt they didn’t “go” together.

I had read elsewhere that Lewis “came to regard pagan religions not as false but as incomplete, precursors to Christianity rather than contrary to it” (p. 9) and that explains his inclusion of some elements puzzling to some Christians. But I don’t understand how he came to that conclusion when many pagan religions worship someone or something other than the God of Judaism and Christianity. I would disagree with Lewis on that point but understanding his thinking does help in reading the books.

One of my favorite sections of the book was the discussion of fairy tales as literature. I included these quotes in another post, but wanted to share them here as well:

Fairy stories appeal to some adults and some children because the escape gained through fairy stories enables them to recover, or regain, a clear view of life, and to recover realities not recognized by those who limit reality to material objects…Tolkien says that spending time in an Other-world enables us as we return to see the everyday world renewed, noticing new mystery and complexity in creatures and objects we were taking for granted. (p. 29).

A fairy story is not “untrue”: “the peculiar quality of the joy in successful Fantasy can thus be explained as a sudden glimpse of the underlying reality or truth” on which the fairy story is constructed. It shows us “a far-off gleam or echo of evangelium” in an imaginary world and helps us recover that gleam in the everyday world we inhabit (p. 30). (Quoting a Tolkien lecture “On Fairy Stories” that Lewis edited for print.)

That just perfectly encapsulated for me the appeal of fairy tales.

Schakel also makes a compelling argument for reading the books in publication order rather than story order, going through first impressions and mentions of things in the first book of each order (The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe is the first in publication order and The Magician’s Nephew is the first in the chronology of the story) and comparing them. Reading LWW first seems to me to enhance the imagination and mystery and gradual discovery of the series.

I enjoyed reading the sections on each book as well. The chapter on Prince Caspian in particular brought out insights I had missed in the book. I had noted the place where Lucy was called to follow Aslan whether anyone else saw him or followed, but I had overlooked multiple references to believing vs. seeing — King Miraz suppressing the truth of Old Narnia to the point where the dwarves and other thought them mere myths, Caspian’s nanny and tutor believing and sharing, the discovery of relics that helped prove Old Narnia and the High Kings and Queens existed (and some, like Trumpkin, needing even further evidence before believing.) Schakel writes, “In Lewis’s thinking, the old adage must be reversed: Believing is seeing. Those who believe are able to see; those who do not believe cannot see” (p. 55). And, “In a story whose theme has been belief and trust, the decisive incidents, ironically, proceed through a series of violations of trust: the insubordination and rebellion of Nikabrik, the treachery of Glozelle and Sopespian in goading Miraz to fight and in attacking the Narnians before the combat has ended, and the infidelity of Glozelle in stabbing the fallen Miraz in the back” (p. 57). “The theme of this story, the quality that gives the book its distinctive flavor, is not that of heroism, the reliance on human efforts, but that of trust, of handing everything over and relying on Another” (p. 59). Caspian had been my least favorite of the first three books, but this discussion of it gave me a new appreciation for it.

Although the Chronicles of Narnia are highly enjoyable in themselves, this book enhanced by enjoyment and understanding of them even more. I can’t wait to read the rest of the series and this book next year. Yes, I know I could go ahead and read them all now, but having devoted most of one month to Narnia, I need to move on to other things, and I’ll wait to devote another month to the rest of the series. And like Lucy and Edmund at the beginning of Voyage of the Dawn-Treader, I’ll occasionally cast my eyes on things that remind me of Narnia and long for the day when I can return.

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)

The Week In Words Continues…

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Welcome to The Week In Words, where we share quotes from the last week’s reading. If something you read this past week  inspired you, caused you to laugh, cry, think, dream, or just resonated with you in some way, please share it with us, attributing it to its source, which can be a book, newspaper, blog, Facebook — anything that you read. More information is here.

Thanks you for your encouraging comments and votes on last week’s poll about whether The Week In Words should continue. With the exception of one lone negative vote in the poll, it looks like there is enough interest to keep it going.

