Blue Monday & etc.

  • We had a bit of drama this morning when Jim’s mom called about 7:30 a.m. saying her hearing aid was broken. He had left already, and I told her to get her old one in the meantime, but she couldn’t find it. I went over, and thankfully figured out that the tube had just come out of the earpiece and was able to easily get it back in. It’s working fine but I am afraid it might happen again when she tales it in and out. Jim said we could probably take it in to get the tube replaced — it’s just probably gotten a little too flexible with use. Then when I went to look for her old hearing aid, I couldn’t find it, either, and almost started to panic. Turns out she had it in — but without a battery. So I replaced the battery in it and showed her where the case was and left a note for the people who work there in case it happens again.
  • Jesse’s home sick today with a pretty bad cold. I am hoping it doesn’t spread through the family.
  • Jason and his girlfriend, Mittu, have this one last day before they start back to classes, but they both have papers due, so I expect it will be a pretty quiet day. I had thought about making Christmas cookies today — I have kind of gotten away from that the last few years. But between the work they need to do and Jesse’s cold, it might not be the best time.
  • I was bummed that Toni and Dallas didn’t make it into the Amazing Race final 3. That was so sad! He’s going to be kicking himself about losing their money and passports for a long time, I’m afraid. The two guys have made so many mistakes I really felt it was their time to go. If they end up winning…I am going to be even more bummed.
  • The next two weeks are really busy both with stuff to do and things to attend. Sat. night we have out adult Sunday School Christmas party, Sunday is church as usual, Monday is the ladies’ Christmas party, Tuesday is Jesse’s first basketball game, Wed. is prayer meeting as usual, Thursday is Jesse’s piano recital, then Friday is his second BB game. I’m not one who likes to “go and do” that much — I am getting tired just thinking about it! So, since there are so many things to attend next week, I am hoping to get a bunch of stiff done this week. All I really want to do right now is sit here and fiddle around on the computer! But I need to make a master list so I can best use my time this week.
  • On to Blue Monday:

Smiling Sally hosts a Blue Monday in which we can post about anything blue — pretty, ugly, serious or funny — and then link up to other Blue Monday participants.

This is a Paula Vaughan cross stitch pattern: one of my sisters made it for me several years ago.

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I paired it with a quote of Proverbs31:24-26 in calligraphy from Doorposts which I placed in a blue frame and a partially blue mat.

Paula Vaughn piece my sister stitched for me

I thought they went well together not only because of the color but because of the reference to clothing in the verse and the dress in the cross stitch — letting our physical clothes remind us of the need to be clothed with strength and honor even in — especially in our homes.

A few scenes from Thanksgiving 08

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Thanksgiving 08

Jim set this up with the tripod and timer. In the first one, the camera missed him. In the second one, I’m blocking Jeremy. We should photoshop them together!

Thanksgiving 08

Thanksgiving 08

One of the many benefits of blogging I’ve reaped is a renewed interest in homemaking. I’ve wanted to be a stay-at-home-mom all my married life, and I am thankful the Lord has enabled that since my first pregnancy. But sometimes, especially when the kids were small, it was almost more than I could do just to keep up, much less get creative. Now that they’re older and a little more independent, I feel I am branching out creatively again, and I am so enjoying it. All that to say I just loved using little fall cookie cutters I found last year to embellish the pie with.

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Sometimes I think, living with all males, that little touches don’t matter and won’t even be noticed, but everyone commented on both this and the table set a little more nicely than usual. I’ve started using tablecloths on holidays, and it’s funny (but good!) that they notice and think it’s special.

Playing Scrabble, Grandma’s favorite.

Thanksgiving 08

Thanksgiving 08

All in all a good day. We dozed a little in the afternoon and watched Kung Fu Panda in the evening with our leftovers.

The 12 lb. turkey ended up being just right: enough leftovers for everyone to have sandwiches or to heat up some turkey with leftover stuffing and mashed potatoes a time or two, and we had Turkey Bone Soup with the last of it tonight.

We were going to get our Christmas tree Saturday, but it rained off and on all day. We figured it would be too wet and muddy (the place we always go is out in a field), especially for Grandma, and then the tree would be too wet to decorate. I’m hoping Jason and his girlfriend don’t have to work too far into the afternoon next Saturday so we can get it then.

I’m enjoying the time off, lazing around mostly between dishes and laundry. The next couple of weeks are going to be really busy, so I am kind of soaking up the relaxation now. I did get a bit of preliminary work done this afternoon when we decided not to get the tree, so that helps a little.

This song by Rebecca J. Weston has been on my heart today:

Father, we thank Thee for the night,
And for the pleasant morning light;
For rest and food and loving care,
And all that makes the world so fair.

Help us to do the things we should,
To be to others kind and good;
In all we do, in work or play,
To love Thee better day by day
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Have a good Sunday!

What Does Your Thanksgiving Meal Say About You?

Seen at Jungle Mom‘s:


What Your Thanksgiving Meal Says About You


When it comes to the holidays, you follow and love the big traditions. You look forward to them every year.

You see the holidays as a time to think about what’s important to you. It’s a good time to reflect and regroup.

You like the aspects of the holiday that remind you of your childhood – opening presents, treats, and old favorite foods.

During the holidays, you are likely to feel comforted. At your worst, you feel a bit over-indulgent.

You consider yourself to be a bit of a purist, and you’re proud of it.

You tend to spend you holidays taking care of others. Holidays are one of the times you like to give.

All pretty true, I think.

Friday’s Fave Five

Susanne at Living to Tell the Story hosts a “Friday Fave Five” in which we share our five favorite things from the past week. Click on the button to read more of the details.

1. I mentioned it earlier, but our church’s Thanksgiving praise service is one of the highlights of the year to me. The majority of the time is open for people to share testimonies, and, though we have testimonies other times, this one is just special. Often it’s a look back over the year, praising God for blessings and good times, thanking Him for grace and help and lessons learned through hard times. I don’t usually say anything, but I enjoy listening.

2. Autumn spices. We use cinnamon year round, but nutmeg, cloves, and ginger come out primarily in the fall. I was thinking as I made pumpkin pie Wednesday that I loved the smell of those spices.

3. I could probably make a whole Fave Five out of Thanksgiving — foods and smells and Pilgrim decorations and the opportunity to stop and count my blessings. Though we’re supposed to be thankful year round, it’s just a special time and emphasis.

4. Everyone’s having time off from school and work and regular routines.

5. Naps. Any time, but especially Thanksgiving Day after the meal and clean-up.

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I am thankful for…

Glad Thanksgiving Day

For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, For love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

God. I don’t mean to sound trite or flippant by including God on a list. Without Him nothing else would be possible. I am thankful for Who He is and for all He has done, for the attributes of His character: justice, grace, mercy, longsuffering, kindness, righteousness, and so much more.

Family. Though we’re not perfect, I am glad God gave us to each other, and I dearly love each one.

Church. What a privilege to be able to meet freely and fellowship with a body of believers who love and support each other.

The Bible: What a wonderful book! Multitudes of times God has given me exactly what I needed at just the right time through it, encouragement, instruction, rebuke, inspiration. A true treasure trove.

Creation. Though marred by the fall, this world still has a lot of beauty in which we see the Creator’s hand.

Music. It speaks to my heart like nothing else.

Technology. I am very glad to love in the age we do.

Thanksgiving. Though we should be thankful every day, I am glad for this special emphasis and reminder to stop and count our blessings.

“Online friends.” What a blessing you have been to me since I started blogging!

Multitudes of little things — it really is hard to stop counting your blessings once you start!

I enjoyed going over again a Thanksgiving Bible Study I did last year, especially “reasons to thank the Lord” and “results of thanking the Lord.” I actually had forgotten I had done it and almost did it again this year, which would have been fine, too.

I hope you all have a wonderful, blessed Thanksgiving Day!

It is a good thing to give thanks unto the LORD, and to sing praises unto thy name, O most high: To shew forth thy lovingkindness in the morning, and thy faithfulness every night. Psalm 92:1-2.

(Graphic courtesy of Christian Clip Art)

Preparing for Thanksgiving

One of my favorite church services of the year is our Thanksgiving Praise service, usually held the Tuesday night before Thanksgiving in place of usual Wed. night prayer meeting. It’s a time when the floor is open for testimonies, and it’s such a joy to hear people speak about the Lord’s hand in their lives over the past year.