I hope I didn’t sound like I was feeling sorry for myself or looking for affirmation (though in all honesty I can’t confess to being always entirely free from that….ahem… 😳 ),  but I was thinking that if there were only two or three of us interested in these posts and everyone else was skipping over them, then maybe the time and space might be better used. But I was glad to see that others read them, too. And as someone said, I would probably be posting quotes at some interval anyway, and I enjoy reading quotes you come up with, too — often they are quite convicting, thought-provoking, or entertaining.

I’ve mentioned this before, but if you don’t have a particular post for TWIW but you have a post from the previous week that contained a quote or quotes, please feel free to link that up. There have been times I’ve thought about commenting on someone’s post that “This would be a good entry for TWIW” — but I don’t want to see pushy or self-promotional. So if I ever do say that, please don’t take it that way but rather just see it as a “maybe you hadn’t thought about this, but…” kind of suggestion.

I know some of you like to save quotes from books you’re reading to share when you review or discuss the book. I do that too, except sometimes when I have way too many quotes marked to share in one review. Just occasionally I’ll repeat one here and again in the review if it is particularly striking.

Just as an FYI, my goal is to have TWIW post published Sunday night before I go to bed so it’s here first thing for those who are up early in the morning. But sometimes on Sundays I don’t have much time with the computer so I’m not able to get it up until some time Monday morning.

Okay, now that I’ve used so many of my own words….I am going to post just one quote for you this week. I saw this on Diane‘s Facebook status and loved it:

“When the devil throws our sins up to us and declares we deserve death and hell, we ought to speak thus: ‘I admit that I deserve death and hell. What of it? Does this mean that I shall be sentenced to eternal damnation? By no means. For I know One who suffered and made a satisfaction in my behalf. His name is Jesus Christ, the Son of God. Where he is, there I shall be also.’”~Martin Luther

I know his “What of it?” is not meant to be flippant but rather an answer to the “Accuser of the brethren” that that accusation is already taken care of.

If you’ve read anything that particularly spoke to you that you’d like to share, please either list it in the comments below or write a post on your blog and then put the link to that post (not your general blog link) in Mr. Linky below. I do ask that only family-friendly quotes be included.

I hope you’ll visit some of the other participants as well and glean some great thoughts to ponder. And don’t forget to leave a comment here, even if you don’t have any quotes to share! 🙂

Laudable Linkage and Videos

Here are a few things I found especially interesting out and about this week:

The Actions of Integrity. Lessons from the life of Joseph.

The New Asceticism and Investment Bankers, HT to Challies. I’ve seen reference to a number of new books advocating things like  Christians selling everything and go to or give everything to third-world countries (I haven’t read them, just seen other people’s comments about them). This author has a caution that we not go too far the other way: “If you can’t weep for the American businessman the way you do the Haitian, then you are not ready to go to Haiti.” “I’m afraid we may be misunderstanding the Gospel in all this. If we assume the disadvantaged in our inner cities (or third world countries) need the Gospel more desperately than the privileged on their boundaries, than indeed we have.”

Pondering Norway’s Darkest Hour.

Woman Convicted of Homicide After Drunk Driver Kills Her Child. Absolutely crazy.

On a lighter note:

The Fellowship of the Ring….in Legos. Very creative!

What We Can Learn From TV and Movies. A funny compilation by ivman.

Fabric-covered button bobby pins tutorial. Too cute!

I don’t have cats, but thought this was funny:

Funny Pictures - Kitteh Komic of teh Day: How Cats See Their Home

This is amazing: Shakespeare done in several celebrity voice impressions:

It’s actually much more understandable this way!

Hope you have a great weekend!

Friday’s Fave Five

Welcome to Friday’s Fave Five, hosted by Susanne at Living to Tell the Story, in which we can share five of our favorite things from the last week. This has been a wonderful exercise in looking for and appreciating the good things God blesses us with. Click on the button to learn more, then go to Susanne’s to read others’ faves and link up your own.

Here are a few favorites from the past week:

1. Jason’s birthday — actually Monday before last but celebrated last Saturday. Always fun to shower some extra love and attention on someone on their special day and let them know “We’re glad you’re here!”

2. Jason’s cake. A friend of Mittu’s made this cake shaped like a Mac book — commemorating one of Jason’s loves 🙂  along with an iPod on top.

3. This card Jesse gave to Jason. The boys don’t usually exchange cards, but when Jesse saw this he had to get it — it just “fits”!

4. Dinner at Cheddar‘s, a restaurant we had never heard of before moving here, but it is quickly becoming one of my favorites. We enjoyed sharing their Triple Treat Sampler for appetizers and then I had their baby-back ribs and grilled shrimp — the best shrimp I think I have ever had. Mouthwatering. And I had some leftovers from the meal for the next day!

5. Clear and deep thinkers who know how to express themselves in a way that is accessible to others. I’m reading Beyond Suffering: Discovering the Message of Job by Layton Talbert and The Way into Narnia: A Reader’s Guide by Peter Schakel and gaining so much insight from both.

It’s been a good week! I hope yours has been as well.

Happy weekend!

Narnia Reading Challenge Wrap-up

Chronicles of Narnia Reading Challenge Carrie’s Chronicles of Narnia Reading Challenge ends today, so I thought I’d summarize what I read for it and a few thoughts on the experience.

At first I only committed to reading The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe because I had so many other books stacked up to read. But I had forgotten that the books aren’t that long and read fairly quickly, and, after all, once you visit Narnia, you can’t wait to go back!

I ended up not getting started til about the tenth of the month due to finishing up a couple of other books. If I had started right at the beginning I may have completed the whole series. But as it was, here is what I finished (links are to my reviews/thoughts) along with one other challenge-related post:

The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe.

Prince Caspian.

Voyage of the Dawn-Treader.

The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe Graphic Novel.

Narnian Magic (not a book, but a hammering out of my thoughts on the use of magic in the series.)

As you can tell, I am reading them through in publication order rather than story order. That seems to be a big debate these days, but I can’t imagine rediscovering them with anything other than LWW first. And I like reading them in more or less the order Lewis created them (though they may not have been published in the order written) and the public first discovered them.

I’m also part-way through The Way Into Narnia: A Reader’s Guide by Peter Schakel. I am going to save the rest of it for next time because it does have a chapter on each of the books and I don’t want to read those until I have read those books. But the first chapters have been delightful: one is a short biography of C. S. Lewis and the influences in his life that contributed to and may have led to his writing the Chronicles and the other has to do with expressing truth through fairy tales. Two of my favorite quotes are:

Fairy stories appeal to some adults and some children because the escape gained through fairy stories enables them to recover, or regain, a clear view of life, and to recover realities not recognized by those who limit reality to material objects…Tolkien says that spending time in an Other-world enables us as we return to see the everyday world renewed, noticing new mystery and complexity in creatures and objects we were taking for granted. (p. 29).

A fairy story is not “untrue”: “the peculiar quality of the joy in successful Fantasy can thus be explained as a sudden glimpse of the underlying reality or truth” on which the fairy story is constructed. It shows us “a far-off gleam or echo of evangelium” in an imaginary world and helps us recover that gleam in the everyday world we inhabit (p. 30). (Quoting a Tolkien lecture “On Fairy Stories” that Lewis edited for print.)

(Update: My discussion of The Way Into Narnia is here.)

My only disappointment connected with the challenge is that I ordered a set of the series — I wanted to read my own rather than the library’s — but the box that was supposed to house the set arrived broken. So I am going to send it back and look locally for the series, and meanwhile I did use library books again this time, but that was no problem.

I so enjoyed revisiting this series. I like that the challenge immerses me in the series all at once, just as Carrie‘s Lucy Maud Montgomery challenge did earlier this year. I’m thinking I need to do this one month with Laura Ingalls Wilder and another month with Louisa May Alcott as well some time. As much as I love reading new books, and have so many stacked up to get to, I love revisiting these old friends and remembering why I loved them in the first place.