God is good.

By the way, thanks to many of you for the reminders (on the post about Castlepoint closing) that when God closes a door, He has something else in mind, something even more suited for those involved. That’s one of those things I know but temporarily lost sight of while absorbing the shock and suddenness of the news. We can trust Him for the future — He already sees it and is preparing us for it.

Today will be a busy day. Jesse has his sports physical for basketball this morning, then I have pies to make this afternoon. I have to confess I use frozen pie crusts. We don’t have much counter space to roll out pie crusts, and it’s such a mess, and frozen ones aren’t that expensive.

I got a free turkey — a local grocery store awarded points for each shopping trip there over the last few weeks. But the ones they gave out were a little over 12 lbs., and then I feared that might not be enough for 7 people — the five of us, Jim’s mom, and Jason’s girlfriend, and possibly a friend of theirs from school who wasn’t able to go home for the holidays. I usually get about an 18 lb. one. According to one cookbook you should allow 1/2 lb. per serving if the turkey is over 12 lbs., 3/4 lb. per person if under 12 lbs. I think it will be okay — I hope. I don’t mind not having leftovers to put in the freezer for future casseroles, but we like enough to make turkey sandwiches or heat up a plate of leftovers Thanksgiving evening and the next day, and then to make Turkey Bone Soup.

Jesse has a half-day of school today, but everyone else is off for the rest of the week. We don’t usually get our tree right after Thanksgiving, but we’ve talked about it this year since everyone will be off over the weekend. Other than that we don’t have any plans. Maybe play some games, watch some DVDs, and relax. NO shopping on Friday — I’d rather wait til weekday mornings when it’s not crowded. Jim wanted to start painting the outside of the house, but it’s been pretty cold lately, so I don’t know if he’ll start that this week or not. But with everyone here, posting might be lighter than usual. Then again everyone does take time to do their own things, so we’ll see.

Happy Thanksgiving Eve!

What’s on your nightstand?

What's On Your Nightstand
The folks at 5 Minutes For Books host What’s On Your Nightstand? the last Tuesday of each month in which we can share about the books we have been reading and plan to read. You can learn more about it by clicking the link or the button: the participants for this month are linking here.

I am 3/8″ (264 pages) through my 2″ thick (1,463 pages) copy of Les Miserables by Victor Hugo.

Thick book!

I had read a couple of different abridged versions, but I had wanted to read the complete unabridged version. I am enjoying it. There are places where it is a bit tedious and sections that are more drawn out than a modern reader would generally like, but there are moments of sheer beauty and times when I’ve read several pages without realizing it. I am looking forward to reviewing it — whenever I get done with it.

I’ve finished six out of the ten books on my Fall Into Reading list, but I am veering off course now. I’ve never specifically read Christmas books during the Christmas season before until last year, but I really enjoyed that. I was in the Christian bookstore Saturday and saw a whole shelf of Christmas books, many on sale. So I picked up All I Have to Give by Melody Carlson, which I’ve just started, A Merry Little Christmas which is a compilation of two novellas, one by Catherine Palmer and one by victorian-christmasJillian Hart, and A Victorian Christmas: Sentiments and Sounds of a Bygone Era. Isn’t it a pretty book? It has a CD in it that I’ve not listened to yet. Then I just remembered recently I had a copy of @ Home for the Holidays with the same characters from SAHM I Am by Meredith Efken about a group of women who stay in touch via an e-mail loop. I picked it up on a clearance table earlier in the year and decided to save it for the holidays.

And then I really wanted to reread To the Golden Shore by Courtney Anderson about America’s first missionary, Adoniram Judson, before the Fall Into Reading Challenge ended Dec.22.

So it looks like I’ll be plenty busy!

Sad, yet…

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For 4 or 5 summers now my middle son has worked at Castlepoint Ministries (formerly Lucerne Christian Camp and Conference Center) in CA. He first went there after his junior year of high school. We were concerned about him being away that long at that age, but it was a transformational summer for him in many ways. He worked on op staff (kitchen work, yard work, maintenance, cleaning, etc.) for a couple of years, then counseled for a couple of years, and this last year was a team leader. From that first summer on he wanted to go into camp work, and I think probably from that first summer he had a desire to eventually work at Castlepoint. This last summer his girlfriend worked there as well, partly because he felt called to this work and they wanted her to get a taste of it and see if she felt led to it as well before they committed themselves any further in their relationship.