Moms of Boys Blog Hop

Mothers of BoysThe M.O.B. Society (Mothers of Boys) is having a blog hop in order to get to know each other better.

Welcome! My name is Barbara H. and I am in my early 50s. My husband Jim and I have been married for 31 years. My boys are almost 27, 24, and almost 18 (we’re in the middle of “birthday season” when the odometer rolls over for several in our family). I have one beautiful daughter-in-law, married to my middle son. Only my youngest lives at home and he is just starting his senior year of high school, so I am treasuring his last full year at home and helping him pray about college and majors and such. My mother-in-law lives in a nearby assisted living facility but we bring her over often and go visit her almost daily.

This is our last Christmas photo:

After spending most of our married lives in SC, the Lord moved us to TN almost a year ago. It’s been a year of changes and adjustments, but then, that’s life, isn’t it?

My blog is a hodgepodge. I love to write about books I have read, my family, thoughts from the Bible, encouragement to younger women, and anything else that captures my attention. I love to love as well and I think I have a fair share of humor sprinkled throughout my blog.

Some of my posts that might be of particular interest to younger moms are:

Encouragement for mothers of young children.
Motherhood advice.
Encouragement for homemakers.
A Quiet Spirit.
A mother’s nightly ritual– an original poem.
I Corinthians 13 for mothers.
Parenting teens.
Missing something? No, I don’t think so after all.
The ideal house.

The M.O.B. Society hosts asks us about favorite books of our boys. When they were little they loved Curious George, The Little Engine That Could, Golden Books, The Bible in Pictures for Little Eyes, Mike Mulligan, Keep the Lights Burning, Abbey, Jesse Bear books by Nancy White Carlstrom, books by Robert McCloskey, P. D. Eastman. My oldest, as he got into his pre-teens, liked Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs, Encyclopedia Brown, Roald Dahl books, and developed a liking for science fiction.

I hope you enjoy your visit here, and I am looking forward to “meeting” you!

The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe Graphic Novel

I discovered this book on my shelves while looking for another Narnia-related book. I don’t remember where and when I bought it or whether I ever read it to the children (I’ll have to ask them if they remember it). I didn’t remember it at all until after I read it through again.

Even though the Amazon listing calls this book a graphic novel, the book itself doesn’t have that designation anywhere on it. Perhaps they added that onto it later to make it current and trendy? I don’t know.

It is bound like a book but the illustrations, though not what I would call comic-bookish themselves, are laid out in something of a comic book or graphic novel style. I tried to get a few examples: Please forgive my fingertips in the pictures trying to hold the book open.

The book is abridged and illustrated by Robin Lawrie and was published in 1993. It appears to be out of print though I did find used copies on the Amazon and B&N sites.

I thought the illustrations themselves were lovely and far above what we think of as a comic book style. And I appreciated that many passages were straight from the books though of course many parts were summarized and several scenes left out at the book is only 64 pages.

To many of us the thought that our beloved classic fairy tale has been reduced to a graphic novel  invokes an initial reaction of horror. But we wouldn’t have the same reaction if it were called an abridged illustrated children’s version, which it could be called in one sense. Graphic novels seem to have a connotation of luridness about them though I don’t know if they truly are: my boys read a few when they were younger but were never obsessed by them, and the ones we read were fine though one shop that sold them was creepy. Too, I have no objection to good books being translated into this style for those who do read them. If there are people who only read graphic novels, why not give them a good choice of material?

Though I’d rather read to my children or have them read the full book version for all its richness, if I had one who didn’t particularly enjoy reading or was into graphic novels, I wouldn’t hesitate to let them read this version.

I do wrestle with whether I would use something like this to introduce the books. (My boys are older now so it is a moot question until grandkids come along except for philosophizing). I think I’d still rather have them read the books first and then show them something like this afterward, but I can picture letting a small child look through this while the rest of the family read the books out loud. Knowing the story, I enjoyed looking through this summary and the illustrations.

(This review will also be linked to Semicolon‘s Saturday Review of Books.)