Last week we received a prayer request that the camp was facing dire financial needs and the board was considering closing the camp. We were stunned. My son said this last summer had been one of the best summers for the camp both financially and spiritually, so he was surprised. Come to find out a lot of rental groups had canceled out for the fall and winter because of the economy, plus the camp was facing some necessary repairs that they didn’t have the reserves to handle. Plus the operational expenses were increasing.

There was an immediate outpouring and prayer and support and offers of financial assistance, so our hope was that perhaps the Castle’s needs would be met. But the board met Friday and decided to close the camp at the end of December.

I’ve been very sad about it since I heard, and a part of me still hopes the board might change its mind. But I have to remember that this didn’t take God by surprise, and He has a plan and purpose for all involved.

I would love for a Christian group to be able to take it over, but it is expensive to run and needs a lot of repairs that they mostly had to wait to do until a volunteer group from a supporting church could come and help. It’s a neat old building. If I remember correctly, it was built as a resort hotel in the 1920s by a man whose company had something to do with sprinklers for buildings (we noticed when we visited that there was an overabundance of sprinklers in the building. The camp director told us the fire marshal once said there would be more danger of drowning than smoke or fire damage. 🙂 ) But then the Great Depression hit and the hotel went out of business to eventually be bought and turned into a camp. As much as I’d love for it to remain a Christian retreat center, I don’t think many Christian groups would have the money it needs to get in shape. There aren’t many independent fundamental churches in CA, and I think most of them are not very big. So I am guessing it might return to a resort if they can find an investor. It’s right on a huge lake.

If you feel so led, I would appreciate prayer for all involved, from the camp director to the cook, as they look for a new place of ministry, for wisdom for the board as they make decisions, and for the future of the property. My heart especially goes out to my son Jason — he and some others who love Castlepoint had even talked about working in the same town to support themselves and then volunteering at the camp since the camp couldn’t hire any more staff: one of his friends was planning to move there in the next few months. This has been Jason’s focus and goal for years, and now in his senior year in college he needs to find a new direction. He is understandably sad but taking it well, trusting God for the future.

Blue Monday: Jewelry

Smiling Sally hosts a Blue Monday in which we can post about anything blue — pretty, ugly, serious or funny — and then link up to other Blue Monday participants.

I thought today I would show a couple of pieces of jewelry I have with blue. In fact, I think this is the only jewelry I have with blue, which is a little odd considering I’ve had a lot of blue clothes over the years.

I’m not real big into jewelry, and I am kind of particular, but I do love the pieces I have. This is one of my favorites, given to me by my husband.

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This was a necklace from an aunt and uncle when they lived in Jamaica for a time.

Necklace of beads from Jamaica

I believe it is made from some type of seeds. I wore it quite a bit as a teen-ager. I haven’t worn it in a long time, but I still treasure it because they thought of me and got it for me.

Thanks to God

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Thanks to God for my Redeemer,
Thanks for all Thou dost provide!
Thanks for times now but a memory,
Thanks for Jesus by my side!
Thanks for pleasant, balmy springtime,
Thanks for dark and stormy fall!
Thanks for tears by now forgotten,
Thanks for peace within my soul!

Thanks for prayers that Thou hast answered,
Thanks for what Thou dost deny!
Thanks for storms that I have weathered,
Thanks for all Thou dost supply!
Thanks for pain, and thanks for pleasure,
Thanks for comfort in despair!
Thanks for grace that none can measure,
Thanks for love beyond compare!

Thanks for roses by the wayside,
Thanks for thorns their stems contain!
Thanks for home and thanks for fireside,
Thanks for hope, that sweet refrain!
Thanks for joy and thanks for sorrow,
Thanks for heav’nly peace with Thee!
Thanks for hope in the tomorrow,
Thanks through all eternity!

~ Au­gust L. Storm, 1891

(Graphic courtesy of Snapshots of Joy)